Ngisho noma abantu abambalwa beshada, ngokusho kwemithombo ehlukahlukene yezibalo, labo abathatha lesi sinyathelo badala.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi, ngokuvamile, imibhangqwana isungulwe futhi ngakho-ke inemali engaphezulu yokuchitha ngosuku lwabo olukhethekile. Kusho nokuthi basematasa kakhulu emsebenzini, mhlawumbe abanaso isikhathi esiningi sokuhlela izindaba zabo siqu. Yilapho usizo lobuchwepheshe lungena khona.
Uyini Umhleli Womshado?
Kusukela e- African Wedding Guide : "... indima yomxhumanisi womshado yukuthi umgqugquzeli, umlamuleli, umphathi wemali, umdwebi wezandla kanye nomakhi wamaphupho." Uma ngabe uke waba ngumakoti, umkhwenyana, noma ngisho nomyeni oshadile, uyazi nokuthi uhlobo lokucindezeleka oluhlela umshado lungabangela. Engeza kule ncazelo engenhla, isazi, ibhodi yokuzwakalayo, umlamuleli, ngisho nokushaya isikhwama, ngokuyisimangaliso, uma izinzwa ezikhwanyiswayo zidlalwa.
Ukuqeqeshwa Okudingekayo Nemfundo
Abahleli bomshado abaningi baqeqeshwe njengabahleli bemicimbi bese bebheka ngokukhethekile ukuhlela umshado. Kwabanye, lokho kusho ukuhola i-bachelor degree ekuphathweni kokungenisa izihambi noma insimu ehlobene.
Abanye abaqeqeshwa ngokusemthethweni futhi bafunde amakhono abo emsebenzini. Labo abazisebenzayo kufanele baqale bafunde ukuphatha nokuthuthukisa amabhizinisi abo.
Amanye amakhono amakhono aphansi- okuchazayo okungajwayele ukuzuza ngokuqeqesha okusemthethweni- kuzokusiza uphumelele kulo msebenzi. Kumele uhlale uzolile lapho ubhekene nobunzima.
Kumele futhi ube ngumuntu siqu futhi, njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, uxoxisana kahle. Ungumlomo womakoti nomkhwenyana uma kuziwa ekutholeni indawo nokuqasha umlimi wezimbali, ibhendi, i-photographer, kanye nomthengisi. Kumele ukwazi ukuthola inkonzo enhle kumanani aphansi kakhulu. Idumela lakho lizoxhomeka kulo. Ikhono lokuxhumana linabalulekile. Uma ungakwazi ukusungula ukuxhumana okuhle, kuzokusiza uthole amadili angcono kakhulu. Akukhona konke. Ukugijima ibhizinisi lakho siqu, kanye nokuphatha imali yabanye abantu, kudinga ukuthi ube ngumuntu okwazi ukuphatha imali. Kumele futhi uhleleke kahle kakhulu.
Umhleli womshado kufanele abe nomqondo omuhle wemfashini. Kufanele wazi ngombala, umculo, nezimbali. Ulwazi oluhle lwezinkolo luyadingeka ngoba umkhosi womshado uvame ukuba unkolo. Okuhlobene nalokhu ulwazi lwamasiko namasiko, okuyingxenye yemikhosi eminingi yomshado. Hlela ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ufunda omagazini bamanje bodali, okukhona abaningi, ukuhambisana nezimo zakamuva.
Izinzuzo
Abahleli bemicimbi ababenzela abanye bathola umholo wonyaka waminyaka yonke we $ 46,020 kanye neholo eliphakathi kwamahora angu-22.13 ngo-2011 (US). Ngesikhathi abahleli bomshado bewela ngaphansi kwalesi sigaba, amaholo abo angase ahluke.
Izinzuzo kulabo abasebenza ngokweqile ziyahlukahluka ngokwezindleko zabo zokukhokha. Ngokwephuzu, abahleli bomshado bakhokhela imali ephansi, isilinganiso sehora noma iphesenti yesikweletu somshado esiphelele, esukela kumaphesenti angu-10 ukuya kwangu-20. Bakhuthaza imibhangqwana ukuba ibeke eceleni amaphesenti angu-15 ebhajethi yabo. Esinye isihloko esinesisindo sithi izindleko zomshado, ngokwesilinganiso, zingamaRandi angu-28,400. Lokhu kusho ukuthi abahleli bomshado bangathola imali ejwayelekile ye $ 4200. I-athikili ye-Enterpreneur.com ibika imali ephansi. Bathi ukuchitha imali kubalingani ngu-$ 1466 ngomshado ngamunye.
Izindleko zokuqala
Noma ubani ocabanga ngokuvula ibhizinisi kufanele acabangele izindleko zokuqala. Lezi zindleko zebhizinisi lokuhlela umshado zingaba ngaphansi kuka-$ 2000, ngokusho kwe-Entrepreneur.com, ngoba umuntu angasebenza ekhaya lakhe. Nakuba ungadingi isikhala sehhovisi, usadinga isabelomali semishini yehhovisi, ukuthengisa ibhizinisi lakho nokuthenga izingubo zokusebenza ezifanele.
Izinsiza
I-Association of Bridal Consultants
Inhlangano esemthethweni yomkhakha womshado.
Ngakho Ufuna Ukuba Umbonisi Womshado
Kusukela kuHlelo Lomshado Wase-Afrika . Kufaka uhlu oluhle kakhulu lwamakhono adingekayo kanye nokucabangela okubalulekile.