Ungayifaka kanjani ngokuba ngumama osebenzayo

Ezinye imibono yokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezinselele ezithile zoMama

Lapho ngifundisa omama abasebenza kunezinkinga ezine eziphindaphindiwe. Ngizifingqole ngesichazamazwi, DEAL Ziyizi:

D isease Ukujabulisa: Ngokuvamile AmamaMisebenzi alwela kanzima ukujabulisa abanye empilweni yakhe kodwa enganaki izidingo zakhe nenhlalakahle yakhe. Kungcono ukuthi athi "yebo" kunoma yisiphi isicelo ngoba kulula ukwenza "nje" kunokuthi cha. Kunzima kuye ukuba acabange "isizathu" sokungenzi lutho futhi kungcono "ukusiza nje" ukuze abanye bajabule futhi bangabuzi lutho ngaye ngakho-ke uzojabula. Kulula ukunamathela kule simo sengqondo uma ungaqapheli lesi sifo ukujabulisa nokuthi ungayiphilisa kanjani.

Ukuphathwa kwe-Nergy - Isifo sokuthakazelisa sidlulisa amandla . Ngokuntuleka kwemfundo ekuphathweni kwamandla Ukusebenza AmaMama abazi noma abanaso isikhathi sokufunda izindlela zokwakha kabusha amandla abo. Amandla azokhuphuka futhi awe futhi azi ukuthi lezi zindla kanye nokuhlaselwa kunika amandla. Ukuphathwa kwesikhathi kungamthatha nje kuze kube manje ngoba ngisho noma ehlela izinto ngokuphelele uma engenawo amandla okwanele angeke kwenzeke noma angenzeki ngendlela enhle njengoba bekungenzeka futhi amaphutha azokwenzeka.

Izindlela zokuqinisa - Kunezinqumo eziningi zomsebenzi / zokuphila Umama osebenzayo kufanele akwenze. Uma esazi ukuthi angabe esho kanjani (futhi angazizwa uthakazelisayo ngakho) ukuze uthole lokho akufunayo uzojabula kakhulu. Lokhu kuqala ngokuqonda izindinganiso zakhe zomuntu siqu, izindinganiso zobuchwepheshe, nezinto eziza kuqala. Uma eqonda i-VP yakhe uzofuna ukuphila ngokuvumelana nabo. Ukwazi ukuthi unamathela kanjani kulokho akufunayo futhi ukholwe kuyo kuzothatha ukuqinisa.

Ukuzibulala - Ukuzinakekela kubalulekile ekuphumeleleni kobuchwepheshe bomama osebenzayo. Ubonisa ukuthi wonke umuntu emhlabeni uyamthanda futhi kudingeka ukuthi agxile ekuzithandeni ngokwakhe. Iqala ngokungabi nzima kakhudlwana kuye (sonke sasizwile ukuthi ukuphelela kuka-cruddy). Okulandelayo kunqoba inkohlakalo engabonakala lapho eqala ukucabanga ngokwenza izinto ngokwakhe. Khona-ke kuza ukudala uhlelo lokuzinakekela olungasoze lwafuna ukumelana nalo.

Uma unesithakazelo ekufundeni ukuthi u-DEAL kangcono uhlole ezinye zezihloko.

01 Ziyini Izifo Ukujabulisa Futhi Ukwelashwa Kwalo?

Ngidlala ngidlala ngokuthi "isifo" sokujabulisa ngoba akusona isifo ngempela, akunjalo? Noma akunjalo? Hlola ukuthi kungani sizikhandla ngokweqile ukuzama ukujabulisa abanye nokuthi singathola kanjani ukwelashwa.

02 Ukuphatha Amandla Akho Omuntu Kukunika Isikhathi Esiningi

Uma uhlanganisa ukulawula amandla akho siqu kanye nokulawula isikhathi sakho uzobe ujabula ngokwengeziwe, ubeke ngokugcwele engxoxweni, futhi usebenze kahle. Nansi indlela.

03 Indlela Yokuthola Okufunayo Nge-Assertiveness ne-AEIOU

Manje ukuthi uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukuphulukisa lesi sifo ukuze uthabise kuzothatha isinyathelo. Nansi inqubo yokuqinisekisa ukuthi i- AEIO- U ezokusiza ukuphatha lezo zinselele izingxoxo.

04 Ukudala umbuso wokuzinakekela

Uma ukuzinakekela kwakho kuba yinto yokuqala kuqala konke okunye okuba khona. Umama ojabulayo! Ungumbhomu! Hlola lawa macebiso wokuthi ungakha kanjani uhlelo lokuzinakekela ozolithanda.

Ukushintsha kuhle!

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