Lokhu kuhlanganisa ulimi lomzimba wakho nokuthi yini eyaziwa ngokuthi "amapelwimi" - izakhi zenkulumo yakho ngaphandle kwamagama, njengezwi lakho lokukhuluma, isivinini sokukhuluma, ukuyeka nokububula, nesimo sobuso.
Ukukhulumisana okungenangqondo kuhlanganisa nokugqoka nokuzilungisa kwakho.
Ukukhulumisana okungabonakali kubaluleke kakhulu, noma kubaluleke nakakhulu kunokukhulumisana ngamazwi. Oxoxisana naye uzobe ebuka ukuxhumana kwakho okungenasibindi kulo lonke lolu daba. Uma amakhono akho okukhulumisana angenawo amazwana angakapheli, akusho ukuthi uphendula kanjani kahle le mibuzo.
Izindaba Zokuxhumana Okungaqondile
Izindaba zokungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokushesha uma uhamba emnyango. Uma ufika ekuxoxweni kokubhema ugwayi noma ukuhlafuna i-gum, uzobe usenaso isiteleka esisodwa ngokumelene nawe. Amakha amafutha amaningi noma angeke adle okwanele angeke asize noma.
Ukungagqoke ngendlela efanele noma izicathulo ezigcotshiwe kuzokunika isiteleka sesibili. Ukukhuluma ngomakhalekhukhwini wakho noma ukulalela umculo ngenkathi ulinde ukubizwa ngokuthi ingxoxo kungaba isiteleka sakho sokugcina.
Okubalulekile uma ukuxoxisana kuzovela ochwepheshe, okuqaphele, nokuqiniseka kuyo yonke inqubo yokuxoxisana .
Indlela Yokulungiselela
Khumbula ukuthi isithombe oxoxwa ngayo naye uma eqala ukuhlangana nawe nguye ozogcina. Uma unamahloni, unamahloni noma unamahloni, akunandaba ukuthi uphendula kanjani imibuzo yokuxoxa. Ngeke uthole umsebenzi.
Uma uqhuba i-interview, sebenzisa ukuxhumana kwakho okungaxhunywanga kanye namanye amakhono akho okuxoxisana.
Kungaba ukuthi yini emitholampilo yokunikezelwa komsebenzi kuwe. Ungenza umkhuba nomngane noma umqeqeshi we-interview oqhuba ingxoxo ehlekisayo bese ekunika impendulo. Ungakwazi futhi ukuveza ifilimu ngokwakho futhi ubuyekeze ukuxhumana kwakho okungaqondile.
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ucwaningwane, qiniseka ukuthi ugqoke ngokuzikhandla , uhlotshiswe kahle, izicathulo zakho ziphosiwe, futhi awukhiphelanga amafutha noma emva kwalokho (akekho okungcono kakhulu kunalokho).
Okuzoletha Ingxoxo
Kukhona izinto okufanele uzingenise nazo ekuxoxweni kanye nezinto okudingayo ukushiya ekhaya. Ukulandela iseluleko kulezi zihlu kuzosiza ekuthuthukiseni ukuxhumana kwakho okungaxhunywanga:
- Iphothifoliyo noma umnikazi we-pad enekhophi yokuqhubeka kwakho kanye nohlu lwezinkomba ezisekhasini lekhwalithi
- Amasampula omsebenzi (uma kufanele)
- I-Notepad ne-pen
- I-Breath mint (ngaphambi kokuthi ungene esakhiweni)
- Abesifazane: pair pair of pantyhose (gcina esikhwameni sakho noma imoto)
Okungahambisani Nengxoxo
- Umakhalekhukhwini
- I-Gum
- Cigarettes
- Candy
- Soda noma ikhofi
- Izicathulo ezithuthukisiwe, izingubo ezingcolile kanye / noma ezingekho-ezihlanzekile
Ngesikhathi Ulinda
Indlela ohlala ngayo ekamelweni lokubambela, indlela obingelela ngayo umamukeli kanye nomuntu oxoxisana naye, nendlela olindele ngayo, bonke bayoba nomthelela wokuthi uzocatshangelwa yini umsebenzi.
Yiba nobungane futhi ujabulise, kodwa ungabi nokukhathazeka. Uma udinga ukulinda, hlala uthule (akukho izingcingo) futhi ngesineke.
Shake izandla nomuntu obuza imibuzo. Ukubamba ngesandla kufanele kuqiniseke - hhayi okunamathelayo noma okuthinta. Ukuze ugweme izintende zezandla, vakashela ekamelweni lokuphumula, geza izandla zakho, bese uzigijima ngaphansi kwamanzi apholile ngaphambi kwengxoxo. Gcina izintende zezandla zakho zivulekele kunokuba uzibophe ebhasini bese ugcina izicubu zakho ephaketheni lakho (ngokuqondakalayo) zizisule.
Ukuxhumana Okungaqondile Phakathi Nengxoxo
- Hlangana nomuntu obuza imibuzo ngemizuzwana embalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Smile bese ugoqa (ngezikhathi ezifanele) lapho oxoxisana naye ekhuluma, kodwa ungadluli. Ungase uhleke ngaphandle kokuthi oxhumana naye eqala kuqala.
- Yiba nehlonipho futhi ugcine ngisho nezwi lakho enkulumweni yakho. Ungabi kakhulu kakhulu noma uthule kakhulu.
- Ungadli.
- Yenza uphumule futhi ulindele kancane kancane kumuntu obuza imibuzo ukuze ubonakale unentshisekelo futhi uhlanganyela.
- Unganciki emuva. Uzobukeka ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile.
- Gcina izinyawo zakho phansi kanye nomhlane wakho ngokumelene nesihlalo esingaphansi kwesihlalo.
- Hlala uqaphele oxoxisana naye. Thatha amanothi uma ukhathazekile ngeke ukhumbule okuthile.
- Lalela.
- Ungaphazamisi.
- Hlala uzolile. Ngisho noma ngabe unesipiliyoni esibi esimweni esedlule noma ususiwe, gcina imizwa yakho futhi ungabonisi intukuthelo noma ukhala.
- Awuqiniseki ukuthi wenzani ngezandla zakho? Bamba ipeni ne-notepad yakho noma ubeke ingalo esihlalweni noma emgodini wakho, ngakho ubheka ukhululekile. Ungavumeli izingalo zakho zijikeleze ekamelweni lapho wenza iphuzu.
Ukuxhumana Okungaqondile Ekupheleni Kokuxoxisana
Ngaphambi kokushiya lolu daba, qiniseka ukuthi unikeza oxoxisana naye ngokubambisana ngokuqinile nokumomotheka. Lapho usuka ngaphandle, tshela noma ubani owakhulume naye ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana.
Yiqiniso, ukukhulumisana kwakho ngamazwi kubalulekile futhi. Ungasebenzisi i-slang. Khuluma ngokucacile futhi nakanjani. Khumbula imikhuba yakho bese ubonga lowo oxoxa naye ngokuthatha isikhathi sokuhlangana nawe.