Beka eceleni ukukhathalela wonke umuntu futhi aninakekele.
Abomama abasebenzayo bangakwazi ukulahlekelwa kalula ukuthi bangobani njengomuntu kuzo zonke izinkathazo zokunakekela abanye noma ukuzama ukufinyelela imigomo yezinkampani.
Kungaba umsebenzi okhandlayo futhi ungangenisa ukushisa (okwenzele kimi!). Uma ubeka imigomo yakho yokuzicabangela igxile ekunakekeleni kwakho futhi kukhulise umama wakho amandla .
Ngakho uma uzizwa ulahlekile yisikhathi sokusetha izinto zakho eminye imigomo eqinile.
Izindlela zokucwaninga ngokucophelela kusho ukuqiniseka nokuzethemba okukhulu; ngesibindi kakhulu futhi esimangazayo noma esesabekayo; isibindi.
Ukuzikhandla ngokwengeziwe umgomo ukukhanga ngokwengeziwe kuzoba khona. Ungaba nomgomo wokufuna ukunciphisa isisindo, kodwa zama ukukwenza ukuthi uhlose sengathi ufuna ukulahlekelwa amapounds angu-50! Cabanga kakhulu futhi uzivumele ukuba ujabule yinto enkulu lapha.
Manje yisikhathi sokufika emsebenzini! Nakhu amanye amathiphu ozoqala ukudala umgomo wokuzibophezela.
Indlela yokudala imigomo yakho
Qala ngokuzinika isikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho ongathanda ukukwenza ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ezilandelayo. Okuningi kungenzeka ezinsukwini ezingu-180! Ukuze ugweme i-block yomlobi ungafaki ukucubungula kwakho ekuhleleni okulodwa. Setha isikhathi esinqunyiwe bese uzinika isonto elilodwa ucabange.
Ukugcina ukulungiswa kwemigomo eqondile ngaphambili kwezingqondo zakho ezibekwe izikhumbuzo ekuthunyelwe kuyo amanothi noma ama-alamu efonini yakho. Hlela ukuhamba okusheshayo phakathi namahora omsebenzi wakho ngenhloso yokucabanga ngomgomo wakho wokuzikhandla.
Sebenzisa ukuhamba kwakho uye emsebenzini, futhi, bese ubhala imicabango yakho ngezwi lezwi ongalilalela kamuva.
Qonda ukuthi kungani umgomo wakho ubalulekile
Uma ucabanga ngomgomo okhuthele ukuthi kungani kubalulekile kuwe. Le ncazelo iyadlala lapho udinga isisusa sokuqhubeka. Ngakho gcwalisa ingenalutho, "Uma ngigcwalisa lo mgomo ngizojabula ngoba ..."
Hlanganisa ukuthi impilo izoba njani ngemva kokuba ufinyelele kulo mgomo okhuthele.
Ake sithi ufuna imoto eqondile ukukushayela wena nomndeni wakho ezweni lonke. Zivelele ngokugcwele embonweni wokuhlala emotweni futhi uzwe iphunga lemoto elisha. Iphupho mayelana nokuthola ukhululekile ekutholeni lokho okudingayo ngoba ugibele kahle futhi kunendawo enkulu yokufinyelela emuva futhi uthole okudingayo. Cabanga ngazo zonke izinto ozibonayo nokuthi ujabule umyeni wakho kanye nezingane kuzoba.
Ngakho uma usuku lwakho lokuhamba luqala ukuphela, hlala kuso isikhathi eside nje.
Lokhu kungase kuthathe ukucindezela ngoba futhi, kulula kakhulu ukusebenza omama ukuba njalo "ku" futhi banakekele wonke umuntu , kodwa ekulephupheni kuyindlela yokunakekela izidingo zakho ukuze uhlale ephusheni uma nje wena kungaba.
Qala ukufinyelela imigomo yakho
Okulandelayo, yehlisa umgomo ezincane ezincane. Qala ukuthatha izinyathelo zomntwana.
Isibonelo, ake sithi enye yamagugu akho omndeni ngumndeni futhi okubalulekile kwakho kufanele kube kuhlelekile kakhulu ekhaya. Lo mgomo mkhulu futhi ungafaka imisebenzi eminingi emincane. Ukuqeda umgomo ngamacici amancane okuluma amancane kwenza umgomo ufinyeleleke kalula.
Ungase uqale ngokugxila ekamelweni elilodwa ngesikhathi bese ubuza, "Ngingakwenza kanjani ukuthi leli gumbi lisebenze kangcono kimi nomndeni wami ekuseni ngakho isu lethu lokuphuma lihamba kahle?" Noma "Yini engingayenza ukuze kuthi lapho sibuya ekhaya konke kubeka endaweni yayo.
Yenza zonke izinsuku zibalwe ngokugcwalisa i-chunk encane yomgomo wakho (khumbula unezinsuku ezingu-180!). Noma ngabe uvuka ngosuku noma ngaphambi kokulala ebusuku cabanga ngalokho ongakwenza ngosuku olulandelayo ukuze uthole isinyathelo esisodwa esiseduze nomgomo wakho. Izinhlanzi ezincane zenza izinjongo ezingaphezu kokuzikhandla futhi hhayi ezinzima kakhulu .
Ukuthola ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyifeza ibeka ithoni yosuku ngoba uyazi ukuthi ufuna ukufeza.
Ukuhlela kusiza ukugwema lowo mzwa wokuthi ugijima nxazonke ngekhanda lakho likhishiwe (umsindo ojwayelekile?).
Unomqondo wokuqondisa, umsebenzi, futhi lapho umgomo omncane usuqedile uthola umuzwa wokwaneliseka.
Khumbula umgomo wakho wokuziphendulela
Abomama abasebenzayo banokuphila okumatasa futhi okumatasa. Ukubeka umgomo wokuziphendulela yisikhathi sokuphepha!
Uma wazi ukuthi ufuna ukwenza nini usebenzisa isikhathi esincane namandla akho ezintweni ezingabalulekile.
Isikhathi asichithekile.
Yenza ukushaya umgomo wakho wokuziqhenya ingxenye yombuso wakho wokuzinakekela ngoba ukunakekela izimfuno zakho nezifiso zakho kuzokukwenza umama osebenzayo onjabulo.