Isibonelo, ezindaweni eziningi zenhlalo e-US (futhi eqinisweni, emhlabeni jikelele) isabhekwa njengokweziko futhi ikhethwa ukuba abesifazane baziswe kubantu (kunokuba amadoda athulwe kwabesifazane).
Kodwa njengoba abesifazane bezuza ukulingana okungaphezulu lo mthetho uguqukayo, ikakhulukazi ezweni lebhizinisi lase-US.
Izimo Lapho Imithetho Yokuqala Yezenhlalakahle Nezebhizinisi Yinto Efanayo
Kuzo zombili izimo zebhizinisi nezenhlalakahle, kufanele uhlale uveza:
- Abantu abancane kubantu asebekhulile
- Abafundi be-Junior-ranking abaqeqeshiwe abaphezulu
- Oxhumana nabo bebhizinisi nabasebenzi kumakhasimende
- Obajwayele abantu kanye namalungu omndeni kuya ochwepheshe bebhizinisi lapho beya emsebenzini webhizinisi
- Izivakashi kumabandla abo
Ngamanye amazwi, njengendlela yokubonisa inhlonipho, ukwethula isimo sezinga eliphansi kulabo abasesimweni esiphakeme ukuthi ngabe lokho kusho isimo sezenhlalakahle noma sobuchwepheshe. Njengokungahleliwe futhi okungalungile njengoba lokhu kungase kuzwakale, le protocol yokuletha abantu isabhekwa njengokwamukelekile emphakathini (futhi ngokuvamile kulindelwe) e-US nakwamanye amazwe amaningi.
Ukwahlukahluka Ngokusekelwe Emizwini Ebandlulula Akuzona Izimo Zesimo
Kubalulekile ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi ngaphansi kwezimo ezingadingeki kufanele usebenzise imithetho yesingeniso ekuchazeni umphakathi womunye uhlanga, umbala, inkolo, noma ukuthanda ngokobulili njengomuntu wesimo esiphansi.
Ukwenza kanjalo bekuyobe kungalungile futhi kubandlulula.
Inhloso yezingeniso "ezenzelwe" ukubonisa inhlonipho ngokuhlelwa kwe-social order esekelwe isikhundla noma okufeziwe, futhi ukungahloniphi noma "ukuhlukanisa" abanye abantu njengabaphansi.
Uhlelo Lwezenhlalo Zokuletha Abantu Esimweni Sebhizinisi
Esimweni sebhizinisi, njalo uzisa abantu ngokusho isihloko sabo negama eliphelele kuqala, bese ulandela uhlaka olunolwazi oluthakazelisayo noma olufanele mayelana nabantu obethulayo.
Isibonelo, uma usungula uSally Rider, omunye wabaphathi bakho bokukhangisa nokuthengisa, kuDkt. Jennifer Wilkins, iklayenti lebhizinisi, wethula uSally (isisebenzi esingaphansi) kumsebenzi ophezulu (kulokhu, iklayenti):
"UDkt. Jenkins, lo nguSally Rider, ophethe ukukhangisa kanye nokukhangisa okuphezulu ozophatha i-akhawunti yakho nathi. Sally, lo nguDkt. Jennifer Wilkins. Uphethe umnyango wezemfundo wabesifazane ku-Advanced Institute for Business Women. UWilkins unesithakazelo ezindleleni ezintsha zokumaketha izinhlelo zabo zemfundo kubesifazane. "
Uma umuntu oyethulayo engenalo isihloko, awukwazi isihloko sakhe, noma kungabonakala kungalungile esimweni esithile, unganikeza igama lakhe kuqala, kodwa ulandelwa ngolwazi ngalokho akwenzayo.
Indlela Yokuphendula Kwisingeniso
Uma othile esanda kuziswa kuwe, impendulo yakho kufanele ibe yohlu, ifushane, futhi ilula. Kufanele uphinde uphinde igama lomuntu ekupheleni kokubingelela kwakho.
Ukuphindaphinda igama lomuntu osanda kuthunyelwa ukuze ufeze izinhloso ezimbili: kubonisa inhlonipho ehloniphekile futhi kukusiza ukuba ukhumbule igama lomuntu. Ungafaka futhi amazwana amfushane ngomuntu (hhayi ngokuqondene nawe):
Ngokwesibonelo:
- "Kuhle kakhulu ukukuhlangabeza, uDkt Wilkins. Ngilandele umsebenzi wakho iminyaka eminingi ngentshiseko enkulu. "
- "Kuyinto emangalisayo ekugcineni ukukuhlangabeza, uDkt Wilkins. Ngilangazelela ukusebenza nawe. "
Indlela Yokuphendula Kwisingeniso Uma Ungazi Isihloko Somuntu
Uma othile ezwa kuwe ngaphandle kokubhekisela kwisihloko sabo (isib. Udokotela, Mnu, Nks., Nks., Njll), kufanele usebenzise ingqondo ejwayelekile empikweni yakho. Impendulo yakho kufanele ilandele ukuthi kungani uqaliswa. Ingabe isingeniso sihlonipha umphakathi noma sihloselwe ukukuxhumanisa ngenhloso yokwakha ubuhlobo obusha?
Ezimweni eziningi, izethulo njengesizotha sezenhlalakahle zidinga impendulo ehlelekile kakhulu (besebenzisa iziqu namagama okugcina), kanti izethulo zokwakha ubudlelwane bebhizinisi phakathi kwabantu abanesimo esifanayo zingakhululeka kakhulu.
Isibonelo, uma ufakwa kumuntu ongase usebenze noma uhlanganyele naye noma umuntu onokulingana kwezenhlalakahle zomphakathi noma ochwepheshe ungasebenzisa igama labo lokuqala empeleni yakho: "Kuyinto ejabulisayo ukukuhlangabeza, Margaret."
Uma usungulwa kumphathi omusha ongase abe ngumuntu omusha noma othile ozoba noma ozobe ephakeme, funda ngokwengeziwe futhi wengeze isihloko sabo: "Kuyinto ejabulisayo ukukuhlangabeza, Ms. Dixon."
Uma ungabaza, noma isingeniso sinikezwa njengesizotha noma sihlelekile njalo sifaka isihloko. Lokhu kubonisa inhlonipho futhi kuvumela ukuthi umuntu owethulwe ukuba anqume ukuthi noma ngabe ufuna ukubeka igama lakho kuqala.
Indlela Yokuphendula Ngokwemvelo Ngabantu Abafakiwe Kwamabhizinisi
Vele ufake "uMnu" ngaphambi kwegama labo lokugcina. Isibonelo, uma uJohn Smith esetshenziswe kuwe, impendulo eyamukelekayo ingase ibe, "Kuyilungelo lokuhlangana nawe, Mnu Smith."
Indlela Yokuphendula Ngokwemvelo Ukufakwa Kwamabhizinisi Abesifazane
Hlala njalo no "Nks." Uma ungazi isimo somshado noma isihloko sowesifazane. Ukusebenzisa ngokungalungile "uNkk" kucasula abanye besifazane, kanti ukubiza owesifazane ngokuthi "uNksz" (ngisho nalapho kungasetshenziswanga kahle) akuyona into ecasulayo.
Ungalokothi ukhulume noma yiliphi owesifazane njengo- " Miss" ngaphandle kokuthi ukhulume ngokuqondile kuwe ngokuthi "Miss."