Ngizonda Ukuba Ummeli. Yini Manje?

Kwenzekani lapho umsebenzi wakho ungahambi?

Uchithe iminyaka emithathu esikoleni somthetho, wabhekana nokuhlolwa kwebha, wathola umsebenzi njengommeli ... ukuthola kuphela ukuthi uyadabuka futhi uzonda ukuba ngummeli. Yini manje? Njengoba inikezwe ngezinga lesikweletu esikoleni somthetho, akungabazeki ukuthi abameli abaningi abangejabule bangakwazi ukuhamba ngaphandle kokunye okuhlanganisiwe. Kodwa kunezinyathelo ongazithatha, kusukela namhlanje, ukuzibeka endleleni eya ekugculweni komsebenzi omkhulu.

Khumbula isikhathi ngaphambi kokuba uye esikoleni somthetho.

Isikole somthetho, futhi usebenza njengommeli, kudla konke okulula ukuthi kulula ukukhohlwa ukuthi nawe wawujwayele ukuba umuntu ofanelekayo, onamakhono anamakhono okuthengisa.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isizathu, abameli abajabule bavame ukuqiniseka ukuthi abanakho okunikezwa ngaphandle komsebenzi wezomthetho. Kodwa othile ubekuqashile ukwenza okuthile ngaphambi kokuba uye esikoleni somthetho! Cabanga ngezinto oye wazikhokhela ngaphambi kwesikole somthetho. Kungenzeka ukuthi elinye lalawo makghono noma izici kuzoba yingxenye yomsebenzi wakho wokuthutha umthetho.

Thola okujulile ngemali yakho.

Abameli nabo bavame ukulimaza futhi besaba ukuthi bazophela baphile ngaphansi kwebhuloho uma beyeka umsebenzi wabo wamanje. Yize kubalulekile ukuthi ube nempumelelo ngemali yakho, kubalulekile ukuthi ungabi kakhulu ngokweqile mayelana nenani lemali oyidingayo ngempela ukuze uphile ngokunethezeka. Uma ungummeli okhokhelwa kakhulu osebenza eqenjini elikhulu lomthetho, kungenzeka ukuthi uke wakha imikhuba engekho empeleni eyinzuzo enjabulweni yakho yonke (ngoba usekhona "i-hedonic treadmill" lapho ukhona khona izinto ezibiza kakhulu aziholeli enjabulweni).

Nakuba kubonakala sengathi uzobe ujabule kakhulu endlini encane noma ngemoto engabizi, izifundo ziphakamisa ukuthi lokhu akunjalo ngempela. Futhi, ngokuphawulekayo, abameli abanelisekile kakhulu bavame ukuba yibo abenza okungenani imali!

Zinike imvume yokuhlola izinketho zakho.

Kungaba nzima ukuvuma wena kanye nabanye ukuthi umthetho awuwona umsebenzi ofanele kuwe.

Kodwa akudingeki ukuba wenze leso sisho ngokushesha (futhi kungenzeka ukuthi akulona iqiniso). Esikhundleni sokuthatha isinyathelo esibucayi, vele unike imvume yokubheka futhi uhlole ezinye izinketho. Kungaba njani ukusebenzela njengommeli ohlukile? Kungani ungafaki izingxoxo ezithile zokwaziswa bese uthola? Kungaba njani ukuba umlobi? Kungani ungaqali ibhulogi bese uthola? Vumela ilukuluku lakho likuqondise, futhi ubone lapho lihola khona. Akukho okusho ukuthi kufanele ushiye umsebenzi wakho wezomthetho njengamanje ukuze ube yi-clown (nakuba le ndoda yenza!).

Ukucabangela ukuthola ukwesekwa.

Kunabameli abaningi basekuqaleni emhlabeni, futhi kukhona abameli abaningi abashintsha isiqondiso emisebenzini yabo. Abaningi balaba bantu bayobe bejabule ukukhuluma nawe ngomsebenzi wakho futhi bekuyoba ibhodi elizwakalayo lemibono emisha (kanye nokuxhumana okusha okungenzeka). Kunezinhlobo eziningana ezinhle kakhulu zokushiya "ukushiya umthetho" amabhulogi ongawahlola. Isibonelo, Shiya umthetho bese ushiya uMthetho. Ukuzi nje abanye ukuthi banenkinga yalezi zinkinga futhi kwavela ngakolunye uhlangothi kungasiza!

Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwakho komthetho kukulungiselele ngezindlela eziningi kule nselele entsha. Isibonelo, uyazi ukwenza kanjani ucwaningo, wazi ukuthi ungasebenza kanjani kanzima, futhi wazi ukuthi ungaba kanjani impikiswano.

Ngokuqinisekile, ukuqeqeshwa kwakho kwezomthetho kukufundise ukwenza izingxabano zomthetho, kodwa ungasebenzisa lawo makghono ngokwakho, futhi, futhi wenze icala ukuthi ungubani omele ukhetho lomsebenzi wakho olandelayo wephupho!