Amasu Wokuthengisa Emkhakheni Wokukhiqizwa Kwezingane Ze-Slumping
Ngisho nasezikhathini ezinzima, abazali kudingeka baqhubeke nokuthenga "izinto ezibalulekile" ezinganeni zabo nezingane zabo, kodwa bangase banciphise izinto ezingabalulekile. Uma ufuna ukuqala ibhizinisi elithatha abathengi bomzali, hlala kude nezinto ezithokozisa ingane kuze kube yilapho umnotho unamandla. Uma usuvele usomabhizinisi futhi ukuthengiswa kwehla, cabanga ukushintsha imikhiqizo yakho noma amasevisi ukugoqa ngezikhathi (ezinzima).
Thengisa Okudingwa Abantu
Imibono eqinile yebhizinisi yimibono yebhizinisi engaphelelwa yisikhathi. Zihlanganisa imibono yomkhiqizo ehambisana nezidingo kanye / noma ukufunwa okuqhubekayo. Kuzingane, lokhu kuhlanganisa izingubo zekhwalithi, imidlalo yokufundisa, izincwadi, umculo, amaphrojekthi wezobuciko kanye nezincwadi. Gcina, engqondweni, ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezithengisa kangcono kunoma yisiphi isikhathi esithile kungashintsha ngezimiso. Imikhiqizo "Yokucebisa", ngokuvamile, ihlale ithandwa phakathi kwabazali abacebile. Ezinganeni, "izinto ezibalulekile" azipheli isikhathi: izikhwama ze-diaper, izigubhu ze-burping, kanye nokulala kombhede. Lezi yizinto abazali abazidingayo futhi ngokujwayelekile bazozithengela ingane entsha.
Dala i-Gold Standard: Namathisela okuyisisekelo
Izinto zokwaziswa zingathengisa okwesikhashana, kodwa amafayili omthengi awunakulinganiswa futhi angeke asekele ibhizinisi lesikhathi eside. Ukuthola i-niche nokuhambisana nemikhuba kubalulekile, kodwa okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi kube nomugqa womkhiqizo we "wegolide" owenziwe ekuthengiseni okusheshayo nokuzinzile okuzoqhubeka nokuphila kwebhizinisi lakho.
Isibonelo, cabanga ngeLenox China. Babeka amathrendi futhi benze imali enkulu ekudayiseni amafayili kanye nezintsha ezingenalutho kubantu abacebileyo (bahlinzeka ngisho ne-china entsha ku-White House kuwo wonke umongameli omusha), kodwa izinga labo legolide le-quality dinnerware eliyisisekelo lenzé uLenox omunye wendala kakhulu futhi inenzuzo kakhulu amabhizinisi e-china emhlabeni.
Okushiwo Abazali
Uma imindeni ingekho imali-abampofu, abazali banamathuba amaningi okutshala imali kumathoyizi ezemfundo, izincwadi, imidlalo, kanye namathoyizi asebenzisanayo kunokuba babe izinto zokudlala ze-flash-in-the-pan. Abazali abathweswe imali bafuna ukuzizwa sengathi baye banikele okuthile entweni yenhlalakahle yengane, hhayi nje ebhokisini labo lokudlala.
Ukuchithwa kwemali komndeni kuye kwaholela ekunciphiseni kokuhamba futhi kuya kuma-movie, amapaki wokuzijabulisa, kanye nokudliwa ngaphandle. Ungagcwalisa kanjani lokhu okungekho emthethweni? Unayo umdlalo noma isevisi ukusiza imindeni ichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye ekhaya? Ukufunda ngamanye amasiko noma ngandlela-thile ukulingisa okuhlangenwe nakho abakuthola ukuhamba?
Ngezikhathi ezinhle, ukuthenga kuvame ukubonwa futhi kuzwe njengemivuzo-njengokuthi "uyifanele." Ngezikhathi ezinzima, ukuthenga kubonakala kunjengokuzidela-ngaphezulu kwemigqa ethi "Angifanele ngempela."
Lokhu akuwona umnotho lapho kufanele ubuze Ngingayithengisa kanjani abazali kubazali? Esikhundleni salokho kufanele uzibuze wena Ngingayenza kanjani ukuthi imakethe ukuthi umkhiqizo wami uzongeza inzuzo empilweni yomuntu? Kungani umzali angazizwa enecala lokusebenzisa imali emkhiqizo wami uma engakwazi ukubeka eceleni imali yokugcina ikholeji? Uma ungakwazi ukuphendula lo mbuzo kubazali emikhankaso yakho yokukhangisa nokukhangisa, ukuthengisa kwakho cishe kuyothatha.
Shintsha emithethweni yemithetho yempahla okufanele uyenze ngayo
Ngokuyinhloko, imithetho yemfanelo yemikhiqizo ibuswa ezingeni likahulumeni futhi umbuso wakho ungadinga ukuba uthole izimvume ezikhethekile kanye nomshuwalense wemfanelo ukuthengisa imikhiqizo yabantwana. Nokho, maduzane, iNkantolo Ephakeme yase-United States inqume ukuthi umthetho wesifundazwe ulungisa umthetho wesifundazwe. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthengisa izinto zezingane, qiniseka ukuthi ufunda ngoMthetho Wokuthuthukisa Imikhiqizo yabathengi. Umthetho, owenziwe ngo-2009, udinga izinto ezithile ezenziwe ngezandla ezihloswe ukuthi izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-12 zihlolwe.