Umbono wokuqala wokuxoxisana naye uvame ukuhlala njalo, ngakho-ke indlela oziveza ngayo ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana kubalulekile. Futhi ngenkathi ezinye izingubo ze-no-nos zicacile (njalo, ngaso sonke isikhathi uhlale kude ne-denim), ezinye iziqondiso zingase zibe ngaphezulu.
Funda ngezansi ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani ukubukeka kwakho kubalulekile futhi uthole izincomo ezembathweni ezifanele ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa kwemisebenzi.
Gqoka Okuhle Kakhulu Lapho Uxoxa
Ingabe ingenza umehluko ngempela ukuthi ugqoka kanjani ingxoxo ? Ezimweni eziningi, liyakwenza. Angisoze ngikhohlwa umlingisi engangikuxoxisana naye isikhundla sokuphendula. Wayephelelwe umsebenzi izinyanga ezimbalwa futhi wayefuna ukungibonisa ukuthi kungani. Wasusa ibhantshi lakhe, wavala ihembe lakhe, futhi waqala ukudiliza ibhulukwe lakhe (lena indaba yeqiniso) ukungibonisa isibazi esivela emkhunjini owenzelwe umonakalo. Akazange athole umsebenzi. Futhi le ndoda encane yayingeyona ingubo ebomvu ephuzi kangangokuthi yayingeke ihlale phansi!
Esikhathini sezulu sezentengiselwano esisebenzisayo esangisebenza ngaleso sikhathi, ukubonakala kwakubalulekile. Kwezinye izindawo, akubalulekile. Isibonelo, izambatho zemibuzo yomsebenzi wehlobo ehlobo noma ukuxoxwa komsebenzi wokuqala ngeke kube okusemthethweni.
Kodwa-ke, kunengqondo ukugqoka okungcono kakhulu ukuxoxisana, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini yokugqoka enhlanganweni.
Uma ungabaza ukuthi ungagqoka kanjani i-interview , kungcono ukuphutha eceleni kwe-conservatism. Kungcono kakhulu ukuba ugqoke ngokweqile kunokucindezeleka (noma ungagciniwe). Uma ungaqiniseki, hlola nomuntu ohlele lolu daba bese ucela.
Nansi iseluleko ukuthi yimiphi imibala okufanele uyigqoke ekuxoxweni komsebenzi nokuthi yini ongayigqoke ekuxoxweni komsebenzi .
Ngokusho kukaKim Zoller ku-Image Dynamics, u-55% womuntu omunye umbono wakho usekelwe ekubukeni kwakho. Ngakho-ke ngenkathi izingubo zakho zingase zibonakale ukukhathazeka okungathí sina uma kuqhathaniswa nolwazi lwakho nemibono yakho, lokho okugqoka kungenza umehluko endleleni abacwaningi bazokuhlola ngayo njengokhetho.
UZoller wabelane ngamanye amathiphu wokuthi ungabheka kanjani okuhle, ngaphandle kokusebenzisa imali eningi. Nakhu ukubuka okusheshayo okuyisisekelo:
Izambatho Zokuxoxisana Kwabesifazane Abesifazane
- Umbala oqinile, i-suit evamile
- I-blouse ehlanganisiwe
- Izicathulo ezilinganiselwe
- Ukuhlobisa okulinganiselwe
- Ehle, ngekhanda lobuchwepheshe
- I-Tan noma i-hosiery elula
- I-makeup esheshayo namafutha
- Izipikili ezenziwe ngezandla
- Iphothifoliyo noma isikhwama sebhayisikili
Izambatho Zengxoxo Zomphakathi Zomuntu
- Umbala oqinile, i-suit evamile
- Ihembe elimhlophe lemikhono
- Isibopho sokugcina
- Amasokisi omnyama, izicathulo zobuchwepheshe
- Ubucwebe obukhawulelwe kakhulu
- Ehle, ngekhanda lobuchwepheshe
- Iya kalula ngemuva kokulandela
- Izipikili ezihlelwe kahle
- Iphothifoliyo noma isikhwama sebhayisikili
Ezinye izindlela zokuqinisekisa ukuthi ugqoke kahle
Njengoba ubona, imihlahlandlela ingaba nzima nakakhulu kwabesifazane. Izambatho zokuxoxisana ezifanelekayo zamadoda zihamba ngokuqondile, futhi imigqa ehlukanisayo phakathi kwezambatho zebhizinisi ezingavamile nezokuhweba ibonakala ngokucacile.
Kanye nokukhetha ingubo yokuxoxisana nabo , abesifazane kufanele baphinde bahlele izinwele zabo bese bekhetha isikhwama esifanele sokuxoxa .
Abacwaningi banoma yiliphi ubulili okufanele bahlale kude nama jean ayikaze abe yinto enhle yokuxoxa. (Nazi ezinye izinto ongafanele uzigqoke ekuxoxweni komsebenzi , njenge-flip-flops kanye namashothikhathi.) Ngokuvamile, ngaphandle uma ufaka isicelo sesikhundla semfashini, ukunakwa izembatho zakho kungcono kugwenywe. Indwangu engcono kakhulu yokuxoxisana nayo ihlanzekile, ifanele kahle, ifanele isiko lenkampani, futhi ingayitholi ukunakwa. Ngemuva kokuxoxwa kwakho, ufuna abantu bakhulume ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho nemibono yakho - hhayi uboya bakho obuhle, izicathulo ezincane noma amabhulukwe aqinile kakhulu.
Ingubo yakho ayiyona ingxenye kuphela yokuziveza kwakho ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana.
Qinisekisa ukugqoka ama-deodorant, ukuxubha amazinyo akho, nokugeza izinwele zakho.
Letha imfucumfucu yokuphefumula uma ungeke ukwazi ukuxubha amazinyo ngaphambi kokuxoxisana (kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ungadli umoya wamaminithi noma ufune i-gum ngenkathi ingxoxo). Gcina izinto ezinomsoco - i-cologne, amakha, kanye ne-aftershave - okungenani.
Nazi amathiphu amaningi okuzokwenza kanjani umbono omuhle phakathi nengxoxo .
Usizo Lwezingxoxo Eziningi
I-Etiquette ye-Interview
Buyekeza lawa macebiso amathiphu we-interview interview ngaphambi, ngesikhathi, nangemva kokuxoxwa komsebenzi, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umyalezo wakho wokuxoxwa komsebenzi wukusheshisa futhi wenza impendulo engcono kumuntu obuza imibuzo.
Izimpendulo Eziningi Zokuxoxisana Ezivamile Zokugwema
Nanka abafuna umsebenzi ophuthumayo kakhulu abafuna umsebenzi futhi bazigweme kanjani.
Imibuzo Yokuxoxa Nezimpendulo
Isihluthulelo sokuxoxa ngokuphumelelayo ukubukeza le mibuzo ejwayelekile yokuxoxisana bese ulungisa izimpendulo zakho. Futhi ulungele imibuzo yombuzo-nangu uhlu.
Ukunqoba Amakhono Okuxoxa
Ngakho-ke, uke wafika ingxoxo ngomsebenzi omuhle kakhulu! Manje? Nakhu ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani le ngxoxo.