Kuningi lokungaqondakali mayelana nabesifazane emkhakheni wezindiza ezungeze lapho. Futhi ngenkathi isihloko sezocansi siguga kwabanye bakho, sisalokhu sidinga ukuxoxa. Ngoba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sonke sithanda ukukholelwa ukuthi sishaya ihhashi elifile ngempikiswano yamakhosikazi mayelana nabesifazane abahamba ngezindiza, abanye bethu bakholelwa ukuthi kuyinkinga efanelekile ukunakwa. Futhi ukufundwa kwami kungikhombise ukuthi asikho ekuvumelaneni nokuphila kwayo.
Nginhliziyo enhle kakhulu. Ngithanda ukukholelwa ukuthi ukuphawula okuningi okuzobhekwa njengabaningi bezocansi akulona ngempela okuhloswe ukuba kube ngokobulili ngamabomu, noma ngisho nempumelelo, futhi ngizobanika abantu abaningi inzuzo yokungabaza. Futhi ngingathanda ukukholelwa ukuthi ngingumhlaba ondizayo njengoba nje nomfana olandelayo - noma intombazane. Ngokuyinhloko, ngicabanga ukuthi kubonakala ukuthi abesifazane abasha kulezi zinsuku bangenza noma yini abafuna ukuyenza. Ngizoba ngowokuqala ukusho ukuthi abesifazane abangekho, eqinisweni, banqunyelwe ukuhlanganyela ezweni lezindiza nganoma iyiphi indlela. Mina, ngedwa, angikaze ngitshelwe ukuthi angingakwazi noma angifuni ukuhamba izindiza. Kodwa ubulili bukhona namanje, futhi kunezinsolelo eziningi ezingalungile ezizungezile.
Nakuba kungabonakali, ubulili ku-aircraft nakho kungacacile, njengoba ngisanda kuyithola ngenkathi ngisebenzisa amaforamu e-intanethi, amakhasi wezokuxhumana nabantu kanye namazwana we-athikili. Ukusesha kwamuva kwe-intanethi yezibalo kanye nemibono mayelana nabesifazane emkhakheni wezindiza kanye nazo zonke izinkinga ezihambisana nazo kwangishiya kancane ukumangala.
Lapho sithola imibono yabantu engacatshangelwayo mayelana nabesifazane emisebentini yezindiza, ngaqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi kunezinkinga eziningi ezingenayo mayelana nezinselele - noma ukuntuleka kwayo - ukubhekana nabesifazane abasebenza emvelweni olawulwa yindoda njengendiza.
Ngezansi kukhona embalwa yalezi zindlela ezingalungile engiye ngazenza.
Iningi lamazwi alandelayo angamazwana wangempela avela emadodeni nakwabesifazane engayithola ku-intanethi. Kungenzeka ukuthi abanye bayamangala kwabanye, kodwa futhi, mhlawumbe hhayi. Ngokuqinisekile akudingeki ngibheke kude ukuze ngizithole.
1. "Abesifazane abayithandi izindiza njengabantu."
Kusobala ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane bahlangene ngokuhlukile. Siyazi ngokucwaninga ukuthi abafana bakhetha izimoto namantombazane bakhetha amapopayi. Lokho esingasazi ukuthi yiziphi izimfanelo zobulili esizikhulisa ngazo ekuqaleni kokuphila ziwumphumela wemvelo yethu ngokuvumelana ne-biology kanye ne-genetics. Kodwa uma kuziwa emabhayisikili, ukucabanga ukuthi abesifazane abathandani izindiza noma abangeke bajabulele ukuhamba kwezindiza kungenzeka kube okungalungile. Kungakanani intombazane enjengokungafani noma engayithandi kwezindiza ezivela ekuvezeni noma ukungabonakali? Ubani ongathi akukho amantombazane nabesifazane abangaphandle lapha abangazange bathole ukuhamba kwezindiza okwamanje?
2. "Ukuhamba kwezindiza kuvulwe ngokuphelele kubantu besifazane. Ayikho inkinga. "
Yebo, ungaphikisana ngokuthi ukuhamba kwezindiza "kuvulwe" kwabesifazane. Kodwa ingabe ngempela? Kusho ukuthini lokho? Yiqiniso, owesifazane angafunda ukuhamba uma efuna. Kodwa cabanga ngami okwesikhashana ukuthi ungowesifazane oneminyaka engu-16 ubudala ofuna ukufunda ukuhamba. Uqine isibindi esanele sokuya esikoleni sendiza yendiza noma i- FBO , lapho uhamba khona futhi akekho osesidiski sangaphambili.
Wena ulinde, futhi umshini wesilisa ekugcineni uhamba futhi uhambe ngqo nawe ngaphandle kokusho izwi kuwe. Khona-ke, lapho omunye umsebenzi ekugcineni ekubona, uzokucabanga ukuthi ungumfazi we-pilot, noma ukuthi ukhona ukuqoqa isitolo, noma ukuhlela imoto enomusa kumakhasimende akho, noma ezinye izinto ezihlukile -pilot imisebenzi. Ngenxa yokuthi awufanelanga iphrofayili, kuthathwa ukuthi awuyena umshayeli wezinyawo noma awuhlosi ukuba omunye. Akuyona indawo eyamukelekayo yowesifazane. Ukuhamba kwemikhumbi kungase kutholakale kwabesifazane, kodwa akuyona indawo enhle kakhulu yabesifazane.
3. "Abesifazane akufanele bakhononde. Sebevele bethola ukwelashwa okukhethekile njengama-scholarships nokuqasha okuthandayo. Uma ukulingana kungumgomo, kungani lezi zinzuzo kufanele zitholakale kuphela kwabesifazane? "
Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abahamba ngezindiza abafuni ukuphathwa ngokuhlukile kunamadoda.
Ababheki izinzuzo noma ngisho nemali ye-scholarship . Kodwa kunesizathu salolu hlobo "lwezokwelapha ezikhethekile" futhi luhlobene nomlando omude wamalungelo omphakathi, kuhlanganise noMthetho Wemalungelo Abantu we-1964, ozovimbela abantu ukuba benqabe ukuqasha ngokususelwa eminyakeni yobudala, ubulili, inkolo noma umbala . Abesifazane baqashelwa ukuqasha e-airline kwezinye izimo ngoba umzamo womphakathi ukulungisa ukucwaswa kwangaphambili, futhi kufanelekile. Kungcono kakhulu esingakwenza. Kodwa akuyona ukuphela kwendaba. Asingakhohlwa ukuthi umshayeli wesifazane kufanele afanelekele umsebenzi, njengalawo omunye umshayeli, futhi emva kwalokho, kumele bavele bazibonakalise phakathi kweqembu labamakhophi, abaphathi, ngisho nabagibeli. Lokhu mhlawumbe umbono owaziwayo egameni labesifazane, kodwa ezimweni eziningi, ukwehluleka kunoma yiliphi izinga lezinsikazi ezweni elibuswe abantu abathandana nabesilisa akuthetheleli futhi kuphazamisa umbono owakhiwe ngaphambili wokuthi abesifazane ngandlela-thile akufani kahle nabantu. Ngakho-ke nakuba abesifazane besengathola ukwelashwa okhethekile kwezinye izimo, bavame ukuzwa isidingo sokusebenza kanzima, uma kungenzima, kunomuntu ohlezi eceleni kwabo, ukuze bathole inhlonipho yontanga yabo futhi bahambise ukugxekwa okungafanelekile umcimbi womzuzwana obuthakathaka.
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4. "Abesifazane abangekho emthethweni futhi banenkinga yokufunda ukuhamba."
Kukhona ucwaningo oluphikisanayo mayelana nesihloko samakhono omshayeli wesilisa namagugu abo ngokuhambisana namakhono omshayeli wesifazane kanye nezimfanelo zobuntu. Ucwaningo oluthile lubonisa ukuthi abesifazane abanamathele kancane kunamadoda, kodwa ngabe lokhu kungumphumela wemvelo noma ukukhulisa - kukhona ubufakazi bobabili - namanje umbuzo wokuthi akekho obonakala ekwazi ukuphendula ngokucacile.
Futhi nakuba abantu ngokuvamile kuthiwa bangcono kumakhono nezibalo zendawo, abesifazane abakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zezibalo kanye nezindawo baye baziwa ukuncintisana ngezinga elilingana neontanga zabo. Esinye into okufanele siyikhumbule yizihloko lapho abantu bacatshangwa ukuthi bebanamandla kakhulu - izibalo, izinhlelo, kanye nekhono lendawo - zihlanganisa ingxenye encane yamakhono adingekayo ekushayeleni indiza; kukhona nokwenza izinqumo, ukwahlulela, ukusebenzisana, ukuhamba, ukuxazulula izinkinga nokuxhumana. Futhi uma kuyiqiniso ukuthi abesifazane bangcono ekulaleleni, amathuba okuba benze ngokungacabangi noma ngokunganaki, futhi kungcono ekubambeni okuningi, ngaleyo ndlela kwenza umqondo wokuthi ukufunda ukushayela kunzima kakhulu kwabesifazane isikhathi esihle kakhulu.
5. "Ubulili bekungeke bube khona enkundleni yezindiza uma singazange siqhubeke siletha isihloko sixoxisane."
Ngeshwa, ubulili, njengobugebengu, ubumpofu, ukungazi, nokubandlululwa kwemigqa yonke, akudluli nje ngoba sinquma ukungayinaki.
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6. "Akekho ubufakazi bokuthi ubulili bukhona. Uma abesifazane abazizwa bewamukelekile ezindiza, yinkinga yabo. "
Ngokudabukisayo, kunezibonelo eziningi zokuzibandakanya ngokocansi emvelweni wezindiza zamanje - ezinye zakamuva kakhulu - njengenkinga ye-Air Canada enezithombe zangasese zabesifazane ezishiywe emgodini wezindiza.
Futhi, namhlanjesi, kunamalungu omphakathi ojwayelekile angakakhululeki nendima yomshayeli wesifazane endaweni yokudoba. Ubulili bukhona. Kuyinkinga. Kunesizathu ukuthi ingxoxo iyaqhubeka ikhuphuka.
7. "Uma owesifazane ekhunjulwa isithombe esingenasici somunye owesifazane noma ihlaya elingcolile, khona-ke unemizwa engazinzile futhi akufanele abe ngumshayeli."
Ngokuvamile kuthiwa amanye amantombazane akakwazi ukuthatha ihlaya. Ukuphendula kwesifazane kumamazwana noma ukuhleka usulu ngontanga kungase kutholakale njengokuzivikela noma ngisho nokungaqedi amandla kwezinye izimo, kodwa nansi into: Kufanele sonke sikhungwe ukuziphatha okubi, ukuxhashazwa, ukusongelwa, noma ukunambitheka okubi nje.
Akukhona neze indawo yokuziphatha okungalungile noma okulimazayo endaweni efanele (noma ngenye indlela, ngempela) futhi impendulo kulokhu kuziphatha akuyona inkinga; inkinga ukuziphatha ngokwayo. Okwesibili kulokhu, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi ukucasuka ukuziphatha okubi akusho neze ukukhishwa kwamakhono omuntu njengomshayeli. Ukucasuka akusho ukuthi umuntu akanamathele noma akanakwenzeka. Esikhathini semvelo efana nomkhumbi wezindiza, kufanele kube kulindeleke ukuthi kungabi nokuhlonishwa esangweni.
Futhi emva kwakho konke, akulona uhlobo lomuntu omelela ukuziphatha okubi noma okungafaneleki kahle uhlobo lomshayeli wezindiza sifuna ukushayela indiza yethu?
8. "Sidinga abesifazane abangaphezu kwezindiza."
Kukhona ukucindezela okukhulu ukugqugquzela abanye besifazane ekwenzeni izindiza, kanye nezinhlelo ze-STEM ngokujwayelekile. Kunabantu abaningi abakholelwa ukuthi imboni idinga abesifazane abaningi. Kodwa kungani? Ngabe abesifazane bazuzisa kanjani imvelo yezindiza ukuthi amadoda angakwazi noma angakwazi ukuletha? Uma abesifazane nabesilisa bezobe besenkundleni yokudlala, kungani-ke kufanele sithole ukudla kwabesifazane?
Kungaba nzima ukukusho ukuthi sidinga abantu abangaphezu kwezindiza. Njengoba kunomkhawulo wokushayela umshayeli kanye nomkhakha wezindiza ezihamba phambili, singasebenzisa abaqhubi abaqeqeshiwe abaningi ngokujwayelekile. Uma kukhona imakethe engasetshenziswanga yamantombazane ngaphandle lapho futhi-futhi efuna ukuthuthukisa-ukulahleka komshayeli kanye nenkundla yokudlala ngesikhathi esifanayo, kungani kungenjalo? Kodwa mhlawumbe asidingi abesifazane abangaphezu kwezindiza nje ngenxa yokudinga abesifazane abaningi.
Akudingeki ukuthi sithengise ngokukhethekile kubesifazane noma sihoxise abesifazane emkhakheni wezindiza-noma nanoma iyiphi enye insimu yemisebenzi lapho bengaphansi kwamanye amazwe - ngenxa yokuthi isikali singalingani. Sidinga ukuveza abesifazane abasebasha amathuba futhi kuqede izithiyo ezikhona. Uma singenzi lutho olungaphezu kwalokhu, abesifazane bazokhetha ukungena emkhakheni kwizinga labo lesithakazelo futhi bahambe kahle kulowo mkhakha kuze kube sezingeni lamakhono abo. Uma sesiveze amantombazane namantombazane amancane enkundleni yezindiza ngendlela efanelana nokuchayeka ukuthi abafana namadoda amancane athola, kungcono kulabo abantombazane nabesifazane abancane ukuba baqhubekele epulatifheni - uma befuna.
Abesifazane abafuni ngempela ukuqhubeka bephethe le mpikiswano, yingakho uzobona abaningi bethu besuka ekuxoxweni ngezocansi. Ngokuyinhloko, abesifazane abavele behilelekile ekushayeleni kwezemidlalo bavame ukuba namandla, abesifazane abahlakaniphile abangenaso isikhathi noma ukuthambekela kokuxoxa ngocansi, noma ngenxa yokuthi bavukile ngenhla ngendlela yabo, noma ngenxa yokuthi abazange bazibonele bona ngokwabo, noma mhlawumbe ngoba bengeke babhekane kakhulu nezindaba zobulili. Kodwa njengoba ngitholile, kunamanye imibono engalungile ngaphandle kwalokho, kanti neminye imibono ehlukahlukene ukuthi ngenkathi mhlawumbe ifihlakele, ijwayele ukufaka isandla ekuntulekeni kwabesifazane ababandakanyekayo emabhayisikili.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi namuhla, kunanini ngaphambili, intombazane encane ikwazi ukuthola amathuba amantombazane amaningi ayengenayo ngaphambili. Futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi owesifazane ofuna ukungena emhlabeni wezindiza ngeke ahlangane okuningi, uma kukhona, ukuphikiswa. Kodwa kunezinsalela zobulili kanye neminye imibono engafanele mayelana nabesifazane emkhakheni wezindiza ohlala isikhathi eside, futhi lokho kuyizinto ezingalungile okufanele zinganakiwe.