Isikhathi Esincane Sokuba Babysitting
Isikhathi esincane sokusebenza sihlukahluka nguhulumeni ; Kodwa-ke, izifunda eziningi azikho iminyaka yobudala bokuthola izingane. Omunye umbhali uzame ukubuthana futhi afike ngaphezu kokubili kwezintathu zombuso ongekho iminyaka echazwe, engu-10 ngesilinganiso esincane esiphakanyisiwe, futhi amahlanu kuphela asetshenziswa iminyaka ephansi echazwe, ephakathi kwamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye (Maryland, North Carolina) kuya ku-10 (Oregon, New Mexico, nase-14 (Illinois) ubudala.
Imithetho ingashintsha, ikakhulukazi uma kukhona inhlekelele edala umthetho omusha. Udinga ukuhlola nomnyango wakho wezempilo wezempilo kanye nenhlalakahle noma izinsizakalo zezingane kanye nemindeni. Lokhu kusho ukuthi emazweni amaningi, ukuzimisela ukuthi ingane encane ingaqala kanjani ukubeletha cishe kuyoba abazali ukuba banqume. Bobabili abazali bomntwana kanye nabazali bezingane uzobheka isidingo sokucabangela ukuthi uvuthiwe ngokwanele emsebenzini.
Ubudala bokuthola izingane
Iminyaka ehlukahlukene yezingane ingabantwana. Izingane eziningi ziqala ukuhlala izingane ezineminyaka engama-12 futhi ziqhubeke nokufunda izingane zabo eminyakeni eyishumi nambili. Izingane ezincane kakhulu ukuba zizitholele ngokuzimela zingasebenza njengomsizi womama (umzali uhlala ekhaya ngesikhathi somsebenzi wokuthola izingane).
Izinto ezenzeka esikhathini sokuzalwa kwezingane
- Ukuphepha: I- Red Cross yokufundela izingane iphakanyiswa izingane ezineminyaka engu-11 kuya kwengu-15 ukuqala ukubeletha. Ububanzi beminyaka yobudala yisiqondiso esihle sokusebenzisa kusukela inkambo ibonakala ezweni lonke. Sebenzisa ukuqaphela nokwahlulela uma unquma ingane eneminyaka engu-10 noma encane idala ngokwanele ukuba ibhujithali. Uma ingane yakho ibonisa isithakazelo ekukhuliseni izingane, menze ahambe e-Red Cross inkambo ngakho uyaqonda ukuthi umsebenzi uyodinga yini. Lokho kuzomlungiselela usuku ozwa ngalo lungile, futhi luzokuqinisekisa ukuthi uthola ukuqeqeshwa.
- Ukuvuthwa: Isikhathi lapho izingane zingaqala khona ukubeletha ngokuvamile kuxhomeke ekuthini ingane ibhekene nayo. Ijaji elihle kakhulu lokukhula kwengane yakho nguwe. Izingane ziyahlukahluka kakhulu ngokuzikhandla komzimba wabo nokukhula nokuthi isinqumo sabo kanye nomthwalo wabo wemfanelo ukhula ngokushesha kangakanani. Yeka ukuthi ukhululekile kanjani ukushiya izingane zakho ezincane ekhaya zodwa nomntanakho? Ungazizwa kanjani ushiya ikhaya lakhe yedwa nomntwana? Uma ingane yakho ingakakulungeli ukubeletha, mkhuthaze ukuba afune imisebenzi yomsizi womama aze alungele.
- Ubudala bezingane: Ukuzalwa komntwana kuzoxhomeka ezidingo zomntwana. Ngokuqondile, izinsana zingadinga ingane ukuba isencane. Izingane ezikhuthele kakhulu zizodinga umsizi ozozigcina ezibandakanyekile futhi zingekho ezimbi. Izingane ezinesidingo esikhethekile noma izinkinga zokuziphatha zingadinga umntwana ovuthiwe noma owodwa ngamakhono okunakekela noma ukuxoxisana nengane.
- Abazali Bengane: Okokugcina, abazali abashiya izingane zabo nengane yakho bayonquma ukuthi sebekulungele yini ukuvumela ingane yakho ukuba ibasize. Bayibaqashi futhi uyisisebenzi.