Ukungabi nalutho kulula ukukhipha ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi, futhi abaqashi abafuni ukuqasha abantu ababi, abahlukumezayo noma abanzima. Kukhona amandla ekuqinisekiseni futhi izinkampani zifuna ukuqasha abasebenzi abenza konke okusemandleni abo ukubuka ohlangothini olukhanyayo futhi bagweme ukukhononda.
Amagama oyisebenzisayo phakathi kwemihlangano yenethiwekhi kanye nezingxoxo kufanele abonise isimo esihle, kanye nomdlandla wakho wokucatshangelwa umsebenzi noma ukuhanjiswa.
Uma ubhekana njengento engalungile, uma ikhono lakho lokuqhuba ingxoxo lilinganiselwe, noma uma isilulumagama sakho sigxiliswa nge-slang, ama-acronyms, nokugcwalisa okuningi okunjenge-"umm" noma "okufana" noma "uyazi" akuhambanga ukuze wenze umbono ongcono.
Okufanele Ukusho Uma Uxoxa Nezokuxhumana
Okushoyo ekuxhumaniseni othintana nabo nokuqasha abaphathi kunzima. Kubalulekile ukuwugcina ubuchwepheshe futhi ugweme noma yini eyakho siqu.
Umuntu oxoxa nawe akudingeki wazi ngokuphila kwakho komuntu siqu, umndeni wakho, abangani bakho, ezombangazwe, noma yini enye engavumelani nomsebenzi. Umuntu obuza imibuzo angase abuze imibuzo efana nokuthi " Uthandeka ngani ?" Ukuze ufunde kabanzi ngawe nokuthi ungangenela kanjani isiko lenkampani , kodwa vumela ukuba bakhulume kuqala.
Bese uphendule ngokucophelela kunoma yikuphi imibuzo, ukugxila kakhulu emisebenzini ngangokunokwenzeka.
Asikho isidingo sokuzithandela ulwazi lomuntu siqu. Ukuhlanganyela okuningi kungavimbela amathuba akho okuqashwa uma kuphakamisa ifulege elibomvu ngokutholakala kwakho noma iziqu zakho zomsebenzi. Okubalulekile ukuthi umphathi wokuqasha ufuna ukwazi ukuthi kungani ufanelekele umsebenzi , futhi yilokho okumele ugcizelele ezingxoxweni zakho.
Thatha isikhathi sokufanisa iziqu zakho emsebenzini , futhi ugxile ekuqinisekiseni kwakho okuqine kakhulu.
Ngokuxhumana nabo, kuxhomeke. Uma uhlangana noma ukhuluma noxhumana naye webhizinisi, imithetho efana nokuxoxa ngolwazi lomuntu nomuntu oxoxisana naye kuyasebenza. Yigcine ingcweti. Uma wazi umuntu oxhuma naye siqu, futhi kuhle, kuhle ukuhlanganyela okuningi.
Ukuthatha isikhathi sokulungiselela nokuxhuma ngokufanele kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi yonke imihlangano yokuxhumana enayo iyoba impumelelo .
Okungashiwo Ngesikhathi Usesho Lokusebenza
Omunye wamaphuzu amakhulu okufuna umsebenzi wephutha akwenzi ukuxubha amakhono abo okuxhumana ngaphambi kwemihlangano kanye nezingxoxo zomsebenzi. Omunye wemigomo abaqashi abayisebenzisayo uma ukhetha abafakizicelo ukuba baqashe ikhono lokukhulumisana kahle, futhi ozobhalwa ngumuntu ongenazo izinto eziyisisekelo uzoba nesikhathi esinzima sokuqashwa.
Yini okufanele ungayisho uma ufuna umsebenzi? Yimaphi amagama azokwenza umqashi acabange kabili ngokuqasha? Amagama nemishwana ukuze ugweme ukusebenzisa ukulingana ngezigaba ezimbili.
Kukhona izihloko okufanele zibekwe eceleni uma ukhuluma nomuntu ozoqasha noma ngisho noxhumana naye oxhumana nabo, njengalawa:
- Ngizonda umsebenzi wami
- Angizange ngihambisane nomphathi wami
- Le nkampani yayinzima ukusebenza
- Lokho kwakungeyona umsebenzi wami
- Angizange ngikhokhwe ngokwanele
- Ngidinga isikhathi ...
- Ingabe isimiso singashintshwa?
Kukhona nemigomo engxenyeni yengxoxo yansuku zonke, kodwa ungahlangabezane kahle uma uxoxa ngomsebenzi nomphathi wokuqashwa. Ngisho "okwesabekayo" noma "kodwa" kungaphazamisa ukugeleza kwengxoxo.
Nazi ezinye zamagama nemishwana eyenza umphathi wokuqashwa aphephe:
- Empeleni
- Ah
- Awesome
- Kodwa
- Hlala
- I-Huh
- Hmm
- Ngangingafuni
- Angazi
- Angikhumbuli
- Ngisho
- bengithi
- Ngizamile
- Angikuthandi
- Cishe ukuthi
- Like
- Ngokuphelele
- Uhh
- U-huh
- Uh-oh
- Uh-uh
- Umm
- Nina bafana
- Uyazi
- Uyazo ukuthi ngisho ukuthini
Amathiphu Wokulondoloza Ngomsebenzi Ekuxoxweni Komsebenzi
Lahla amagama okugcwalisa. Kungaba nzima ukuqeda amanye amagama angadingekile owasebenzisa ngaso sonke isikhathi kusukela olwazini lwakho lochwepheshe, kodwa uma uqhuba uzobe usakwazi ukukhuluma ngokushelela ngokwengeziwe esimisweni somsebenzi.
Ithiphu: Uma uzilalela ukhuluma, uzozwa ukuthi usebenzise kangakanani ukugcwalisa. Lokho kungaba yindlela enhle yokuqala ukuqeda kuzo izingxoxo zakho zobuchwepheshe.
Sebenzisa uhlelo lolimi olufanele futhi ugweme ukugxila. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulu uma unendima lapho amakhono okuxhumana webhizinisi ebalulekile. Uzoba ummeleli wakho, futhi inhlangano izokulindela ukuthi ukwazi ukuqhuba ingxoxo ephezulu.
Ithiphu: Ukuzikhandla ukuphendula imibuzo yokuxoxa nokukhuluma emisho ephelele. Buza umngane noma ilungu lomndeni ukusiza noma ukurekhoda ukukhuluma ukuze uthole umqondo walokho ongakuthuthukisa. Uma ukhululekile ngokwengeziwe ukuxoxa ngeziqu zakho, kuzoba lula.
Thatha isikhathi sokuphendula. Ngisho noma ungase uzizwe sengathi udinga ukuphendula impendulo yophikumezi ngokushesha, akudingeki. Kuyamukeleka ukubeka impendulo futhi wazi ukuthi uthini ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ukukhuluma.
Ithiphu: Lindela okwesibili noma ezimbili ngaphambi kokuba ukhulume. Kuyoba lula ukugxila kulokho ofuna ukukusho uma uzizinika isikhathi esincane sokukusho.
Amathiphu Wokugcina Okuhle
Lezi zeluleko zizokusiza ukuba uhlale uphumelele ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa kwemisebenzi , futhi kuzokusiza ukuba wenze umqashi omuhle kakhulu ngisho noma kufanele ukhohlise kancane ukwenza kanjalo. Futhi, ubuyekeze izinto ezingu-25 okufanele ungalokothi uthathe ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi uma ufuna ukuzenza kuzungeze olandelayo izingxoxo noma uvikele ukunikezwa komsebenzi.