Okufanele ngikwenze? Ingabe kukhona imithetho?
Yebo, kodwa ngeshwa, ikakhulukazi imithetho yesithupha. "Mister" uye wasetshenziselwa ukubhekana nabesilisa kungakhathaliseki isimo sabo somshado, kodwa kunzima nakakhulu uma ukhuluma nowesifazane esimweni esisemthethweni noma sebhizinisi.
Kusukela Ngomlando Wembono
Ngokwengqondo, isihloko esithi "inkosikazi" yisimo sowesifazane "mfundisi," kodwa cishe asizange sisebenzise lezi zinsuku. Njengoba kunjalo "nokho," "inkosikazi" kwakubhekwa njengomshado-isimo esingathathi hlangothi. Kwakusetshenziselwa ukubhekisela kubo bobabili abesifazane abashadile nabangashadile.
Khona-ke, ekugcineni, "inkosikazi" yahlukaniswa ngeziphambano ezimbili ezihlukene ukuhlukanisa isimo somshado wesifazane okhulunywe ngaso. "Miss" wachaza owesifazane ongashadile ngenkathi "uNkk." - isifinyezo se "missus" -setshenziswa abesifazane abashadile. Abesifazane base bebuyele emuva ekubhekaneni negama elincane lokuqhathanisa futhi, bethola "uNksz ." ukubandakanya bonke abesifazane abadala uma kungakhathaliseki isimo somshado.
Isikhathi Sokusebenzisa "Makhosikazi"
Shaya leli gama kusuka ebhizinisini lakho lomsebenzi. Ungalokothi usebenzise igama elithi "inkosikazi" ukukhomba noma ukwethula owesifazane wase-US ngoba kunencazelo ehluke kakhulu kunamanje eminyakeni edlule, ikakhulukazi esimweni sebhizinisi. "Indodakazi" manje ivame ukuhunyushwa ngokuthi usho owesifazane ophethe isithandwa nendoda eshadile.
Nini ukusebenzisa Miss
Khuluma namantombazane amancane ngokuthi "ulahlekile." Ungakwazi futhi ukubhekana nowesifazane ongashadile ngokuthi "ulahlekile," kepha abesifazane abaningi abangashadile bakhetha ukubizwa ngokuthi "uNksz" esikhundleni.
Ukubheja kwakho okuhle ukuzama ukuthola ukuthi owesifazane ufuna ukubhekwa kanjani ngaphambi kokumethula noma ukumbingelela. Uma ubona ukuthi ukhuluma nomunye umuntu, lowo muntu angase azi kahle kahle futhi akwazi ukukhuluma nezintandokazi zakhe. Ukubuza umbuzo olula kungasindisa usuku.
Nini ukusebenzisa uNksz.
Cishe awukwazi ukungalungile no "Ms." Abesifazane besifazane baqala ukugqugquzela leli gama kubantu besifazane njengomlingani wesifazane "kuMnu" emuva ngawo-1950, futhi yazuza isithambile ngawo-1970. Kungasetshenziswa yimuphi owesifazane omdala kungakhathaliseki isimo sakhe somshado, kodwa kubhekisela kubesifazane abadala, hhayi amantombazane. Kungcono ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuphutha eceleni kuka "Ms." uma ungaqiniseki ngesihloko esithandwa ngumfazi noma isimo somshado.
Isikhathi Sokusebenzisa UNkk.
Igama elithi "Nkosikazi" iqale ukubhekisela ngqo kubesifazane abashadile, kodwa abanye besifazane bakhetha ukugcina "uNkk." ngamagama abo ngisho nangemva kokuhlukanisa futhi ikakhulukazi uma bengumfelokazi. Akuphephile ukucabanga ukuthi bonke abesifazane basebenzisa "uNkk ." njengoba isihloko sinomlingani wamanje noma ophilayo, futhi akuphephile ukufuna indandatho yomshado.
Abaningi besifazane bayazigqoka, kodwa akubona bonke abazenzayo-ikakhulukazi uma behlukanisile, behlukanisiwe noma abafelokazi. Kodwa basengathanda ukubhekwa ngokuthi "uNkk."
Sebenzisa njalo isifinyezo futhi ungabizi "missus" uma ubhala isihloko, kodwa sebenzisa "uNkk" kunokuthi "uNkk." e-United Kingdom nasesiNgisi saseBrithani-akubandakanyi isikhathi. Ayikho isipesheli esipelingi sokuthi "uNkk." ngolimi lwesiNgisi, nakuba kokubili "missus" kanye "missis" kuvela ezincwadini.
Yiya kuMthombo
Uma ungaqiniseki ngisho nalezi zikhombandlela engqondweni futhi uma kungenakwenzeka noma kungenakwenzeka ukubuza omunye umuntu, ake owesifazane embuzweni akutshele okuthandayo uma kunokwenzeka.
Uma uqala isingeniso, ume isikhashana lapho ufika esihlokweni futhi ukhombise ngandlela-thile ukuthi kufanele uzizwe ukhululekile ukugcwalisa okungenalutho. Ungabamba isandla esilindele kuye ukuze akuqede, noma ungasho okuthi, "Miss?
Ms. Nkosikazi? Manje kuyisinqumo sakhe futhi awukwazi ukwenza iphutha.
Yiqiniso, lokhu kusebenza kangcono kwezinye izimo kunabanye. Akungaphansi kokuphelela uma utshela othile kusuka kwipolomu. Uzofuna ukumthatha eceleni okwesikhashana kuqala bese umbuza ukuthi angathanda ukubhekwa kanjani uma uzomethulela kubantu abaningi.
Gwema le nkinga ngokugcwele
Uma konke okuhlulekayo, ungase ucabange ukusebenzisa igama eligcwele lalo wesifazane. Yenye indlela engafanele yokugwema ukwenza iphutha. Kodwa ungasebenzisi nje igama lakhe kuqala ngaphandle uma ebonisa ukuthi lokhu kuyamukeleka kuye.
Izwi Ngeziqu Zabantu
Amadoda kulula. Ngokuyinhloko, kunezindlela ezimbili kuphela zokusebenzisa isihloko sobulili ezilwaneni zesilisa-amadoda noma abafana:
- Mfundisi: Lesi sihloko sisetshenziselwa ukubhekisela kubhekane nabafana. Akukaze isetshenziselwe amadoda asebekhulile ngaphandle kokuthi isihloko siyingxenye yesikhundla sobuchwepheshe, hhayi nje isihloko sobulili, njengokuthi "kumphathi wesikhulu."
- Mfundisi noma Mnu: Leli gama lisetshenziselwa ukukhomba amadoda asekhulile kakhulu ukuthi abizwe ngokuthi "master". Kungabhekisela kunoma yimuphi umuntu kungakhathaliseki isimo sakhe somshado. Isipelingi esifanele singumfundisi, kodwa leli gama kufanele lifinyelelwe njalo uma ulisebenzisa njengesihloko.
Ukukhetha izingubo ezifanele zebhizinisi .