Ukudla kwasekuseni, isidlo sakusihlwa, neDinner Amathiphu okuxoxa
Ukuthatha isidlo sasekuseni, ukudla kwasemini, noma isidlo kusiza umuntu oxoxisana naye ithuba lokuhlola amakhono akho okukhulumisana namakhono akho , kanye nemikhuba yakho yetafula, endaweni engavamile kakhulu kunendawo yokubeka ihhovisi.
Imikhuba emihle izokunika inzuzo ngaphezu kwamanye abakhethiweyo, ngakho-ke nithathe isikhathi sokubhukuda emikhondweni yakho yetafula futhi uqaphele ukuziphatha okuhle kokudla okuxoxwa nabo.
Amathiphu Wokuxoxa Ngesikhathi Esidla
Yini okufanele ugqoke
Gqoka ngokucophelela ngenkulumo yakho yokudla kwasekuseni, njengoba nje ungathanda ukuxoxa naye ehhovisi . Le ndawo ishintshile, kodwa usacwaninga umsebenzi futhi kubalulekile ukwenza umbono omuhle. Nakhu okumele ugqoke ekuxoxweni komsebenzi esitolo sokudlela , ngezindinganiso zezingubo zokuxoxisana ezingcono kakhulu zento yonke kusukela ekomishini elingavamile yokukhofi ukuya ekudleni okuhle.
Khumbula ukuba yiPolite
"Ngiyacela" futhi "Ngiyabonga" hamba indlela ende ukuze wenze umqondo omuhle. Lokho kusho ukubonga umphathi noma umsizi womuntu ohlala naye, u-waitstaff, nomphathi wakho. Landela ingxoxo yakho ye-dinner ngombonga wokubonga kumuntu oxoxisana naye ophinde abuyele isithakazelo sakho emsebenzini.
Khumbula imikhuba yakho yeThebula
Khumbula ukuthi umama wakho akutshelani ngokungafuneki nokukhuluma ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukugcina izingxube zakho etafuleni, nokuhlezi ngqo?
Imikhuba yethebula ibalulekile uma udla nomuntu ozoba ngumqashi. Ungabi mkhuba kakhulu futhi ulalele imikhuba emihle yetafula - lokhu kuhlanganisa ukusebenzisa i-napkin bese ubamba imfoloko yakho ngendlela efanele.
Bamba Engxoxweni
Izingxoxo zokudlela azizona ezodwa. Ziyithuba lokuba oxoxisana nabo azokukwazi futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.
Kubalulekile ukuthi uhlanganyele engxoxweni nomuntu oxoxisana naye futhi ubani okunye okukhona.
Kanye nokuphendula imibuzo mayelana nawe, buza imibuzo bese uqhuba ingxoxo. Gcina ukuxhumana kwamehlo, futhi wenze okusemandleni akho ukudweba wonke umuntu etafuleni engxoxweni - musa nje ukugxila kulabo obona ukuthi ungumkhulumeli oholayo noma ilungu eliphezulu labaphathi. Wonke umuntu okhululekile futhi okhululekile kakhulu, ithuba elihle onalo lokuthuthela emjikelezweni olandelayo.
Ukuphuza noma ukungaphuzi
Kunezikole ezimbili zokucabangela uma kuziwa ekuphuzeni utshwala nokuxoxisana. Okokuqala ukuthi kubalulekile ukungaphuzi nokugcina ama-wits ngawe. Enye ukuthi kungase kube nzima uma oxoxisana naye eyala ibhodlela lewayini nayo yonke into etafuleni, ngaphandle kwakho, ineglasi. Yiqiniso, uma ungaphuzi utshwala akusikho isidingo sokuphuza nje ngoba umphathi uphuza; ungakwazi ukuyeka ngokukhululekile ngokulula "Cha, ngiyabonga." Uma ukhetha ukuphuza utshwala, ungabi ngaphezu kwengilazi yewayini noma kunjalo futhi uqaphele ukuhlala ugxile engxoxweni.
I-Interview Dining Etiquette
Uma ungakaze uthathe ingxoxo yokudlela ngaphambi, kuhlaziya ukubuyekezwa okuyisisekelo sokudla.
Njengoba ungathanda ukuxoxisana nehhovisi, udinga ukwazi indawo yokudlela ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi uvumele isikhathi esengeziwe sokuhamba ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ufika amaminithi ambalwa ekuqaleni - lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uzenzele ngaphambi kombuzo. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlangane nababukeli bakho, cisha ifoni yakho ngokuphelele bese uyibeka lapho ungeke uzame ukuyibuka khona.
Uma uyala, ungakhethi into ebiza kakhulu kwimenyu - lokhu kungase kuvele njengendlela yokuziphatha ephosa kakhulu. Futhi gwema ukudla okungcolile noma okunzima ukudla kahle - ufuna ababukeli bakho ukuba bagxile engxoxweni yakho, hhayi indlela odla ngayo noma umsizi we-spaghetti ophelela ebusweni bakho. Thatha ukukhala okuncane okukuvumela ukugwinya ngokushesha ukuze ungakhulumi nokudla emlonyeni wakho. Lapho usuqedile ukudla, faka izinto zakho "endaweni yesine" endaweni yakho; faka i-napkin yakho ehlanjwe ngakwesobunxele epuleti.
Ekupheleni kwesidlo, siyabonga abaxoxisana nabo ngesikhathi sabo. Akufanele unikeze ukukhokhisa ibhilikithi noma iphoyinti - kuyaqondakala ukuthi lezi zizobe zihlanganiswa ikomidi lokuxoxisana.
Ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi, sicela ubheke lezi zeluleko ezengeziwe mayelana ne-interview yokudlela etiquette.