Yeka ukuthi umama osebenzayo angathatha kanjani usuku lokukwenza lutho

Futhi ungazizwa unecala ngakho!

Ushaye iphuzu lakho lokukhathala futhi udinga isikhathi esithile sodwa. Kodwa ungayifaka kanjani, ngubani ozokunakekela izingane, futhi ungakuyeka kanjani lowo mzwelo wokuzizwa unecala ngokusuka?

Setha usuku

Uma uthatha usuku lonke uphumule ngoMsombuluko ukuze ujabulele ngeSonto ebusuku ngaphandle kokugijima ukulungiselela isonto, noma uLwesihlanu ukuze uqale impelasonto yakho kancane kancane. Uma uhlela uhlelo lwesigamu sezinsuku zeMgqibelo ekuseni ukuze ugibele embhedeni bese uphonsa izingane.

Ngale ndlela bobabili wena nomyeni wakho ninesikhathi esithile ngesikhathi esisodwa (ukuchitha ndawonye noma ngaphandle)

Thola umuntu wokubuka izingane

Wena uthanda izingane zabo, zithatha izingane zakho! Ukuwina ukunqoba wonke umuntu! Zama ukuhlela lokhu emasontweni abuyele emuva ukuze kokubili wena nomngane wakho uzizwe izinzuzo eziseduze ngesikhathi esifanayo. Futhi, izingane zizobheka phambili ukuvakashela enye indlu yezingane (kanye namathoyizi abo).

Ukhokhele isikhathi isikhathi esingaphezu kwezinsuku zokugula nezinsuku zomndeni. Izingane zakho zigcinwa kahle ngumhlinzeki wakho wokunakekelwa kwengane ngakho uzitholile. Uma ukwephulwa komthetho kuqala ukukhuphuka hlola uye engxenyeni yokugcina yalokhu okuthunyelwe!

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Ukusiza ukuthatha umkhawulo wokuhlela kwabazali bakho ukuthola i-zoo yendawo, iminyuziyamu, ipaki, noma indawo yokudlala yangaphakathi. Thola amanani, amahora, uhlobo luni lokudla abanikezayo, namanani wetikithi bese unikeza lolu lwazi kubazali bakho ukuze bakwazi ukujabulela isikhathi esilungiselelwe nabazukulu babo.

Buza umyeni wakho ekuseni bese usuka endlini.

Amanye amasonto anikezela amakilasi noma imisebenzi yezingane lapho ezobe iqondiswa khona. Kukhona nomnyango wezokuzilibazisa wedolobhana lakho ohlinzeka ngezinhlelo zokusebenza.

Yenza uhlelo ukwenza "lutho"

Ngingabazi ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukwenza "lutho". Ngicabanga ukuthi ufuna ukukwenza yinto ofuna ukuyenza. Ngokuvamile senza abomama basebenzise ithuba lokukwenza lokho esikufunayo ngempela ngoba kukhona izinto eziningi okufanele sizinakekele (ngakho-ke sinecala lokuthatha i-PTO). Ucabanga ukuthi "Uma ngithola isikhathi sokwenza lokho engifuna ukukwenza ngizoyibona ngaleso sikhathi". Kodwa uma leso sikhathi esiyigugu sifika uzoba sekwephuzile kakhulu. Ngeke ukwazi ukuthi uzokwenzani nawe, ngakho uzoqala ukuhlanza ngoba ukuhlanza (okuncane) kulula futhi kudingeke kwenziwe njalo.

Iseluleko sami esingcono kakhulu siphuma endlini. Yiya esitolo sezincwadi bese uthatha i-bestseller. Thatha ingubo futhi uphendule epaki. Hamba ngokushayela, ulalele umculo, uthole umoya ezinwele zakho. Hit the spa day, uthathe izinwele zakho kwenziwe, noma uthole izipikili zakho kwenziwe. Hamba uzungeze isitolo kanye nesitolo sewindi kuphela. Jabulela i-hustle bustle ngenkathi ungahlali. Sula imilenze yakho bese uhamba esitolo.

Futhi uma uziphatha ngokwento encane, ujabulele ngokugcwele. Ukushintsha indawo yakho enjengale kungakukhuthaza futhi ushintshe umbono wakho ezintweni.

Uma uhlala ekhaya, yenza imishini yakho yokuhlanza nokukhishwa kuvimbele imikhawulo (ama-suckers amakhulu amabili okuhlanza). Ukuhlanza ngeke kube yingxenye yosuku oluvaliwe ngoba lokho kusebenza!

Ukuze ugweme ukusebenza endlini uhlolisise, wena ngokwakho uyingxenye eyodwa noma ezimbili zendlu yakho. Bheka lelo bhedethi futhi ucabange, angikwazi ukulinda nje ukuhlala lapho futhi ngifunde leyo ngqwaba yamamagazini. Noma ubuke embhedeni wakho bese uthi, Angikwazi ukulinda ukuze ngifinyelele kulesi sibopho nakusasa ekuseni. Noma uma unesiphrojekthi esithandayo ofuna ukungena kuwo, thola izimbali futhi wenze isimemezelo somkhakha wakho womsebenzi umeme. Bese udala uhlelo ozolandela uma uhlala kule sikhala ukuze isikhathi namandla kusetshenziswe ngokuhlakanipha (hhayi emithonjeni yezokuxhumana!).