Indlela Abesifazane Abangakhulumisana Ngayo Elingomabhizinisi
Ukubamba ngesandla kungaphezu nje kokubingelela. Kuyinto futhi umyalezo mayelana nobuntu bakho nezinga lokuzethemba. Ebhizinisi, ukuxhunyana ngesandla kuyithuluzi elibalulekile ekwenzeni okulungile ukuqala kuqala.
Ngenkathi ubuciko bokusebenzisana buhluka phakathi kwamasiko, e-United States "imithetho" ihle kakhulu.
01 Qala Ngekusungulwa Kwezwi Lakho
02 Pump isandla sakho kuphela 2-3 Times
Ukubambisana ngebhizinisi kumele kufushane futhi kube sekugcineni. Cabanga ngokubambisana ngokubambisana "ukukhala okuzwakalayo" ukubingelela, hhayi ukubandakanya isikhathi eside. Ukugcina imizuzwana engaphezu kwemibili noma emine kungenza abanye abantu bazizwe bengakhululekile.
03 Shake From Your Sidebow
Uma ugxuma kusukela ehlombe, usebenzisa ingalo yakho engaphezulu kunokuba nje uqobo lwakho, usengozini yokuxosha umngani wakho wesandla somuntu. Umqondo uwukuxhuma, hhayi ukugabisa.
04 Ungasebenzisi I-Grip Forceful
Ukubambisana kufanele kube isenzo senobungane noma esenhlonipho, hhayi umbukiso wamandla angokwenyama. Ukubamba ngesandla okungahambi kahle akuyona into ejabulisayo kunoma ubani. Cabanga ukuthi uvula isibambo somnyango futhi usebenzise eduze kwezinga elifanayo lokubamba ngesandla.
05 Gwema Ukunikeza "Isandla Sokudoba"
Isandla esiphambene naso akusoze kube nomqondo omuhle uma kuziwa ngokubambisana kwebhizinisi. Buyela emuva, kodwa ungangeni emzabalazweni wamandla, ngisho noma omunye umuntu ephoqa kakhulu.
06 Khohlwa "iminwe yamadodakazi"
Akuyona i-cotillion yaseNingizimu; lokhu ibhizinisi. Ukunikeza iminwe yakho kuphela ukuzamazama kungase kudingeke kwezinye izilungiselelo zomphakathi, kodwa kuzilungiselelo zebhizinisi, ulingana, hhayi "nkosikazi." Yandisa isandla sakho sonke, futhi qiniseka ukuthi uyakwazi ukusebenzisa isandla sakho sonke.
07 Isandla Esilungile Kunamabili
Gwema isifiso sokubambisana ngezandla ezimbili. Kuhlale kungcono kakhulu ezethulweni zebhizinisi ukusebenzisa isandla esisodwa kuphela - isandla sakho sokunene - ukuzamazama. Ukusetshenziswa kwezandla ezimbili nabantu abangaziwayo kubonakala sengathi kuyisimangaliso, futhi kuyinto yomuntu siqu. Eqinisweni, ukuzamazama okubili okubizwa ngokuthi "u-politician shake," ngoba kubonakala kunobungane lapho kusetshenziselwa abantu owaziyo.
08 Ukuthungatha Isandla Esishayekile
Uma ugoqa izandla nomuntu onamasundu, ungafaki ngokushesha izandla zakho ezembathweni zakho, emakhanda noma emathisini. Kuzoqhubeka nokuhlazisa omunye umuntu, okungenzeka ukuthi kakade uyazi ukuthi banezandla ezithuthukayo. Ungakwazi ukusula ngokucacile okuthile emva kokuphuma kwesayithi, bese uwageza kamuva.
09 Ukuqeda ukuxhawula ngesandla
Qeda ukuxhaphaza emva kwemizuzwana 3-4 noma amaphampu 2-3. Ukuze ugweme ukudala umzuzwana ongathandeki, ukuzamazama kwakho kumele kuphele ngaphambi kokuba isingeniso somlomo senzelwe. Ngaphandle kwengxoxo eyenzeka ngesikhathi sonke sokubamba ngesandla, kuba usondelene kakhulu futhi kungase kube nomuzwa wokuthi ufana nokubamba ngesandla.
10 Ukuvala Amaphutha Akho
Ngisho noma wenza iphutha, ungesabi. Kunezindlela eziningi zokulondoloza okwamanje. Uma ukhathazekile ukuthi ukuxhashazwa ngesandla akudlulisanga umlayezo ofanele ngawe, mane nje ushintshe ukugxila kwesikhashana ngokunikeza ukuncoma okusheshayo noma ukucela omunye umuntu umbuzo.