Iyini iphuzu lokubuka okulinganiselwe komuntu wesithathu?
Umuntu wesithathu ongazi konke (okusho ukuthi "konke owaziyo") iphuzu lokubuka indlela yokukhuluma lapho umlandisi ekwazi ukuthi yilowo nalowo umlingiswa ucabangani.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphuzu lomuntu ongenamkhawulo, kuyindlela yokukhuluma indaba lapho umlandisi eyazi kuphela imicabango nemizwa yomlingisi oyedwa, kuyilapho ezinye izinhlamvu zivezwa ngaphandle. Umuntu wesithathu ulinganiselwe unikeza umlobi inkululeko enkulu kunomuntu wokuqala , kodwa ulwazi oluncane kunomuntu wesithathu ongazi konke.
Kungani ukhetha iphuzu lokubuka okulinganiselwe lomuntu wesithathu?
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ungase unqume ukuthi umuntu wesithathu unciphise kungenzeka ukuthi ulungile ngomsebenzi wakho olandelayo wezingqikithi. Nanka nje amathuba ambalwa:
- Ufuna ikhono lokubonisa isimo ngamehlo ehlamvu oluthakazelisayo noma oluyingqayizivele;
- Ubhala imfihlakalo, futhi ufuna umfundi ukuba abone izinkomba kanye nemiphumela kusuka endaweni yokubuka enye yezinhlamvu zakho;
- Utshela indaba lapho imibono yakho yomuntu oyinhloko ishintsha noma ishintsha, futhi ufuna ukukhombisa lezo zinguquko ngamehlo abo;
- Ufuna ukugcina umqondo wokungaqiniseki mayelana nezinye izinyathelo, izinzwelo, noma ezedlule.
Izibonelo zombono womuntu wesithathu okulinganiselwe ekulandiseni
Imisebenzi eminingi yezingqikithi ilandiswa kusukela kumuntu wesithathu umuntu olinganiselwe umbono. Isibonelo, ukuhlonipha nokuzicwaba okudumile kukaJane Austen kubhekiswa ngokuphelele ekuboneni kwe-protagonist u-Elizabeth Bennett.
Uchungechunge lukaJar Rowling lukaHarry Potter luveza izimfihlakalo zalo ngoHarry ngokwakhe, onjengoba umfundi, omusha ezweni lomlingo nomlingo.
Isibonelo esilandelayo somuntu wesithathu ongekho emaciniswaneni okulinganiselwe yi-Ernest Hemingway's For Who Bell is Tolls , eqina ngokuqaphela komlingiswa oyedwa, okukaRobert Jordan, ohlanganyela:
"Lo Anselmo wayeyisiqondiso esihle futhi wayekwazi ukuhamba kahle ezintabeni. URobert Jordan wayehamba kahle ngokwanele futhi wayazi ngokumlandela kusukela ngaphambi kokukhanya kwemini ukuthi le ndoda endala ingamhamba nayo eya ekufeni. URobert Jordan wamethemba lo muntu, u-Anselmo , kuze kube manje, kukho konke ngaphandle kwesahlulelo. Wayengakabi nethuba lokuhlola isahlulelo sakhe, futhi, noma kunjalo, ukwahlulelwa kwakuwumthwalo wakhe. "
Umfundi uzokwazi kuphela imicabango ka-Anselmo kanye nezimpendulo uma eveza ngezenzo zakhe. Kodwa imicabango kaRobert Jordan izokwabiwa kulo lonke indaba. Ukuphendula kwakhe nokuhumusha kwakhe izenzakalo umfundi azokuqonda nokulandela.
Ngenxa yokuthi umuntu wesithathu okulinganiselwe uchazwa ngokuyinhloko ngalokho angakwenzi, kungasiza ngalesi sikhathi ukufunda isibonelo somuntu wesithathu ongaziwa uma eqhathaniswa.