Uma usuka ebhasini ngemuva kokufika , uzohlangana namalungu weqembu lakho lokuqeqeshwa . Lokhu kuqukethe uMqondisi wakho Omkhulu Wokuqeqeshwa Kwezempi (MTI), ngothando ngabiza i-TIs ngabahlobo nabangani babo abaseduze (uzobabiza ngokuthi "mnumzane," noma "maam" ngaso sonke isikhathi.)
Ngokungazelelwe, izulu lizobumnyama, izindlebe zakho zizokhala, futhi yonke iGehena izokhipha. Uzozibuza wena, "Ngizongena kanjani?" Indiza yakho cishe izoba noMfundisi Wokuqeqesha, noMsizi Wokuqeqesha Umsizi, njengenani eliphansi.
Uma uqobo, ngempela "unenhlanhla," ungase ube nokuningi kokubili okuyisisekelo. Ngokuya ngobulili babo, amagama abo okuqala nabokugcina bobabili "Mnumzane," noma "Maam." Ngokungafani nezinye izinsizakalo, e-Air Force ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa okuyisisekelo, kuzodingeka ukuthi ulandele izikhulu ezingekho ngaphansi komthetho (ama-NCO) - ikakhulukazi ama-TI - njengo "Mnumzane," noma "Maam."
Azikho izikhulu ezanele ezithunyelwe ngokuqeqesha okuyisisekelo okufanele uzifundele ngakho, ngakho-ke i-TI "ikuvumela" ukuba usebenzise lo mkhuba kubo. Uma ushiya ukuqeqeshwa okuyisisekelo, abafundisi bakho besikole bezobuchwepheshe bazoshesha ukukutshela ukuthi, njengoba beyi-NCO, "basebenzela ukuphila," futhi awubabizi ngokuthi "mnumzane" noma "mama." Kodwa-ke, ekuqeqeshweni okuyisisekelo, kufanele ubize wonke umuntu okushiya (okungcono kakhulu wonke umuntu ngaphandle kwalabo abanye abaqeqeshwayo) ngokuthi "mnumzane" noma "maam."
Ngaphambi kokushiya ekhaya, uzofuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi awuveli ekubukeni kwakho.
Uma uhlangana noMphathi wakho Wokuqeqesha okokuqala, ngithembele - awufuni ukuthi akukhumbule ngezinwele zakho ezindala, amacici (wesilisa), amadevu amathenda, noma amabhulukwe amakhulu amane amakhulu kakhulu. Ladies, kuyilapho ungadingeki ukuba usike izinwele zakho eziyisisekelo, kuzodingeka ukuthi uzinqabe ikollar yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi uma kufanelana (okuyisikhathi esiningi esiyisisekelo), ngakho-ke ungase ufise ukucabangela ukusika izinwele zakho zifinyelele ngokwanele ngakho-ke akudingeki zibekwe.
Into yokuqala oyothola ukuthi ngisho noma u-6 '2 ", i-190 lbs ne-TI yakho i-5' 4", i-120 lbs, yena uyena omkhulu kunawo wonke, into enhle kunazo zonke ohlangabezane nayo ekuphileni kwakho. Ngokushesha uzoqaphela ukuthi i-TI yakho ayithandi, ayithandi abangane bakho, futhi uyayonda umndeni wakho ngokuphelele. I-Air Force TIs ayisebenzisi inhlamba (okungenani, akufanelekile), futhi ngeke 'ibeke izandla' kuwe. Kodwa, kakhulu, kuhle kakhulu ukukhala. Kuhle kakhulu .
Eminyakeni eyedlule, lapho ngisemsebenzini futhi ngifika engqongqoshe, ngaya esikoleni somphathi eChanute AFB. Omunye engifunda nabo wayeyindoda encane, encane eyayisanda kubuyela "empini yangempela yomoya" kusukela eminyakeni emine yomsebenzi we-TI. Ngolunye ubusuku, ngenkathi ngibuyela emuva e-billeting (ihhotela eliyisisekelo) kusukela emhlanganweni weqembu "lokutadisha" ku-NCO Club, sidlulisela umfana omncane, ehamba phansi emgwaqweni ngesigqoko sakhe sensimu esingahlanganisiwe (lokhu kuyinifomu engekho). Umngane wami wangaphambili we-TI wathi, "Buka lokhu."
Wambamba le nsizwa enkulu, wayala ukuba eme, futhi-emi emasentimitha ayisithupha phambi kwakhe, ebuka phezulu ebusweni bakhe obusabekayo - waxoxa ngezizukulwane zakhe kanye nezenzo zakhe ezinyanyekayo ngemizuzu eyishumi ngqo, ngaphandle igama elilodwa lokuhlambalaza lisinda ezindebeni zakhe.
Lapho eseqedile, le nsizwa yayinamasentimitha ayisithupha ubufushane, futhi iphuma ezindlebeni. Ngangihlaba umxhwele kakhulu (futhi, kusukela ngaleso sikhathi nje, ngimesaba kancane).
Into yesibili oyothola ngokuqeqeshwa okuyisisekelo ukuthi akekho umuntu oshayela indiza ongakwenza noma yini ngokulungile. Konke okwenzayo phakathi nezinsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala kuyobe kungalungile. Uzoma ungalungile, uzohamba (ukuhamba) okungalungile, uzokhuluma okungalungile, uzobukeka okungalungile, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi uphefumula ngisho nokuphefumula.
Ngethemba ukuthi uma ufunda lesi sici, uzoba nemizuzu embalwa yokuphumula kanti i-TI igxila kumuntu oseduze nawe ngezinwele ezibomvu. Uma kunjalo, ungakhathazeki, ungamomotheka. Uma wenza kanjalo, uzothola ukuthi i-TI ingakapheli isikhathi esingakanani sokuthi uyangena lapho ebuka khona ukuhlola nokuphawula (ngokuzwakalayo) mayelana nokuntuleka kwakho okwehlukile.
Khumbula ukuthi i-TI inzonda leli gama, "yeah." Bazonda futhi igama elithi "nope," nelithi "u-uh." Bazonda kakhulu umusho ongaqali noma ukuphela ngegama, "mnumzane," noma "maam."
Ngenkathi ngihamba nge-Air Force Basic Training (eminkulungwaneni embalwa eyedlule), umusho ngamunye wawufanele uqale futhi uphele ngo "mnumzane" noma "maam." Isibonelo, "Mnumzane, Ngingaya emgodini, Nkosi?" Nokho, umngane wami uJohnathan Carpenter ungikhumbule ukuthi i-TI yanamuhla iyayonda nalokhu. Eyisisekelo, uma uthi "mnumzane" noma "mama" ukuqala nokuqeda umusho, bayibiza ngokuthi "sandwich yenkosi" noma "sandwich yamam," futhi lokho kuyisinye isilwane esidumile esilula kakhulu salowo moya onomoya omnene .
I-TI nayo iyaziwa ngokuthi kunzima ukuzwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usho kanjani ukuthi "Yebo Mnumzane !," noma "Cha, Maam!" I-TI yakho cishe izocela ngokukhululekile ukuthi ukhulume. Ngenxa yenkinga yabo yokuzwa, i-TI cishe izocabanga ukuthi nawe uyabanjelwa futhi izokwenza umzamo okhethekile wokukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo - ngqo eceleni kwezindlebe zakho. Ukuhamba, noma ukubonisa noma yibuphi ubufakazi bokungahambi kahle kubhekwa njengento engenamandla futhi kuzobekwa amazwana (ngokuzwakalayo).
Kungakabiphi, kuzokuza kuwe ukuthi endaweni ethile phakathi kwesikhungo sokwamukela kanye nedoromory yakho, omunye umuntu webiwe igama lakho lokuqala. Ngeke mhlawumbe ungalokothi uzwe igama lakho lokuqala kulo lonke isikhathi sakho ngokuyisisekelo. Ngesikhathi sakho lapho, wonke umuntu (ama-TIs, abalingani bezindiza, njll) uzobe ekhuluma nawe ngegama lakho lokugcina. Uma i-TI ingazi igama lakho lokugcina, uzokubiza ngokuthi "uqeqeshwe," noma "ufunde" (ngokuzwakalayo). Uma ungowesifazana, ngokuvamile bayakhamuluka, "Hhayi, wena! Owesifazane!" (Amadodakazi ami azonda lokhu).
I-TI yakho cishe izochitha isikhathi esiningi ngobusuku bokuqala uhlangene ndawonye, phakathi kokuhlangana nawe, futhi ukhanyisa ngaphandle, ngokukuhambisa kwezinye zezintandokazi zakhe ze-TI.