Nazi amaphuzu amathathu ayisihluthulelo enkulumweni yakhe.
Hlala kuThebula
Uthi lapho indoda iphumelela yona, kodwa uma owesifazane ephumelela uyayibheka kwabanye, inhlanhla noma ukuthi isebenza ngempela kanzima ngempela. Ukhuthaza abesifazane ukuba bafinyelele amathuba namaphromoshini, futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, bakholelwa ukuthi sifanelekile. Wabelane ngezibonelo zendlela abesifazane abakuzwa ngayo ukuthi abafanelekile ukuthuthela enkampanini yabo. UNksz Sandberg ukhuthaza abesifazane abaqeqeshiwe ukuba bashintshe lo mbono ongalungile, baphume eceleni futhi "bahlale etafuleni".
Ukuhlala etafuleni kusho ukungavumeli amathuba ukuba adlule. Ukuze wenze izwi lakho lizwe, lizwakala futhi licacile. Futhi ukuziphendulela ngokwanele ukubuza lokho okufanelwe. Letha isihlalo sakho etafuleni, uhlale uphendule futhi "uncike".
Yenza ozakwethu abe "Ongokoqobo" Ozakwethu
Uthi, "Uma owesifazane nomuntu basebenza isikhathi esigcwele futhi beba nengane, lo wesifazane wenza kabili inani lemisebenzi yasendlini kanye nokunakekelwa kwengane izikhathi ezintathu." Kuyinto isibalo esiqinisekisiwe futhi kuyabuhlungu ukuyizwa.
Akumangalisi ukuthi abesifazane bashiya abasebenzi. Amadoda nabesifazane kudingeka banikele ngokulinganayo ekhaya uma abesifazane bephumelela ngaphezulu emsebenzini.
Lokhu kusho ukucela usizo uma udinga. Kusho nokudlulisela, ngisho noma ungamenyiwe ukwenza kanjalo. Hlala phansi nomlingani wakho bese ukhuluma ngemisebenzi yasendlini nokuthi yini ongathanda ukuba bakusize.
Uma usetha ukulindela wonke umuntu uyaqonda ukuthi yini okudingeka akwenze.
Ungashiyi Ngaphambi Kokuhamba
UNksz Sandberg wakhuluma ukuthi lapho owesifazane eqala ukucabanga ukuthi uzokwazi yini ukuhambisana nezidingo zomntwana empilweni yakhe lapho eqala ukucabanga ngokushiya umsebenzi wakhe. Wabiza lokhu ngokuthula "encike emuva" enkulumweni yakhe ye-TED. Uyaqhubeka ukweluleka abesifazane abaqeqeshiwe ukuthi umsebenzi wakho udinga ukufaneleka ukushiya ingane yakho. Kudingeka ukubandakanyeka futhi kukujabulise, ngoba uma kungenjalo, yilo lapho uzoqala ukuzonda ngokuthula. Ukugwema ukuzithoba ngokuzenzekelayo uNksz Sandberg ukhuthaza abesifazane abakhulelwe ukuba bagcine unyawo lwabo emgodini wegesi kuze kube usuku oshiya ngalo ikhefu lokubeletha futhi ungaze ube mzuzu ngaphambi kwalokho.
Hlala ngaphakathi futhi uhambe kuwo
Uyaqhubeka ekhuluma ngendlela abesifazane, ngokungahlosile, abazibamba ngayo emisebenzini yabo. Bese esebenzisa inkulumo engathandeki "incike ku", funa izinselelo, futhi uqhubeke nokuphishekela imigomo yabo yomsebenzi ngaphandle kokwesaba.
Uma uncike kuSheryl Sandberg ukholelwa ukuthi cishe uzokhuthazwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unabantwana abancane. Uthe ngeke ube nesimo esinzima sokugubha umsebenzi nomndeni endimeni yakho entsha. Uzozizwa ucindezelekile ngomsebenzi wakho onzima. Futhi uma usuku lufika lapho unikezelwa ukukhushulwa uzobuza "Kungani kungimi?
esikhundleni sokubuza "Kungani mina?".
Inhliziyo yalesi sihloko uSheryl Sandberg okwenzayo kuyinselele umqondo wokuthi omama abasebenza kufanele bakhethe phakathi komsebenzi nomndeni. Uthola inselele ukuthi ithrekhi yomama yindlela engcono kakhulu kubo bonke omama abasebenza. Esikhundleni sokugxila kulokho ongenakukwenza noma ezinqandeni zokuthuthuka kwakho , ukhuthaza abesifazane ukuba bagxile ezintweni ezinhle, bheka ubuke amathuba futhi uthathe usuku. Uthi uhlale ethemba ukuqala inhlangano yezenhlalakahle, futhi "ukuzithemba" kungumzimba wesifiso.
Nansi isicatshulwa encwadini kaMnu. Sandberg esenza isabelo sakhe kahle:
Ngibhalile le ncwadi ukukhuthaza abesifazane ukuba baphuphe amahlombe amakhulu, bavuse indlela ngokusebenzisa izithiyo, futhi bazuze amandla abo okugcwele. Ngithemba ukuthi owesifazane ngamunye uzozibekela imigomo yakhe futhi afinyelele kuzo nge-gusto. Futhi ngithemba ukuthi umuntu ngamunye uzokwenza ingxenye yakhe ukusekela abesifazane endaweni yomsebenzi nasekhaya, futhi ne-gusto. Njengoba siqala ukusebenzisa amathalenta abo bonke abantu, izikhungo zethu zizokhiqiza kakhulu, amakhaya ethu ayojabula, futhi abantwana abakhulela kulezo zindlu ngeke besabanjwa yizinkolelo ezincane.
Ngaphambi kokuba unqume ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho , cabanga ukuthi "ukuxhomeka" kungaba yini okungcono kuwe. Uma udidekile ngalokhu noma yikuphi ukusekelwa ngokubeka imigomo yakho siqu ukuqasha umqeqeshi bese uthola kucace.