Ukubeka imigomo yonyaka noma izinqumo zonyaka omusha
Ekupheleni konyaka, abomama basekhaya (nabo bonke abanye) bacabanga ngokubeka izinqumo zonyaka omusha. Nakuba unyaka omusha yisikhathi esihle sokuba ama-WAHM abuyekeze imigomo yobuchwepheshe neyomuntu siqu, singakwenza njalo unyaka wonke. Eqinisweni, ukuze sifinyelele impumelelo ngezinqumo zonyaka omusha, kumele sigcine lezi zinhloso engqondweni yonke unyaka. Ngenkathi wonke umuntu kufanele azenzele izinqumo zakhe siqu, nansi imigomo embalwa labo abasebenza ekhaya bangase bafune ukucabangela.
01 Thola okuhleliwe. Hlala uhlelekile.
02 Landela imithetho yomhlaba oyibekayo.
Imithetho esemthethweni yasemsebenzini iyadingeka ukuze kube nokulinganisela okuhle phakathi komsebenzi nokuphila ekhaya. Kodwa uma bengacindezelwa, akusizi ngalutho. Unomsebenzi ophindwe kabili wokuphoqa imithetho futhi ulandele wena. Qaphela ubuthakathaka bakho endaweni ngayinye, ngakho-ke wazi ukuthi ungagxila kuphi imizamo yakho. Uma imithetho ingasebenzi, yenza okusha.
03 Beka isikhathi eside, imigomo yesikhathi esifushane nansuku zonke.
Noma yiziphi izinhloso zakho-ngokulandela imithetho yomhlaba, ukukhulisa ibhizinisi lakho, ukunciphisa umzimba, ukuchitha isikhathi esengeziwe nomndeni-ngeke uzuze uma ungawenzi umzamo ohlangene. I-inertia ivame ukusigcina ngendlela efanayo, ngaphandle uma sibeka imigomo yokudlulisela phambili. Futhi emnothweni omubi noma ngokushintsha umthamo womndeni (njengokuzalwa kwengane), ngezinye izikhathi kudingeka sisebenze kanzima ukuze silondoloze lokho esinakho. Ngakho-ke kufanele sibeke imigomo.
Kodwa imigomo kufanele iphulwe ibe yizicucu zesisu. Qala ngemigomo yakho yonke futhi usebenze emuva kuze kube yilapho ubona ukuthi imigomo yakho yansuku zonke kufanele ibe yikufezekisa.
04 Ukubhekana neziphazamiso ezingcono.
Ukuphazamiseka kuyinkinga kuwo wonke umama osebenza ekhaya. Futhi akuzona izingane zonke eziphazamisayo njalo. Ngokuvamile iziphazamiso zivela ngendlela yokusebenza endlini, abangane, abashadile, i-TV noma i-Intanethi. Thola ukuphazamiseka kwakho okuvame kakhulu futhi usethe umgomo wansuku zonke ukubhekana nawo. Ukuze uthole okwengeziwe mayelana nokubhekana neziphazamiso, bheka lawa macebiso ekusebenzelaneni neziphazamiso.
05 Yamukela noma wamukele ushintsho.
Izinto zihlala zishintsha nezingane. Bazuza amakhono amasha futhi babonise imibono eyinkimbinkimbi nsuku zonke. (Zibuye zikhule nomkhuba owodwa omubi futhi zibe enye!) Abazali kumele baqaphele lapho izingane zilungele imithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo kanye nemisebenzi ngaphandle kokuyilayisha ngokweqile. Amamama omsebenzi ngendlu amaningi emaqenjini abo angathola kulula ukwenza umsebenzi ngokwabo kunokuchitha isikhathi sokufundisa ingane. Kodwa gwema lokho kukhuthaza, futhi ujabulele lezo zikhathi zokufundisa nezingane zakho.
06 Hlala ufundisiwe.
Ukuntuleka komphakathi endaweni yomsebenzi kulabo abasebenza ekhaya kungasho ukulahlekelwa ukuthintana nokuthuthukiswa kochwepheshe ezintsha. Ehhovisi, izingxoxo zansuku zonke noma izindaba zezinkampani zisixwayisa ngoshintsho embonini yethu. Ekhaya, singase siphuthelwe kulokho, ngakho-ke omama basekhaya kufanele bathathe imithwalo yemfundo yabo eqhubekayo.
07 Inethiwekhi emphakathini nasemisebenzini.
Ngaphandle kwemfundo ehlelekile, omama basekhaya nabasebenzi bangakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuthuthukiswa kwezinsizakalo ezintsha ensimini yabo ngokuxhumana nabanye abaqeqeshiwe.
Kodwa ungayinaki ukuxhumana nabantu. Ukuxhumana nabanye abazali esikoleni somntanakho, omakhelwane noma abangane abadala akugcini nje ukugcwalisa, kusebenza futhi. Bangakuqaphelisa amathuba emfundo nokuzijabulisa emphakathini wakho. Ungashintsha ngisho nokunakekelwa kwezingane nabomama abahlala ekhaya nabasebenza ekhaya obaziyo. Ukuchitha isikhathi isikhathi eside nabangani kuyinto ejabulisayo nje.
08 Yenza isikhathi sakho.
Amamama omsebenzi wendlu angazitholela ngaphandle komzuzu owodwa wesikhathi somuntu siqu. Kuwe kuwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu akukwenzeki. Thola okuthandayo ukwenza futhi wenze isikhathi. Ukufunda injabulo, ukuphuma "izinsuku" nomlingani wakho, ukuzithandela, noma ukuvakashela i-spa oyikhonzile kuyizinto ezimbalwa nje. Ngisho noma nje ukuhamba noma ukugeza okuthulile, lezo zikhathi zisinika ithuba lokufaka kabusha.
09 Jabulela umndeni wakho!
Ake sivume nje. Ukuchitha sonke leso sikhathi nomndeni kungase kube ukukhathazeka ngezinye izikhathi. Isikhathi esisodwa sezimpikiswano ungase uzibuze ukuthi kungani ungasebenzi ehhovisi. Kodwa uyazi ukuthi kungani wenza lokhu, kunjalo? Izinzuzo zokusebenza ekhaya ziningi. Ngami, ngokuphathelene nokwabelana ngezigigaba, ukuzwa ukulingwa nokuncintisana kosuku lwesikole nokuhamba imizuzwana engu-30 kimi ehhovisi lasekhaya.