Khuluma ngokucacile
Ngesonto eledlule mina nomyeni wami sahamba esitolo. I- cashier eyasimisa i-oda lethu yayingumfundi wesikole esiphakeme, mhlawumbe endaweni ethile phakathi kweminyaka engama-16 no-18. Asikwazanga ukuqonda igama elikushoyo ngoba wayemangalisa.
Ukusabela kwethu kukho konke akushilo kwakuyi "yini?" Khumbula, mina nomyeni wami sizwa kahle. Kungenzeka okufanayo akunakutsholwa kwamanye amakhasimende, ngoba isitolo sesitolo siseduze nemiphakathi emibili emikhulu yomhlalaphansi.
Amakhasimende amaningi esitolo ayengabahlali abadala. Akuzona zonke izakhamuzi eziphakeme ezinenkinga yokuzwa, kodwa eziningi zenza. Futhi, akuyona yonke intsha evelayo lapho ekhuluma, kodwa abaningi benza! Uma uthanda, ungangena kumngane wakho bese uhlobisa abazali bakho, kodwa sicela ukhulume ngokucacile kumakhasimende akho.
Ungaphazamisi Othile Osebenzayo, Ngaphandle Kokuthi Kuphuthumayo
Eminyakeni eyedlule ngasebenza emtatsheni wezincwadi zomphakathi lapho omunye wemisebenzi yami engamele imisebenzi yabaphathi abasha.
Lokhu kwaba yinto yokuqala yokusebenza kwabaningi babo ngakho-ke ngathatha umsebenzi wami wokubaphatha ngokucophelela.
Ngidinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi baqonda ukuziphatha okufanelekile emsebenzini , hhayi nje ngoba kuthinteka ukuthi benzeni imisebenzi yabo emtatsheni wezincwadi, kodwa ngoba ngithemba ukuthi bazofunda okuthile okuzobasiza esikhathini esizayo.
Omunye umfana, uJoe, wayehlale engiphazamise ngami ngenkathi ngisiza abanikazi. Ngesikhathi ngasinye lokhu kwenzeka ngamtshela ngesineke ukuthi kuzodingeka alinde ukukhuluma nami ngize ngiqede. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokuphindaphindiwe kuze kube yilapho ngingasakwazi ukukuthatha. Ekugcineni kwadingeka ngitshele uJoe, "Ngicela ungangicindezeli ngaphandle kokuba izinwele zami zivutha!" Yasebenza.
Gqoka ngokufanele
Abantu abaningi, kuhlanganise nabantu abadala, badidekile ngalokho okufanele bagqoke emsebenzini, noma yini ongayigqoke . Yingakho ngezinye izikhathi ngicabanga ukuthi kulula uma kufanele ugqoke umfaniswano. Nokho, yilokho okwenza imisebenzi embalwa kuphela. Abanye bazothola ikhodi ehle kakhulu yokugqoka, ethatha isinqumo esivela ezandleni zakho. Abaqashi abaningi bakusho nje ukuthi " ugqoke ngokufanele ."
Kusho ukuthini lokho? Izambatho ezingavamile zivame ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi intsha ibambe. Ngokuvamile, i-jeans kanye nama-t-shirts, noma ama-shorts kanye nama-t-shirts, zilungile. Qinisekisa ukuthi izingubo zakho zihlanzekile futhi ama-jeans akho awaqothulwa (nakuba lokhu kungase kube ngesitayela). Ungagqoki ama-t-shirts abhalwe ngezinto ezingase zicasule abanye-ngisho noma wena, ngokwabo, ungakhubeki. Amantombazane akufanele agqoke izingubo ezibonakalayo, isibonelo amabhuluthi amafushane, noma ama-skirts amancane.
Lalela ngokucophelela futhi uqaphele
Ngisindise lokho engikuzwayo ukuthi amathiphu abaluleke kakhulu, okwedlule.
Lapho indodakazi yami iqala isibhedlela, ngacabanga ukuthi ngizoyiqamba ngokumfundisa lezi zimiso ezimbili eziyisisekelo. Ngolunye usuku, ngathi kuye, "kunezinto ezimbili ezibalulekile okufanele uzikhumbule ngaso sonke isikhathi-lalela ngokucophelela futhi unake."
Ngabe sengimcela ukuthi angitshele ukuthi lezizinto ezimbili ezibalulekile zaziphi, ukuthi waphendula wathi, "Angazi." Ngicabanga ukuthi wayengeke alalele noma alalele. Isizathu sakhe-wayeneminyaka emihlanu kuphela. Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi uzoba nesikhathi esilula ukukhumbula le mithetho, namanye amathiphu avezwe lapha.