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"Nakuba sihamba emhlabeni wonke ukuthola okuhle, kufanele sithwale nathi noma singayitholi." U-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Umklami owaziwa ngamazwe uHilary Farr uye wagcwalisa imizwa yakhe yobuciko ngobuhle kuyo yonke impilo yakhe. Wazalelwa eToronto, kodwa unina wayenenhliziyo yomhambi. Uhlale e-Australia, eNgilandi, ngaphesheya kweByzantium naseTehran, eNew York, eLos Angeles futhi ekugcineni, emuva eToronto.
Yisekhaya ebhizinisini lokuklanywa, ekhaya ekuphileni okuphawulekayo.
Ukuthambekela ekubeni umklami wezobuchwepheshe kuguquke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nakwezinye amazwekazi. "Ngesikhathi ngisungula eLa, indawo engavamile yezindlu ezikhangayo, amasiko ahamba phambili, izindlela zokuphila, kanye nemifino - kwakunzima futhi kuyathandeka ngesikhathi esisodwa - kodwa lapho ngangiqhutshwa ukudala ikhaya eliphelele kunazo zonke."
Ehamba endleleni, eshukunyiswa ukuthanda komama wakhe ngobuciko nokuhlobisa , uHilary wathatha isigqi sezindawo azibiza ngokuthi ikhaya. "Imibala, imisindo, izithombe - ngiyakwazi ukuzwakalisa konke, nakuba ezinye zazo zakhiwa lapho ngineminyaka emithathu ubudala."
Ubuntu bakhe obuningi bokukhulisa nokubambisana kwezwe kwenza uHilary abe ummeli womsebenzi wakhe. Ngambuza ukuthi ukucwiliswa kwakhe kulobu buciko nobuciko kuye kwazisa umsebenzi wakhe. "Kusobala, amaphesenti angamakhulu. Kuyinto enesifiso, kepha awuboni kuqala.
Ngokwe-kind of osmosis, uthola lokho okukuzungezile, okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Ngesinye isikhathi kamuva, lapho unquma ngesu lokuklama, lezi zizwa zibuyela kuwe, futhi uthi, Ahh, yilokho; Ngiyazi kahle okufanele ngikwenze. "
Lezi zikhathi zingase zibonakale njenge-stroke ye-genius, i-coup de`oeil njengoNapoleon yayiyoyibiza, kodwa empeleni ingumkhiqizo wenqubo ejulile.
USteven Johnson, umbhali we-"Where Ideas Ideals Come From," uthi imibono iqhubeka isikhathi. Bavame ukuhlanganiswa ndawonye kusukela emibonweni yemibono encane. Lapho kudingeke isisombululo, futhi usebenza ngenqubo yokudala, le mibono ikhona ngokwayo ekukhanyeni kokuphefumulelwa.
KuHilary, ukuhamba nokuhlola kwakhe kuye kwamnika ithuba lokufinyelela, hhayi nje kuphela emisebenzini yamazwe awakhiwe kuwo, kodwa isiko abazalwa kuzo, imizwelo, imibono kanye nokucabangela kwabadwebi bomdabu.
U-Hilary uqhathanisa nokuhlangenwe nakho kwengane ehlala phakathi kwezizwe ezihlukahlukene kuya esiponji. Umqondo wendawo ngayinye ungena kuma-capillary akho. "Izinto ezibukekayo futhi zihogela, ukuhlukahluka kombala nesitayela kusetshenzwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Isihluthulelo sokuklama ukuvumela i-ego iphinde iphinde ivumele izinzwa zithathwe."
Kuthiwani ngeklayenti okungenzeka ukuthi ayinayo inzuzo yalesi simo sengqayizivele somhlaba? UHilary ubaqondisa kanjani ngenqubo yokudala?
"Ngizama njalo ukuhoxisa amaklayenti kude nemikhuba. Isinyathelo sokuqala esivivinywe nesiqiniseko sokuthi iklayenti ibheke wonke umagazini wokuklama abakwaziyo, futhi badonsa izithombe abathandayo, ngaphandle kokubheka izakhi ezithile. Ngokungavamile, bakhetha okufanayo izinto ngokuphindaphindiwe. "
Abanye abaklami bacabanga ukuthi amaklayenti azi ukuthi yini abayifunayo, kodwa uHilary ukholelwa ukuthi bayakwenza. "Umsebenzi wami ukubapha okudingayo noma ukufuna ukuhleleka okufanayo, ukuhumusha lokho abakuthandayo empeleni isikhala esikhulu.
Kungabangela ukucindezeleka njengomklami ngenxa yamanani empahla engcolile emakethe yaseToronto. Ngezinye izikhathi ukukhathazeka ngamagugu okubuyisela kabusha kuthatha kuqala kunezimiso zobuhle.
Akukhona nje ngamagugu empahla; ikhaya liyindawo ephephile, futhi izinkumbulo, ubuciko obuvela ezinganeni, zonke izinto zokuphila zifake zibe ukuthungwa kwekhaya. Ukuvuselela kudala ukuhamba kwesikhathi. "
Ukuze usize amaklayenti ahlukumeze ukukhathazeka kwabo emakethe, uzokhetha indawo ethize yekhaya, kusukela ngeso lengqondo elifanele futhi, "alenze libe liphelele kakhulu, ahambisane nazo zonke izidingo zawo futhi abonise ubuntu bawo." Kubonakala sengathi abakhiqizi abangcono nabakhi bezakhiwo baqonda ukuthi isintu somuntu uyingxenye ebalulekile yomsebenzi wokwakha.
I-HGTV
U-Hilary Farr ungenye yezinkanyezi ezinkanyezi ze-HGTV ezithandwayo ngo- Love It noma Uhlu Lwaso , kanye no-David Visentin othakazelisayo. I-show manje isesikhathini sesihlanu, okuphawulekayo ngoba inkathi ngayinye iqukethe iziqephu ezingu-26. Izilaleli zithandwa yizingxabano ezivezwe yilokho okushiwo yi-show, kanye nobudlelwano bukaDavid noHilary "Bickersons". Noma, iqiniso liyaziwa; bangabangani abangcono kakhulu.
I-Real Dilemma - Angiyikwi-Script Hysteria
Abanikazi bezindlu bafika embukisweni ngenkinga, evame ukulethwa yikhathi / ukuphazamiseka kwekhaya labo noma ukwandiswa komndeni nezidingo zayo. Inselele yilezi: ingabe bavuselela isakhiwo esivele sikhona, esakhiwa nguHilary, bese "Sithande," noma sithatha iseluleko sika-realtor uDavid bese sithi "Yibhale." Bobabili u-Hilary noDavid bahle kulokho abakwenzayo, futhi abanikazi bendawo bahlale behlelwa yinkinga.
Ngenkathi uHilary neqembu lakhe beklama futhi beyilungisa le ndlu, okuvame ukubandakanya umsebenzi omkhulu wokwakha kabusha, uDavid ubonisa abaninikhaya ukuthi izifiso zabo zingafinyelelwa ngokubeka uhlu lwazo ekhaya futhi zithenga emakethe. Ukukhathazeka kwakha njengoba abanikazi bezindlu bevakashela amakhasimende avuselelwe, ahlelwe kahle, bese ubuyela endaweni yabo, okuphakathi kokuvuselela phakathi nokubukeka kabi. U-Hilary uthi ukuhlukumezeka kuyiqiniso, "Isimo esibucayi sibhekene nababukeli. Umbukiso awunalo lonke umbhalo, futhi ukusabela kwabanikazi bezindlu ukulungiswa kwangempela kanye nezindaba ezimbi kuyiqiniso ngempela." Sibona ukukhishwa kwehora elilodwa lwenqubo yezinyanga ezintathu. Kungcono kakhulu ukuthi abaninikhaya bakwazi ukucubungula futhi ukukhathazeka kubonakala.
U-Hilary uyaqaphela ngomusa umzamo wokubambisana odingekayo ukukhiqiza lo mdlalo futhi udumisa ithimba lakhe, "Bangekho emangalisayo - ngaphandle kwabo, ngeke kwenzeke. Sisebenza emakhaya amathathu ngesikhathi esisodwa, futhi kuyaphazamisa."
Kungaba nzima ukuphatha umthwalo wokusebenza ngenkathi uhlala engqondweni yakho yokucabanga. Umphakathi wakhe, kanye namakhasimende akhe angasese ahlale enzima ukuyeka ukuhamba. "Abantu kumele bafunde ukuthi kukhona umehluko phakathi kokubambelela esikhathini esedlule futhi ukuyisebenzisa ukwazisa okwamanje."
Imfihlo kaHilary Yokugcina Ukuthula
Ngambuza ukuthi ulele kanjani, wanikezwa ukuvutha kwentukuthelo yokukhiqiza ithelevishini , ecindezelwe yiyo yonke impilo yakhe: eqhuba ibhizinisi elikhulayo, ekubeni ngumama "indodana yakhe enhle kakhulu, enobumnandi" futhi enamathele amakati amathathu nenja. Isixazululo sakhe esilula? "Ukuphefumula okujulile. Ngingumlutha kulokhu. Kungikhulula futhi kungivumele ukuba ngivimbe ukuze ngilale ngiphumule."
Isici sebhizinisi lokwakha singakhipha. Yingxenye yokufeza. Ukuphila kwami kobuchwepheshe kungu-80% webhizinisi nokuklama okungu-20%. " Kodwa uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi yini edingekayo ukuze uphumelele - landela uHilary. Ngaphandle komunye umsebenzi wakhe, ubheke phambili emisha entsha.
Hlala ubheke umzila omusha womkhiqizo futhi, kodwa kuzomele ulinde ukukhululwa; Ngeke ngiyiphumeze isimanga lapha. Impahla izothengiswa kubabukeli bamakethe amaningi ku-TSC (I-Shopping Channel), inguqulo yaseCanada ye-QVC. Qinisekisa ukuthi ukunambitheka kukaHilary okungenakuqhathaniswa nokugxila kwikhwalithi kuyokwenza lokhu kuqaliswa kube yimpumelelo njengoba ezinye izinzame zakhe.
Iluphi iseluleko uHilary asinikeza kumuntu ocabangela umsebenzi wokuklama ? "Angisho ukuzwakala ngeso lengqondo kodwa - kufanele uqonde ibhizinisi, noma uzosebenza mahhala." Wabuye wagcizelela ukubaluleka kokuzithiba, ikakhulukazi uma kusebenzisana namakhasimende. "Kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokucubungula imicabango nokuzibamba imizwelo nokuphendula. Hlela eceleni i-ego yakho. Ngiye ngaphawula ukuthi abantu abasha abanenkinga ebhizinisini banamahloni noma banamazwi amaningi. i-ego enkulu. " Ukuphumelela kwakhe kuyisivumelwano sokuthi iseluleko sakhe siqinisile.
Angikaze ngidumale uma ngibheka ngaphesheya komphakathi wabantu engibabuze nabo. U-Hilary Farr uyinhlangano ehlelekile. Ngokushesha uyakukhulula ngokuzibandakanya kwakhe nendlela yokucabanga yokuveza imibono.
Ngokungafani nabaningi bethu, uHilary akazange ahlukane nalokho ayefuna ukukwenza lapho ekhula. U-Hilary Farr ungumklami we-quintessential: ohlakaniphile, ofundisiwe, enembile nokudala.