Isinyathelo soku-1: Qinisekisa ukuthi uzimisele ngokuba umculi ngokwenza umsebenzi wesikole
Indlela Yokulungiselela
Ngakho-ke, ungase uzizwe sengathi abazali bakho abakutholi nje uma bekunika isikhathi esinzima mayelana nezifiso zomculo wakho.
Futhi masithembeke, ezimweni eziningi, bangase bangakutholi, ngoba nje abazange baveze kakhulu embonini yomculo . Kodwa abazami ukuthi babe yizintandokazi kuwe futhi babhubhise amaphupho akho (okungenani, cishe akunjalo). Ukuya kubo okulungele ukuba nengxoxo enenzuzo kungakusiza ukuba ugweme isenzakalo esikhulu, esimangalisayo.
Nanka amathiphu okutshela abazali bakho ngemigomo yebhizinisi lomculo wakho.
Yiba nezinhloso zebhizinisi lomculo wangempela
"Ngifuna ukuba ngumculi" akucaci kahle. Kunezinhlobo eziningi ezihlukahlukene zabaculi. Yikuphi ofuna ukukwenza? Ingabe ufuna ukuhola ibhendi bese uvakashela umhlaba? Ufuna ukuba ngumculi womculo? Ingabe ufuna ukwenza ukudlala uhlelo lokujikeleza lwe-bar gigs yendawo? Awudingi ukunquma okwamanje lapho umsebenzi wakho womculo ekugcineni uzokuthatha khona, kodwa udinga ukwazi ukukhuluma ngemigomo yakho yebhizinisi lomculo nabazali bakho ukuba ubonise ukuthi unikeze lokhu kucabangisisa okukhulu.
Cabanga nge-Compromise yeKolishi
Abazali bakho kungenzeka bafune ukuthi ugxile emfundweni yakho bese uya ekolishi. Ufuna ukugxila kumculo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwamakilasi. Ubani okulungile? Akekho ongasho ukuthi kufanele uhambe ekolishi ukuze ube ngumculi ngoba awukho. Kodwa-ke, kunezinzuzo ezinkulu zokuya ekolishi, ngisho nangaphandle kokuthola "imfundo yokubuyela emuva" (kodwa ngilalele manje-lokho kubalulekile).
Amakholeji afakwe imisebenzi yomculo . Kuneziteshi zomsakazo, imibukiso, amakilabhu, amakilasi omculo, abaculi kanye nokuningi, okuningi okuningi. Ikholishi ayikho isikhathi esinqunyiwe; kungaba ithuba lokuhlehlisa amakhono akho futhi mhlawumbe nokwakha umculo wendawo olandelayo.
Nansi ingxenye engathintekiyo: Uma abazali bakho benesithakazelo ngemfundo yakho yasekolishi , futhi uthanda ngokulinganayo ngomculo wakho, yenza kokubili. Vumelana nabazali bakho ukuthi uzoya esikoleni (bese uya emakilasini futhi wenze kahle) nokuthi uzothola ukuphishekela umsebenzi wakho womculo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Uma ikhefu lakho elikhulu liphikisana nokugcina kwakho kwe-psych, uthola ukuthatha ikhefu elikhulu-ukucabanga ukuthi ikhefu elikhulu. Uyavuma ukwenza kahle kuleso simo sokugcina sengqondo uma ukuphuka kwakho okukhulu kungakafiki. Kulungile, akunjalo?
Lungele Ukukhuluma Ngezimali
Akulula ukwenza imali embonini yomculo njengoba ucabanga. Ngokwethembeka, abazali bakho baqinisile ngalokhu. Ungakwazi ukwenza impilo embonini yomculo , kodwa amathuba ukuthi uzodinga uhlelo lokuzinakekela ngenkathi uthola ubunzima ukwenza impilo evela kumculo wakho. Iyini leyo plan ezoba khona?
Abazali bakho abafuni ukucabanga ukuthi lolo hlelo luhilela ukulala embhedeni wabo, ukukukhokhela isibonelelo somuntu omdala, noma ukukhipha isikweletu esikhwameni sesikweletu.
Cishe awukwazi kahle ukuthi uzokwenzani imali uma uqala umsebenzi wakho womculo , noma yiziphi izindleko zakho zonke, kodwa yenza okusemandleni akho ukwenza uhlelo olubonisa abazali bakho ukuthi ucabangele it. Yilungele ukuphendula imibuzo mayelana neholo lakho, isimo sokuphila esilungisiwe, nokuningi. Futhi, mhlawumbe akusona isisombululo sokugcina osiqede ngaso, kodwa umqondo wokuthi usondela ngalokhu ngokuqinisekisayo ubaqinisekisa ukuthi unzima kakhulu.
Ngamaphuzu ebhonasi, yenza ucwaningo mayelana nomboni womculo nokuthi abaculi benza imali ekurekhodweni kwabo futhi baphile ngokudlala. Kukhona ithuba elihle abazali bakho abazi ukuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani, futhi ngeke kukhuthaze ukuzethemba uma ungazi.
Babonise Isifiso Sakho
Ngezinye izikhathi, kunzima ukukhombisa abazali bakho ukuthi unothando kangakanani ngomculo wakho, ikakhulukazi uma ungajabuli ngezimfuno zakho.
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