Ababili Abashadile Abasolwa Babhekana Nezinselele
Lapho bobabili abashadile bengamalungu enkonzo, okubili-ukuphila kwempi njengombhangqwana kungaba yinselele. Kodwa abaningi bakhetha ukukhuthazelela ubunzima, ukulinganisa phakathi kwemishado yabo kanye nemisebenzi yabo.
Imibhangqwana engaphezu kuka-20 000 empi yempi manje isebenza e-US Army. Iningi lalabo abashadile- amaphesenti angu-79- bajabulela izabelo zokuhlanganyela, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukubhekana nokuhlukana okude nezinkinga zasekhaya.
Uhlelo Oluhlelekile Lwabantu Abashadile
Ukugcina umndeni ndawonye ngenkathi kufeza imisebenzi evezwe yi-Army, kukhona into eminingi emibhangqwana yempi ebhekene nayo. Enye indlela yokubhekana nale nselele ngokubhalisa ku-Programmed Couples Couples Program (MACP). Eyasungulwa ngo-Agasti 1983, i-MACP uhlelo ollanyelwe ukusiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi amasosha ashada namanye amasosha abhekwa njengezabelo zokuhlanganyela ezihlangene.
"Izinkinga ezihlobene nokulondoloza umndeni ngenkathi ziyisiShayamthetho zihlanganiswa emibhangqwana eshadile yaseMpi," kusho uLt Col. Patrick Sedlack, oyinhloko yePlans, Procedures and Operations Branch, i-Army Human Resources Command. "I-MACP yasungulwa ukusiza ekunciphiseni ezinye zezinkinga ngokuzama, uma kungenzeka, ukwabela imibhangqwana eshadile endaweni efanayo. Inhloso yaloluhlelo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi iMACP amasosha ibhekwa njengokwabiwa ndawonye njalo ngangokunokwenzeka. "
Ukuze ubhalise eMACP, imibhangqwana eshadile kudingeka ihambise uMnyango Wezempi Ifomu 4187, Isicelo Sezenzo Zabasebenzi, ehhovisi labo basekhaya.
Ihhovisi lezisebenzi lizocubungula ulwazi bese libhalisa amasosha. Uma amasosha enikezwa iziteshi zomsebenzi ezihlukene, uSundowner ngamunye kumele athumele i-DA Form 4187 ehhovisi lakhe labasebenzi.
Izinselele Zokuthunyelwa Kanye
Uhlelo Lwabashadile Lwabashadile lusebenza, kodwa aluqinisekisi ukuthi uzobelwa ndawonye.
Kunezinto eziningi ezingenza kube nzima ukuba i-MACP imise umbhangqwana ndawonye, kusho uSedlak. Uma amabutho amabili ephethe i- MOS encane kakhulu , angase abe nzima kakhulu ukumisa ndawonye, wachaza. Noma uma isosha likhona i- MOS lapho izabelo eziningi ezitholakalayo zingaphandle kwezwekazi lase-United States (CONUS), isibonelo, isosha elingumlimi waseKorea lishadile nesosha eliphethe i-MOS lapho izabelo eziningi ezitholakala ku-CONUS; kungase kube nzima ukuzibeka ndawonye.
I-MACP ibuye isebenzise namasosha abashade namalungu ezinye izinsizakalo noma i-Army Reserve noma i-National Guard Soldiers, kodwa kunzima kakhulu kubaphathi bezabelo ukuba bawamise ndawonye, kusho uSedlack. Ngaphezu kobunzima obukhona ekumiseleleni amasosha avela emasimini ahlukene emisebenzi, kukhona nezinkinga zokumisa amasosha ndawonye uma zivolontiya emsebenzini okhethekile.
"Ayikho imikhawulo eqondile ku-MACP, kodwa ezinye izinhlelo nezimo kunzima kakhulu ukwamukela isabelo (sokubambisana ngokuhlanganyela)," kusho uSedlack. Ngezabelo ezifana ne-Drill Sergeant ne-Recruiter, ukukhetha okubhalwe ku-MACP kuyadingeka ukuthi inikeze isitatimende esibhaliwe ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi isabelo esivumelwaneni sokuhlala singase singenzeki ngenxa yemingcele ephathelene nomsebenzi.
"Abaphathi bezabelo bazobe besazicabangela (ukubambisana ngokuhlanganyela) kulabo abashadile, kodwa bafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi amasosha ayaqonda ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukunikeza (ngenxa) izidingo kanye nezindawo zalezo zabelo," kusho uSedlack.
"Uma kusho ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside, angicabangi ukuthi omunye wethu anganikeza (isitatimende esibhaliwe)," kusho u-Staff Sgt. UWilliam Herold, oshade noSgt. Antoinette Herold. "Umphathi wegatsha lethu usebenze kanzima ukuqinisekisa ukuthi sihlala ndawonye futhi ngicabanga ukuthi ukusayina (isitatimende esibhaliwe) ngeke kumise igatsha lethu ukuba lisebenze kanzima ukugcina umndeni wethu ndawonye."
Ukuphatha Imisebenzi Yakho Yezempi Ukuze Uhlale Njengomshado
Nakuba abanye, njengoHerold, bebeka ukholo oluningi kubaphathi babo begatsha, abanye batusa ukuthi imibhangqwana ithathe isandla esisebenzayo ngokwengeziwe emisebenzini yabo.
"Kufanele uhlele kahle futhi uphathe umsebenzi wakho," kusho uSgt. UMnu. Henry Garrett, umphathi wezokuSebenzi wabaSebenzi baseFort Bliss, eTexas futhi washada noSgt. Maj. Shirley Garrett. Ngokwesibonelo, uGarrett uthe lapho eyazi ukuthi kufanelekile ngesabelo ngaphandle kweConus, wazinikela emsebenzini eKorea enethemba lokuthi umkakhe uzokwazi ukulandela. Lapho uShirley eba yi-NCO yamaqhinga e-US Military Academy eWest Point , uNkk Henry wabiza umphathi wegatsha lakhe ukuthi athole ukuthi yini ayitholayo endaweni efanayo.
I-Master Sgt. Yolanda Choates nomyeni wakhe, uSgt. Iklasi yokuqala ye-Meco Choates yenza imihlatshelo efanayo. "Lapho sithuthela lapha endaweni yase-Washington (Yolanda), (Yolanda) yayinegunya elilodwa kuphela lapha," kusho uSgt. I-Class Class Choates. "Uma bekufanele akhethe isikhundla, cishe ngeke kube njalo, kodwa wenza lokho kukhetha umndeni." "Ngingathanda ukuba yisigceme sokuqala eKorea, kodwa akuyona into engcono kakhulu emndenini wami," kusho iNkosi uSgt. Ikhetha. "Senza lezi zinto ngoba, lapho usiseMpi, awunayo ikhethelo ngaso sonke isikhathi."
Ngeshwa, leli qhinga lineminye yokungabikho. "Kwadingeka ukuthi sinqabe ukuqokwa ngoba njengama-sergeants emthethweni, kungaba nzima ukusibeka ndawonye," kusho uGarrett. Wanezela, isihluthulelo somshado ophumelelayo womabili wezempi ukuhlolisisa imigomo yomunye nomunye. "Ngangingafuni ngempela ukuya eWest Point, kodwa ngangazi ukuthi uShirley wayedinga okuthile okungamsiza ukuba ahlukane nabangane bakhe," esho. "Uma umbhangqwana ungekho esimweni esifanayo sokuphatha umsebenzi, ngincoma ukuthi bafunde okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze bazi ukuthi kudinga ukuthini ukuthuthukisa imisebenzi yomunye nomunye."
Ukuxhumana, kusho iChoates, esinye isici esibalulekile ekugcineni umshado ophumelelayo wombili wezempi. "Kufanele ukhulume," kusho uSgt. I-Class Class Choates. "Uma ungavumelani ukuthi kwenzekani noma ukuthi uzizwa kanjani, ngeke uphumelele."
Izinhlelo Zokunakekela Umndeni
Enye inselele eminye imibhangqwana yezempi kumele ibhekane nezinhlelo zokunakekelwa komndeni- imiyalo ebhaliwe yokunakekelwa kwamalungu omndeni uma kwenzeka ukuthunyelwa , umsebenzi wesikhashana noma ukusetshenziselwa insimu. Imibhangqwana yombili yezempi inezinsuku ezingu-30 ngemuva kokufika esakhiweni esisha ukukhiqiza uhlelo lokunakekelwa komndeni olufanele, okufaka phakathi kokubiza umhlinzeki wokunakekelwa isikhathi esifushane nesikhathi eside.
Kwezinye izimo, ukuthola umhlinzeki wokunakekela isikhashana esifushane esiteshini somsebenzi esisha kungaba nzima. "(Ekuqaleni kwemisebenzi yethu), sasingazi ngempela umuntu esiteshini esilandelayo somsebenzi. Sinezinsuku ezingu-30 ukuthola umuntu esingazethemba ngokwanele ukuba anakekele izingane zethu, ozimisele ukukwenza, "kusho iNkosi uSgt. Ikhetha. "Manje njengoba sisekhulile futhi sesibe sesikhathini esithile, sisazi abantu eziteshini zethu eziningi zomsebenzi lapho sifika khona."
I-Master Sgt. Izinketho zanezela ukuthi labo abangazange bahlale e-Army isikhathi eside ngokwanele ukwazi omunye umuntu esiteshini ngasinye somsebenzi kufanele babheke phakathi kwabasebenza nabo abahlinzeki bokunakekela isikhashana esifushane. Abantu amasosha asebenza nabo nsuku zonke yilokho ababaziyo kuqala. "Umndeni (amaqembu okulungiselela) (FRG) omunye umthombo omuhle wolwazi," kusho uSgt. I-Class Class Choates. "Kodwa kufanele uhambe emihlanganweni ye-FRG. Ngeke eze kuwe. "
Imihlatshelo yeMishado Yesibili Yamasosha
Amasosha amaningi ashada namanye amasosha avuma ukuthi ukuba ilungu lombhangqwana womabili-wempi kuhilela imihlatshelo eminingi. Abanye, kodwa, bathola ukuthi umhlatshelo ube omkhulu kakhulu. Ukuba isosha kukhona into Abasebenzi Sgt. U-Alison Kempke ujabulela. Unjiniyela wezobuchwepheshe obelwe iNkampani A, iBattalion ye-Engineer engu-94, iHohenfels, eJalimane, okwamanje isetjenziswa e-Iraq. Futhi nakuba eyisosha elizinikele eNkulweni Yezobuphekula, umyeni wakhe kanye nezingane ezimbili ezimlindele eJalimane azikho kude nemicabango yakhe. U-Kempke uthe uthola umsebenzi wakhe kokubili okuvuza futhi okunzima, kodwa uzobe eseqeda umsebenzi wakhe wezempi ngemuva kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili kuphela.
"Ngiyathanda amasosha, futhi ngingathanda ukuhlala, kepha ukuhlukaniswa kunzima, ikakhulukazi lokhu ngoba awukwazi ukuthi uzobuya nini," esho. "Ngingathanda futhi ukuba ngisondelene nokukhulisa izingane zami."
Izinzuzo Zokuba Nombhangqwana Womabili Wezempi
Noma kunjalo, ezinye izimbhangqwana ezimbili zomkhosi zisho ngenkathi kunenkinga, kunezinzuzo eziningana. "Uma kwenzeka izinto ezingaphezu kwamandla ami, (umyeni wami) uyaqonda ngoba uyazi ukuthi izinto zisempi," kusho uSgt. IKlasi lokuqala uRubina Jamerson, oshade noSgt. IKlasi lokuqala uGregory Jamerson.
"Singaziqhelana ngoba siqonda ukuthi izinto zenzeke kanjani e-Army," esho. "Futhi, umyeni wami angakwazi ukupakisha isikhwama sami se-duffle uma nginomsebenzi wokuqeqeshwa kwensimu. Bangaki abashadile abangabahlali abangakwenza lokho? "