Amaphutha Okuxoxisana Okuvamile

by Alison Doyle

Yini okufanele ungayenza lapho uxoxa? Nanka amaphutha okuxoxwa komsebenzi ovame kakhulu, ukungaboni kahle, futhi amaphutha ozobhalwa umsebenzi angenza.

Ngeshwa, kulula ukwenza lezi mphutha ngaphandle kokuziqaphela - futhi eziningi zazo zivame kakhulu kunalokho ongase ucabange! Thatha isikhathi sokulungiselela ngaphambi kokuxoxisana kwakho, ngakho-ke akudingeki ukuba ucindezeleke mayelana namahloni emva kwalo.

Funda kuwona amaphutha angu-10 ajwayelekile okuxoxwa ngomsebenzi, nokuthi ungakugwema kanjani ukwenza.

01 Ukugqoka ngokungalungile

Uma uxoxisana nomsebenzi, kubalulekile ukubheka ubuchwepheshe futhi uphonyiwe. Nakuba izingubo zakho zingashintsha ngokuya ngesimo osifakelayo - isibonelo, kufanele ugqoke izambatho ezingavamile zebhizinisi ukuze uxoxisane nomsebenzi ongeyena ochwepheshe noma ukuqalisa isambatho esivamile ekuxoxweni kwenkampani encane yokuqalisa - kubalulekile ukubukeka abagqoke kahle futhi bahlanganiswe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi inkampani.

Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi yini ongayigqoka ekuxoxweni nalokho ongakugqoka ekuxoxweni komsebenzi .

Okulandelayo ohlwini , into ongayicabanga ukuthi ngeke ibe yinto engeyona i-no-brainer - ekubeni isikhathi sokuxoxa kwakho.

02 Ukufika Kamuva

Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukuqala kokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthumeni umsebenzi, kodwa bewazi ukuthi ungenza umbono obi kuqala ngaphambi kokuba ufike enkulumweni yakho?

Ukugijima okuphuthumayo akusikisela nje kuphela amakhono amakhono okuphatha isikhathi , kodwa kubonisa ukungabi nenhlonipho yenkampani, isikhundla, ngisho nombuzo wakho.

Hamba ubude obengeziwe ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi awuphuzi, futhi ufika ngesikhathi, noma ekuqaleni. Budget isikhathi sakho ukuze wenze ku-interview emihlanu kuya kwemizuzu eyishumi ekuseni. Ngaleyo ndlela, uma kukhona into engalindelekile ephakanyiswayo endleleni yakho yokuxoxa, uzoba nesikhathi esithile sokuthwala.

Okulandelayo : Nakhu okungafanele ukwenze kule ngxoxo.

03 Ukuletha Isiphuzo Nakho

Yisho ikhofi, i-soda, noma ibhodlela lamanzi ngaphambi kokuba ungene ngemvume. Uma udinga ukufaka uphethiloli, yenza ngaphambi kokuba ufike enkulumweni.

Akukona nje ukuthi akusizi ngalutho ukungena ngesiphuzo, kodwa ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa kwakho, kufanele ugxile kulo msebenzi owenziwayo: ukwenza umbono omuhle, ukuphendula imibuzo, ukugcina iso lokuxhumana nomqashi wakho ongase ube khona, nokunaka yonke inqubo yokuxoxisana .

Ukuba nesiphuzo phambi kwakho kudala ithuba lokuphazanyiswa - ukugcwala inkomishi, noma ukulahlekelwa umbuzo ngenkathi uthatha isiphuzo, isibonelo. Futhi nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka, ukuletha isiphuzo ekuxoxweni kwakho kubuye kwenzeke kwezinye izingozi ezingabonakali - njengokuchitha isiphuzo kudeskiki, kuwe, noma ngisho nombuzo wakho!

Kunezinye izinto okufanele uzilethe nawe. Nasi uhlu lwalokho okufanele ulethe ekuxoxweni komsebenzi .

Okulandelayo : Ungakhohlwa ukuvala ifoni yakho ngaphambi kokuba ungene enkulumweni.

04 Ukusebenzisa Ifoni Yakho Phakathi Nengxoxo

Ngaphambi kokuba ufike enkulumweni yakho, thulisa ifoni yakho. Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngenkathi uxoxwa ngayo akuyona nje into ehlukumezayo futhi ephazamisayo, kodwa umyalezo omuhle kakhulu kumqashi wakho ongakuthola ukuthi ukuthola umsebenzi akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu.

Ngezizathu ezifanayo, ungaphenduli izingcingo (futhi ngokuqinisekile ungenzi izingcingo!) Phakathi nengxoxo. Ukuze umelane nesilingo sokuhlola ifoni yakho, faka ifoni yakho esikhwameni sakho ngaphambi kwengxoxo. Uma kwenzeka ukhohlwa ngephutha ukuyivala, vimbela isilingo ukuyihlola uma uthola umlayezo noma ucingo.

Okulandelayo: Ingabe uthathe isikhathi sokucwaninga inkampani engaba ngumqashi wakho olandelayo? Ukungenzi kanjalo yiphutha elilandelayo.

05 Ukungazi lutho ngeNkampani

Ungavumeli umqashi wakho ongase akwazi ukukuqeda ngombuzo othi, " Uyazi ngani ngale nkampani ?" Ngenye yemibuzo elula ku-ace, uma nje wenza ucwaningo ngaphambi kokuxoxa kwakho .

Imininingwane yasemuva kufaka phakathi umlando wenkampani, izindawo, ukuhlukana kanye nesitatimende sezemishini zitholakala esigabeni esithi "Mayelana Nathi" kwizinkampani eziningi zenkampani. Buyekeza ngaphambi kwesikhathi, bese uyiphrinta uphinde ufunde ngaphambi nje kokuxoxisana kwakho ukuvuselela imemori yakho. Futhi hlola ikhasi le-LinkedIn lenkampani, ikhasi le-Facebook, nokuphakelayo kwe-Twitter, uma baneyodwa.

Uyazi ukuthi usebenze nini? Ungase umangale ukwazi ukuthi abanye abaxoxwa nabo abakhumbuli izinsuku zabo zokusebenza kanye neminye imininingwane lapho beqala khona.

Okulandelayo : Nansi indlela yokugcina umlando wakho womsebenzi ngokuqondile futhi ugweme ukuzulazula kabusha amaqiniso.

06 Ezingcolile Qalisa Amaqiniso

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Ngisho noma uthumele ukuqhubeka lapho ufaka isicelo, ungase ucelwe ukuthi ugcwalise uhlelo lokusebenza lomsebenzi . Qinisekisa ukuthi uyazi ulwazi oluzodinga ukugcwalisa uhlelo lokusebenza kufaka izinsuku zokuqashwa kwangaphambili, izinsuku zokuphothula iziqu, kanye nolwazi lokuxhumana lomqashi.

Kuyaqondakala ukuthi amanye okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okudala angase kube nzima ukukhumbula. Buyekeza amaqiniso ngaphambi kwengxoxo yakho. Uma udinga, thatha isikhathi sokuvuselela umlando wakho womsebenzi , ngakho-ke ukuqhubeka kwakho kunembile. Kungaba usizo ukugcina ikhophi ye-resume yakho ukuze ubheke ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa kwakho, nakuba ngokuqinisekile awuyisebenzisi njenge-crutch.

Yiqiniso, akufanele nanini 'uphendule' amaqiniso ku-resume yakho. Uma ukhuluma ngokuyiqiniso ngokuqhubekayo kwakho, kungcono ukuthi uzokwazi ukuxoxa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho okudlule phakathi nengxoxo yakho.

Kulula kakhulu ukuphazanyiswa ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana, kepha ukungakunaki kungakubiza.

Funda ku -iphutha lokuxoxisana elivamile elilandelayo.

07 Ukungaqapheli

Ungazivumeli indawo yangaphandle ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana. Qiniseka ukuthi uphumule kahle, uqaphile, futhi ulungele ukuxoxa kwakho.

Ukuphazamiseka nokulahlekelwa umbuzo kubonakala kungalungile. Uma uhamba ngaphandle, umqashi wakho ongase abe khona uzozibuza ukuthi uzokwazi kanjani ukuhlala ucindezelekile phakathi nosuku emsebenzini, uma ungakwazi ngisho nokugxila ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana okulodwa.

Uma uzizwa uqaphele ukuyeka, yenza umzamo wokuhlala uhlanganyela. Gcina ukuxhumana kwamehlo, hlala phambili phambili lapho ukhuluma nomuntu obuza imibuzo, futhi wenze umzamo osebenzayo wokulalela ngokuphumelelayo.

Ngenkathi ungenayo inkinga ukunaka inkulumo eyodwa-yodwa ehhovisi elizimele, kunzima ukuhlala uhambisana nombukeli lapho uhlangana endaweni yomphakathi. Funda kabanzi mayelana namathiphu okuxoxisana endaweni yomphakathi .

Okulandelayo: Ezimweni ezicindezelayo, njengoba izingxoxo zivame ukuba, abantu bavame ukukhuluma okuningi. Lona iphutha lokuxoxisana elilandelayo ukugwema.

08 Ukukhuluma okuningi kakhulu

Akukho lutho olubi kunokuba uxoxisane nomuntu oqhubeka nokuqhubeka nokuqhubekayo ... Okhulumayo ngempela akadingi ukwazi indaba yakho yonke yokuphila. Gcina izimpendulo zakho zifinyeleleke, ziqonde-futhi zigxilwe futhi zingagcini - mane uphendule umbuzo.

Ungaphambuki futhi uqale ukukhuluma ngokuphila kwakho komuntu siqu - umlingani wakho, impilo yakho yasekhaya noma izingane zakho akuzona izihloko okufanele uzifake kuzo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukufudumala, ukwamukelwa noma ukuhlonipha umbuzo wakho kungaba yini, ukuxoxisana kuyisimo sobuchwepheshe - hhayi umuntu siqu.

Gwema leli phutha ngokusebenzisa ukukhulumisana okungaxhunywanga ukuze ucabange umqashi wakho ongase abe khona.

Futhi, hlola izinto eziphezulu eziyishumi ongayisho ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi .

Okulandelayo: Enye iphutha labo abafake izicelo zomsebenzi bavame ukulungele ukuphendula imibuzo.

09 Ukungabi Ukulungele Ukuphendula Imibuzo

Umbuzo wakho ozokubuza kungenzeka ukuthi akubuze okungaphezulu nje kwezinto eziyisisekelo mayelana nokuthi usebenze kuphi, futhi nini. Ukuze uthole ukuzizwa komsebenzi wakho, umbuzo wakho uzosebenzisa ngokunenzuzo isikhathi esinikezwe nenyama konke okudingeka akwazi ngawe njengesisebenzi.

Ungazivumeli ukuba uthathwe. Lungiselela ingxoxo yakho ngokubukeza ukuthi yimiphi imibuzo ongayilindela, nokuthi ungayiphendula kanjani .

Yilungele uhlu lwemibuzo yokubuza umqashi ukuthi ulungele uma ubuza ukuthi unemibuzo yombuzo. Bheka futhi, emibuzweni ongayifuni ukuyibuza ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi futhi nayizimpendulo ezimbi kakhulu okufanele uzigweme kuzo zonke izindleko.

Okulandelayo: Kubalulekile ukuyibeka enhle futhi ungakhulumi kabi ngabaqashi bakho ngaphambilini. Yingakho kuyiphutha ku-badmouth inkampani yakho, boss noma abasebenza nabo.

10 Ababi Abaqashi Abadala

Ungenzi iphutha lokuhlukumeza umphathi wakho noma osebenza nabo. Ngezinye izikhathi izwe elincanyana kunalokho ucabanga futhi awukwazi ukuthi ngubani ozoxoxa naye angazi, kuhlanganise nalowo ophethe i-idiot ... Awufuni ukuthi oxoxisana naye acabange ukuthi ungakhuluma ngaleyo ndlela mayelana naye inkampani uma ushiya ngemigomo engewona engcono kakhulu.

Uma uxoxisana nomsebenzi, ufuna umqashi wakho azi ukuthi ungasebenza kahle nabanye abantu futhi uphathe izingxabano ngendlela evuthiwe futhi ephumelelayo, kunokuba ugxeke osebenza nabo noma ukhulume ngokungaqondakali komunye umuntu.

Uma ubuzwa imibuzo enzima , njengokuthi "Ngitshele ngesikhatheso ukuthi awuzange usebenze kahle nomphathi. Waba yini umphumela futhi ungayishintsha kanjani umphumela?" noma "Uke wasebenza nomuntu ongamthandi? Uma kunjalo, uyiphathe kanjani ?," ungabuyeli emuva ekubizeni abanye abantu. Kunalokho, bukeza indlela yokuphendula imibuzo enzima.

Shayela phezulu imibuzo eningi yokuxoxisana nezimpendulo ngaphambi kokuxoxa kwakho.

Okulandelayo: Bese ubheke ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze uma ushaya ingxoxo yomsebenzi emsebenzini wakho wephupho futhi ufuna ukuzama ukubuyela emuva.

11 Indlela Yokuthola Isikhathi Sesibili Ngomqashi

Amanye amathuba emisebenzi ayikwazi ukulondolozwa, kodwa kuye ngezimo, ungakwazi ukunikeza umqashi ukuthi akucabangele. Akubona bonke abaqashi abanesikhathi noma izinsiza ze-"do-over" kodwa ungase ube nenhlanhla futhi uthole umuntu owaziyo ukuthi kwenzekani futhi wonke umuntu angaba nosuku olubi.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi uxoxisana no-interview, thatha isikhathi sokudubula umbuzo wakho i-imeyili echaza izimo zakho futhi ubonge ngethuba lokuxoxisana nabo.

Nakhu okumele ukwenze uma ufaka isicelo sokuxoxwa komsebenzi , kufaka phakathi umlayezo we-imeyli we-imeyli ongawuthumela, uma ufuna ukuzama ukuthola ithuba lesibili nomqashi.