Uma uyingxenye yomphakathi wabazali be-solo, ukugcina lezi zici engqondweni kungakusiza uhlale ugxile enjabulweni yakho, empilweni yakho, nangomsebenzi okhethekile wena nomntanakho owabelana ngawo.
Dweba Isiyingi Sokusekela Okukuzungezile
Abazali abangabodwa bahlangene nesidingo sabo sokuxhumana nabantu abanothando. Noma kunjalo abaningi bazizwa "ngaphandle kwe-loop" futhi balangazelela ukuzwelana nokuqiniswa. Uma uzizwa ungedwa, finyelela emndenini wabangane, omakhelwane, nezinhlangano zomphakathi ezinjengeqembu labazali noma indawo yakho yokukhulekela.
Khumbula futhi ukuthi abantu abakukhathalelayo bangase bafune ukudlala indima enkulu empilweni yakho kodwa bangesaba ukuthi bayamangala. Ungesabi ukuqhubekela phambili uphinde ucele usizo: Awukwenzi lokho ngaphandle kobuthakathaka, kodwa ngenxa yothando lomntanakho. Uma umngane ehlinzeka ukuboleka isandla, nganoma iyiphi indlela, wamukele. Uzothola indlela yokubuyisela umusa ngendlela yakho.
Ungase futhi ufune ukukhuluma nomunye umzali owaziyo futhi uthembele ngokuhweba ingane ukunakekelwa. Angase azizwe ekhululiwe ukuthi ucele, futhi ujabule ukukuthatha phezulu.
Ukubambisana kwama-co-ops kusebenza ngale ndlela ngezinga elikhulu, lapho iqembu labazali abaziyo ukusebenzisana ngokukhululekile.
Ungase ucabange ukujoyina abangani bakho noma uqale owakho.
Yazi Uhlelo Lakho Lokusekela
I-faucet ihamba e-fritz noma imoto yakho iqhuma ukubhema lapho ubhekene nesikhathi esifikile sokugcina. Ingane yakho yokukhansela ikhansela, ukuphuthumayo komndeni kuphakama phakathi nobusuku, noma ngokungazelelwe wehla nomkhuhlane.
Ungasiza ekuqedeni i-chaos kusengaphambili ngokuhlanganisa uhlu lwabantu ongabashayela kwesaziso somzuzu. Ukwaziswa okuphuthumayo kohlelo lokusebenza efonini yakho bese ugcina ikhophi endaweni ebonakalayo. Nikeza amakhophi emndenini wakho, abangani, omakhelwane, nabanakekeli bamntanakho.
Yenza Impilo Yakho Yibaluleke Kakhulu
Phakathi kwamawashi e-alamu, umsebenzi wesikole, umgwaqo, izimiso zokudla, nokudliwa, omama abangashadile bangase bakhohlwe ukuzibheka inhlalakahle yabo. Lezi zihloko zingakusiza ukhumbule:
- Fuel umzimba wakho. Phakathi kokunciphisa ingane yakho ukuba ikhethe ikholifulawa phezu kwama-corn chips, kulula ukuyilahla ngokukhetha kwakho. Ukulungiswa kokudla okusheshayo kwe-Shirk okunye okunempilo ongayilungisa kusengaphambili kwesikhathi bese ubambezela ngeviki elizayo. Uma unenhlanhla yokuhlala eduze nemakethe yamafama, qalisa umkhuba wamasonto onke wokuphequlula izitayela nomntanakho: Uzothola umkhiqizo omusha futhi ukhuthaze izidumbu zakho zidinga.
- Isiqephu sempilo. Uma ukuvivinya umzimba kufana nomsebenzi ongathanda ukuwela ohlwini lwakho, yenza ingane futhi futhi idlale nomntanakho: Vula umculo nomdanso. Intambo ye-Jump. Rollerblade epaki. Umsebenzi ojwayelekile uyokuvuza ngamandla amaningi, ukubukeka okungcono, nokuzijabulisa okukhulu.
- Thola ukuphumula kwakho. "Ngizolala lapho izingane zami zingama-40." Njengomzali, kungenzeka ukuthi ufingqa ifilosofi yakho yokulala ngokuhleka kwe-wry. Kodwa ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi: Ukulala kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ibhizinisi, futhi ukungatholi okwanele kuxhunyaniswa nezinkinga eziningi. Ukuhlela isikhathi sokulala njalo ngaphandle kweziphazamiso kuzokusiza wena nomntanakho ukusebenza ngokusemandleni akho.
Uma udangele intukuthelo noma ukudabuka, kubalulekile ukuthi uxoxe nochwepheshe futhi mhlawumbe ufune iqembu lokusekela, lapho ungasebenzisa khona imizwa yokukhungatheka, ukucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka.
- Nciphisa ingqondo yakho. Uma ungewona umzali oyedwa ngokuzikhethela, ungase uthole ugoqa ngezinqumo ezedlule noma ezizisolayo ezingenakuguqulwa. Kunalokho, zinike isipho sokuvala futhi, ekugcineni, inkululeko. Ukugxila esikhathini sokubaluleka nengane yakho futhi uhlale uxhumeke kubambisene abanempilo enhle kuzokuthuthukisa ukuziphatha kwakho futhi kukusize uhlale uqinile, ugxile futhi uhlale ngesikhathi.
- Indawo ehlala njalo "isikhathi sami." Vumela uhlale isikhathi eside emasontweni ngosuku. Ngenkathi ingane yakho ilele noma lapho udlala ukudlala esikoleni, isibonelo, sebenzisa ihora ukubiza umngane noma ukuphoqa futhi ufunde esihlalweni esithakazelisayo esikhundleni sokwenza izitsha ngesikhathi sokuphumula. Buza ilunga lomndeni noma umngane ukuba ufunde lapho ufunda ekilasini le-yoga, ikhofi yephunga e-restaurant, noma upheqa izitolo edolobheni. Isikhathi sesikhathi sakho sonke sizokusiza ukuba u-frazzle uphinde umvuze ingane yakho ngenomama ojabule, onamandla kakhulu noma ubaba.
Yiba Abanye (Ukuphazamisa) Kujabulise
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isithombe sakho sezimali, imisebenzi ephansi ye- (no-no-) ingaba imigomo eyintandokazi:
- Faka ipikinikini. Izikhathi zokudla zikhumbuleka lapho zikhishwa ngengubo epaki-noma egumbini lakho lokuphumula. Isidlo sokudla esiba yinto ethi 'itiye' noma umpikiniki womndeni kuzosiza ukudweba isikhathi esengeziwe sokudlala nezingane zakho.
- Amabhuku nangaphezulu: Hlola ilabhulali yakho yendawo. Yiba njalo njalo egatsheni lakho lomphakathi, lapho izingane ezincane zingase zithokoze khona ngokuba ngamalungu omphakathi wekhadi, futhi izingane ezindala zingase zimangale: Ngaphandle kwencwadi yamahhala, i-e-book, umculo, ne-movie ukuqashiwa, amashabhulali amaningi anikeza izinhlelo ezikhethekile nezenzakalo ezinganeni ngokusebenzisa abantu abadala.
- Swayipha iwebhusayithi yakho yomphakathi. Amakhonsathi angaphandle, imikhosi, izakhi zemidlalo, usuku lokungeniswa mahhala emnyuziyamu: Thola ukuthi yimiphi imicimbi yamahhala noma ephansi eyenzayo eduze kwakho.
Thola iNiche Yakho
Kusuka esimweni esingakahlelekile esakhiwe, esitholakala ku-intanethi kumuntu, ekukholweni-okusekelwe emazweni angewona amahlelo, izinhlelo ezihlukahlukene zixhuma imindeni yabazali abangabodwa. Kuye ngenhlangano, imisebenzi ingabandakanya izinkomfa zemfundo; ukudlala kanye namaqembu okutadisha; ukuhamba kwensimu; i-potlucks; amaphrojekthi wenkonzo; ukudlala isidlo; nokuningi okuningi. Abazali Abangabambisene Nabo, inhlangano enomzali oyedwa oyiphrofayli ephakeme kakhulu, inezahluko emazweni amaningi, nezinkulungwane zamalungu kulo lonke elase-US naseCanada.