Uma ungomunye wabantu abangaba ngu-50% abakhomba njenge-introvert, ungadikibali. Usengakwazi ukuxoxa naye.
Indlela Yokulungiselela Ingxoxo njengo-Introvert
Ngokuba izethulo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela ukuxoxwa kahle. Ngezansi, thola amasu nezeluleko zokusiza ngisho nesethuli esilondoloziwe kakhulu nesilungile ngesikhathi sokuxoxa.
Hlela isikhathi sakho ngokuhlakanipha
Njengoba izimo zenhlalo nokuhlangana nabantu abasha kungabakhokhisa izintela, gwema ukuxoxa ezinkampanini eziningana ngosuku olulodwa. Ufuna ukuthi wonke amandla akho atholakale ukuze azinikele kwinkampani eyodwa kanye nengxoxo. Uma usuqashwe njengamanje, cabanga ukubiza ogulayo kusuka emsebenzini wakho ukuze ukwazi ukugxila ku-interview. Noma, hlela i-interview yakho ekuseni, ngakho ayifiki ekupheleni kosuku lomsebenzi, lapho ukuhlala komphakathi kungase kube nomuzwa wokukhokhisa ngaphezulu.
Ngokuvamile, kuzodingeka uxoxisane nabantu abaningana emsebenzini.
Uma lokho kwenzeka, ungabi namahloni ngokucela ukuphulwa okusheshayo phakathi kwengxoxo. Sebenzisa lesi sikhathi uthole isiphuzo samanzi, uthathe ukuphefumula okujulile, bese uzinika inkulumo yokukhuluma.
Yenza Ucwaningo Lwakho
Ngaphambi kokuxoxisana, sebenzisa isikhathi sokucwaninga inkampani. Ungabheka iwebhusayithi yabo, futhi useshe inthanethi izindaba zakamuva kanye nokushicilelwa mayelana nenkampani.
Endaweni yomsebenzi i-Glassdoor.com, uzothola izibuyekezo zezinkampani, kanye nezeluleko zangaphakathi ekuxoxweni. Uma unomqashi , bacele ukuba uthole amathiphu ngalokho okumele ulindele ngesikhathi sokuxoxa.
Kuyamukeleka futhi ukucela umuntu ukuthi ahlele ukuxoxisana ukuthi izingxoxo ezithatha isikhathi eside kangakanani, kanye namagama neziqu zabantu ozohlangana nabo. Sebenzisa lolu lwazi ukuthola amaphrofayela abo ku- LinkedIn . Konke lokhu kucwaninga kuzokusiza ukubona ngeso lengqondo lolu daba. Uzozizwa ucindezelwe kakhulu uma unomqondo wokuthi yini ongayilindela.
Lungiselela Imibuzo Ejwayelekile
Ingabe udinga isikhathi esiningi ukugaya futhi uhlele impendulo? Ukuze uthole ama-introverts, ukufakwa endaweni futhi uphoqelelwe ukuba uphendule ngendiza kungase kungakhululekile. Ngenkathi imibuzo ethile yokuxoxisana ingaba yi-ball curve, eziningi kulula ukuzilindela.
Buyekeza uhlu lwemibuzo evamile yokuxoxa . Yima phambi kwesibuko futhi usebenzise izimpendulo zakho. Ngenkathi kungenza ube ne-cringe, lo mkhuba ungakusiza ukuthuthukisa izimpendulo zakho.
Kanye nokuthola izimpendulo engqondweni ngemibuzo edingwayo yokuxoxwa, ungaphinde uhlele phambili lokho ozokusho uma ngabe i-interview ibuza uma unemibuzo. (Nakhu eminye yemibuzo engcono kakhulu okufanele uyibuze ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi .)
Yiba Nezinqubo Zokuqeda Ziseduze
Ngisho nemikhuba eminingi, kungenzeka ukuthi abacwaningi bazokubuza umbuzo ongalindelekile. Hlela kusengaphambili ngalesi simo ngokusebenzisa amasu agqamile. Ungathenga isikhathi ngokusho into enjengokuthi "Umbuzo omkhulu. Singakwazi yini ukumbuthisa emuva kulowo?" Thola amathiphu amaningi mayelana nokuthi ungaphendula kanjani imibuzo engavamile yokuxoxa .
Lungisa Ingxoxo encane
Phakathi kwezingeniso kanye nemibuzo evulekile yokuxoxisana, ngezinye izikhathi inkulumo encane. Khumbula, ukuqala kokuqala phakathi nezingxoxo kubaluleke kakhulu. Woza uzilungiselele nge-line noma ezimbili ngesimo sezulu, noma udumo noma ukuhlaziya ehhovisi. Be upbeat, positive, futhi uhlanganyele ngalezi zingxoxo.
Thengisa izimfanelo zakho ze-Introvert
Izimfanelo eziningi izethulo ezivame ukuzenza zidingeka kakhulu ukuba nenkampani ephumelelayo.
Ama-Introverts ajwayelekile ngokulandelana kwemininingwane, ukudala, ukucabangela, nokusebenza kahle kokubili ngokuzimela nangokubambisana. Isikhathi esinikeziwe sokulungiselela, izethulo zingakhanyisa emihlanganweni nasethubeni.
Ngaphambi kokuxoxisana, yenza uhlu lwezinto ozifezile . Cabanga ngendlela izethulo zakho ezingase zibe zisiza ngayo. Ingabe usuqedile ngokweqile iphrojekthi abanye abashiye ngemuva kokuqaliswa? Sombulula inkinga enameva ngemva kokuzindla ngakho? Ukucebisa ngokucophelela nokusekela abasebenzi? Yenza lezi zenzakalo ngesikhathi sokuxoxa kwakho.
Landela lawa macebiso, futhi uzoqiniseka ukuthi uzokhipha amasokisi ngaphandle kombuzo wakho! Uma usuqedile umsebenzi, qiniseka ukuthi ubukeza amathiphu ethu amathiphu agxile ekusungulweni kokuqala isikhundla esisha .