Izindwangu zokungahambisani nezebulili
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungowesifazane ohlukumeza isambatho esingaphezu kwesifazane, indoda ethanda ukubheka okungezansi kobulili, noma umuntu ongahambisani nobulili noma umuntu owehlukile, uzokwazi ukugqoka impumelelo ngaphandle kwenkinga.
Isihluthulelo ukuthola izambatho ezikufanele kahle, futhi zibukeka zipholile futhi zisebenza. Lokhu kuyiqiniso kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ukugqoka. Okuhle, konke okumele ukhathazeke ngakho kufeza lezo zigaba ezintathu.
Nakhu okusho ukuthi:
- Izembatho akufanele zibe zinkulu noma ezincane kakhulu, ziqinile noma zigijime. (Iziphakamiso zemithombo yezambatho zebhizinisi ze-androgynous zingezansi, kodwa futhi cabanga ngokuvakashela umsizi uma kunesidingo.)
- Kanye nokufaneleka kahle, izingubo kufanele zibe zihlanzekile futhi zinganambitheki.
- Uma ungabaza, imibala engathathi hlangothi - njenge-black, taupe, beige, eluhlaza, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, neyimpunga - yizinketho ezinhle.
Amathiphu Okunquma Yini Okugqoka
Uma ungakaze uzizwe ukhululekile ngengubo, akufanele uzinqume ukuba ugule enye engxoxweni. Ukuzethemba kuyisihluthulelo ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana, futhi kunzima ukuqiniseka uma uzizwa ungakhululekile ezembatho zakho.
Ekugcineni, akufanele uzizwe ucindezelekile ukuzethula ngendlela engahambisani nobunikazi bakho.
Uma ukhathazekile ngokubandlululwa kwama-agains , kufanele uthintane newebhusayithi ye-Human Rights Campaign ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nemithetho yokubandlulula esifundazweni sakho, kufaka phakathi ukuthi awuvikelekile yini umthetho noma yini okufanele uyenze uma uzizwa uhlaselwe yisisulu lokucwaswa.
Futhi, uma uzithola ucindezelekile ngokuthi ungaziveza kanjani ekukhulumisaneni, kufanele uhlale ukhumbule ukuthi ukuhlala kwakho emsebenzini kuyisici esikhulu empumelelweni yakho yobuchwepheshe.
Cishe ngeke ufune ukusebenza enkampanini engakucindezela ukuba ugqoke ngendlela engqubuzana nobunikazi bakho, ngakho-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kungcono ukugqoka izingubo ezibonisa wena njengomuntu ngamunye.
Ngakho-ke, uma ungowesifazane oshaya i-blazer noma umnsalo ongcono kunendlela owake wayigqoka ngayo-ngakho-ke kungaba njalo!
Ama-Dress Dress Amakhodi
Lokho okugqoka ekuxoxweni komsebenzi kuyisinqumo sakho. Kodwa-ke, umqashi angase abe nekhodi yokugqoka endaweni echaphazela lokho okugqoka ukusebenza.
Umkhankaso Wamalungelo Abantu uthi: "Uma umqashi enesidingo sokugqoka, kufanele ashintshe ukugwema ukulingana ngokobulili nokuyiqinisa ngokuqhubekayo. Kudinga amadoda ukuba agqoke izicathulo nabesifazane ukuba bagqoke iziketi noma izingubo, kuyilapho bezomthetho, kusekelwe ekuziphatheni kobulili. Ngaphandle kwalokho, amakhodi adinga izambatho ngokufanelekayo afanele ehhovisi noma iyunithi lapho umsebenzi esebenza khona kungabandakanyeli ngokobulili. Abaqashi bangakwazi ukufaka umthetho ngokusemthethweni amakhodi okugqoka ngokobulili uma nje bengacindezelwa ngokungafanele futhi bangathandi noma baphathise ubulili obulodwa ngaphezu komunye . "
Uma usuphephile umsebenzi wokunikezela umsebenzi, ungaxhumana nomnyango wenkampani yomsebenzi noma umphathi wokuqashwa ukuba abuze mayelana nekhodi yokugqoka yenkampani nokuthi ingakuthinta kanjani.
Izembatho ze-Androgynous for Interviews and Work
Uma ufuna izeluleko zesitayela, hlola i-Qwear, imithombo enhle kakhulu kubantu abanezindlela zokuziphatha ngokobulili nezingahambisani. Futhi, uma usulungele ukuthenga inthanethi, hlola lezi zitolo ezithengisa izingubo zebhizinisi ezihlelekile, kanye nezembatho ezisemthethweni zabesifazane, ezizosebenza kahle ngengubo yokuxoxisana:
- I-Haute Butch ineqoqo elikhulu lokugqoka labesifazane abakhetha isitayela somuntu wesigqoko.
- I-VEEA iyinhlangano ethandwayo yemfashini, idayisa izingubo zembatho, amabhantshi, amakhadi, izivande, nezesekeli.
- I-GFW Clothing (emele izwe elingenalo ubulili) lithengisa amashirts oklanyelwe ukufanelana nezinhlobo zomzimba, kunokuba abesilisa.
- Nakuba ngokuyisisekelo isitolo sezindwangu zempahla, u-Topman uyaziwa ukuhlinzeka izingubo zesilisa ngendlela ehambisana nezilinganiso ezithinta abesifazane.
Izinsiza ezengeziwe zokuxoxisana
Indlela Yokugqoka Ngempumelelo
Indlela yokugqoka i-interview kuhlanganise neseluleko ngalokho, futhi yini okungenjalo, ukugqoka ekuxoxweni komsebenzi, izingubo ezifanele zokuxoxisana, indlela yokugcizelela umqashi ozoba khona, ibhizinisi ngokubambisana nezambatho ezingavamile, kanye namathiphu okugqoka impumelelo.
Izimpendulo Eziningi Zokuxoxisana Ezivamile Zokugwema
Nanka abafuna umsebenzi ophuthumayo kakhulu abafuna umsebenzi futhi bazigweme kanjani.
Imibuzo Yokuxoxa Nezimpendulo
Isihluthulelo sokuxoxa ngokuphumelelayo ukubukeza le mibuzo ejwayelekile yokuxoxisana bese ulungisa izimpendulo zakho. Futhi ulungele imibuzo yombuzo-nangu uhlu.