Lena ingenye yale mibuzo ebucayi yokuxoxisana.
Awufuni ukusho ukuthi awuzange wenze lutho olususile ngalo, ngoba akekho ophelele.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, awufuni ukuthi "into embi kakhulu" ibe yinto engalungile ngempela, njengento engekho emthethweni, engekho emthethweni noma enonya.
Gcina it Ukukhanya
Enye indlela yokuphendula ukugcina impendulo yakho eceleni. Isibonelo, ungase unikeze isibonelo sento encane owashiya yona ehilela abazali bakho noma izingane zakubo noma isikole (ukuhlala isikhathi eside, ukudonsa i-prank, njll).
Ungase futhi uphendule umbuzo ngokuzungezile futhi unikeze isibonelo sento "engcono kakhulu" oyilahlekile. Isibonelo, ungase uchaze ukuthi wenza isenzo esihle kumngane futhi akazange athole ukuthi nguwe. Noma kunjalo, awufuni ukuzwakala uphelele, ngakho-ke ungaphetha ngesibonelo esisheshayo, esibucayi sezinto ezingathandeki ukuthi ulahlekile.
Thatha isikhathi sakho
Into okufanele uyikhumbule ngemibuzo ekhohlisayo ukuthi kuhle ukuthi uthathe isikhashana noma ezimbili ukuhlela impendulo.
Bese uthembekile, ukukhuluma ngokulinganayo, ngakho uphendula lo mbuzo, kodwa hhayi ngendlela engenza umbuzo oxhumana naye angafuni ukukuqasha.
Gcina impendulo yakho - nezwi lakho - elihle ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ayikho impendulo efanele noma engalungile kulezi zinhlobo zemibuto. Kunalokho, ababuzwayo banesithakazelo ngokuyinhloko endleleni ophendula ngayo nangokwakheka nesimo sengqondo ozibonisa ngenkathi wenza kanjalo.
Izimpendulo zempendulo
- Angikaze ngibe nomngani wezinkinga, ngisho nangomfana osemusha. Ngicabanga ukuthi into enkulu engiye ngayiphila yayiyi-Prank yasekolishi engisizile ukuhlela nokuhlela. Saphendulela wonke ama-desksi ahlasele phansi kuwo wonke amakilasi. Ngiyakuthanda ukuzijabulisa, ubudlelwane obuhle nabalingani bami, nakuba ngicabanga ukuthi izinsuku zami ze-pranking seziphelile!
- Ngenkathi lokhu empeleni kuyinto enhle, into enkulu engiye ngayihamba nayo yayisiza ukuhlela ikhefu elimangazayo kumngane ogulayo. Sasihlela yonke into ngaphandle kokuba sithole kuze kube yilapho sesimyisa esikhumulweni sezindiza! Yiqiniso, ngiphumelele izinto ezimbalwa ezincane kakhulu-ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi ngifikile esikhathini esingekho isikhathi esingaphansi kwabazali bami ngaphandle kokuthola!
- Into ebaluleke kakhulu engiye ngayithola ekolishi ngezinye izikhathi yayikhipha isigaba ngesonto ngaphambi kwemigomo kanye nezivivinyo zokugcina. Ikakhulukazi emakilasini amakhulu okufundisa abafundi abangu-400 lapho ababengabanjwanga khona, ngangivame ukuwusebenzisa kangcono isikhathi sami sokutadisha izinto ezifundiswa ngokuzimela ekhaya noma ngeqembu lokutadisha emtatsheni wezincwadi kunokuba bahlale ekilasini. Ngivame ukuhlela izinto ngeqembu labalingani bokufunda ukuthi omunye wethu uzoya enkulumweni, athathe amanothi amnandi, futhi abelane ngawo nawo wonke amanye amaqembu. Sashintsha umthwalo wokuthatha inothi phakathi kwamalungu eqembu esikhathini esizayo, esasivumela sonke isikhathi esengeziwe ukuba sibhekane nezivivinyo.
- Kwakukhona izikhathi ezikoleni - ikakhulukazi ngasekupheleni konyaka lapho imali yayinzima - ukuthi mina nabangane bami saphendulela ukuthungula phansi ngendlela yokudweba. Akekho kithi owayefuna ukuchazela abazali bethu (futhi!) Ukuthi singasheshe sisebenzise kanjani imali yokudla (nami, ngokuvamile ngenxa yokuthi ngangithanda ukucindezeleka ngokuya emidlalweni yama-football namakhonsathi angaphandle kwedolobha). Ngakho-ke sasizokwenza phakathi kwamabili ebusuku sihlasela ezitolo zokudlela ze-upscale kanye nesitokisi phezulu kokudla okuphelelwe yisikhathi okusemathinini kanye nemigodi encane. Sasizilungisela lokhu ngokuzikhethela ukuthi senza nje ingxenye yethu yokunciphisa ukuthuthwa komhlaba nokugcina imvelo. Kungenzeka ukuthi akuyona into ehlakaniphile kunazo zonke okumele iyenze - kodwa akekho kithi owalunywa ngodaka noma uthole i-tetanus noma ubuthi bokudla.
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