Yenza usuku lube lukhulu kuwe, ingane yakho, nabasebenza nabo.
Uma ungumama omusha osebenzayo, yilokho okudingeka ukwazi ngakho ngalolu suku olukhethekile nokuthi ungahlanganyela kanjani emkhosini.
Okokuqala, Yazi Umlando Wakho
Eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-20 edlule, owokuqala "Woletha Indodakazi Yakho Kusebenza Usuku" wazalwa. Abantu esibonga ukubonga basebenza kuMs. Foundation for Women, inhlangano engenzi inzuzo. Abasunguli balolu suku babengumongameli uMarius C. Wilson, umsunguli uGloria Steinem, futhi ungumgcinimafa uDaren Ball. Babe nethemba lokuthi ngokuletha amadodakazi emsebenzini, bekuzokwakha ukuzethemba kwabo futhi kubasize bacabange umsebenzi wabo wesikhathi esizayo.
Ngo-2003, lo mbuthano wandiwe waba phakathi kwabafana futhi wabizwa kabusha ngokuthi "Thatha Amantombazane Nezingane Zakho Usuku Lokusebenza" ngoba ulwazi luzuzisa kuzo zonke izingane. Lolu suku akudingeki ukuba lube nje lwezingane zakho. Ungase ulethe izinduna zakho, umshana noma omakhelwane. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kungasiza kakhulu ikakhulukazi uma benesithakazelo emgqeni wakho womsebenzi!
Enye inhlangano engeyona inzuzo, Thatha Amantombazane Nathi Kumsebenzi OseSebenzi, yavela ngenxa yokuthandwa kosuku.
Inhloso yabo ukuhlinzeka isiqondiso nokusekela amabhizinisi nemindeni ukugcina lesi siko siya iminyaka eminingi.
Lokhu Izinzuzo Zomkhuba Wena, Ingane Yakho, Nezisebenzi Zakho ... Wonke umuntu!
Ingabe ukhuluma ngezingane zakho evame ukusebenza? Ngikhathaza izisebenzi zakho zizwa sengathi ziyazi kahle izingane zakho.
Ngokufanayo, uma uhlala ekhaya ukhuluma ngabasebenzi bakho kanye nomphathi kaningi? Ngeke yini kube kuhle uma wonke umuntu ehlangana?
Kulolu suku uzoba nethuba lokuhlanganisa amazwe akho amabili, impilo yakho yomsebenzi nokuphila komndeni wakho. Uzokwenza izethulo bese wenza ubungane obusha. Ngisho noma kukhona ezinye izimo eziphuthumayo, ngoba nezingane zihlale zikhona, kuyoba yinto ezuzisa.
Futhi, uma uzothola ithuba lokuzibopha nomntwana wakho ezingeni elisha. Kubasiza ukuba baqonde kangcono lokho okwenza usuku lonke ngenkathi besesikoleni. Bangase babuze imibuzo mayelana nokuphila komsebenzi wakho okungakaze kukhulunywe ngaphandle uma bekubona emsebenzini. Uma bebadala namhlanje bavula amehlo abo ezweni lonke elihlukile ngaphandle kwesikole, ezemidlalo kanye neminye imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole.
Esinye sezizathu zokuthi kungani ungumama osebenzayo kungenxa yokuthi ufuna ukwenza isibonelo esihle kubantwana bakho. Nasi ithuba lakho lokukhanya ngempela! Uzobakhombisa ukuthi yini engumama osebenzayo ngoba bayobona usuku lwakho kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni. Khona-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungajabulela ukubuka izingane zakho zizenza sengathi zifana nawe.
Indlela Ongayibamba Ngayo Futhi Uhlele Ngalo Lusuku Olukhulu
Ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu, hlela umthwalo wakho womsebenzi usuku.
Hlela ukuphazanyiswa njalo futhi uzame ukugwema ukuthatha imisebenzi enzima. Uma kufanele, bona ukuthi omunye umzali osebenzayo angakusiza yini ihora.
Bese uhlela umthwalo womsebenzi wengane yakho. Buza ingane yakho ukuthi kukhona yini abangathanda ukuyenza endaweni yethu yokusebenzela ukuze bahlanganyele. Ungamangaza izingane zakho ngokulungiselela izinhlelo kanye nemisebenzi ukuze ugcwalise "usuku lomsebenzi" wabo.
Ingabe inkampani yakho inikeza ukusekela noma uhlelo olulandelayo lokuthatha iNdodana Yakho Nendodana Kusebenza Usuku? Uma kungenjalo, nansi ithuba lakho lokuthatha isinyathelo! Yabelana ngezinhlelo zakho nomnyango wakho we-HR. Bese ubazise mayelana ne-Take Our Daughters and Son to Work Foundation kanye nemihlahlandlela yenkampani neziphakamiso zabo.
Ngomsebenzi osesandleni, umqashi wakho angakhuthazwa ukuba athathe abanye abazali ukuba bahlanganyele kulolu suku. Ungabelana ngalokho okwenzile nezingane zakho nokuthi abanye bangaphatha kanjani umsebenzi wabo.
Futhi, ungakwazi ukusizana lapho umsebenzi uqhutshwa futhi udinga ukugxila. Ngoba njengabantwana abasebenzayo bangakwazi ukubikezela, futhi.
Amanye Amathiphu Ezikhathi Zokuqala
Uma lokhu yisikhathi sokuqala ukuletha izingane zakho emsebenzini ukuthi zicele abanye abazali abasebenza ukuze uthole iseluleko. Ingabe kwakukhona ikamelo elihle izingane ezikujabulela ukuzibona? Umzali osebenzayo wagcina kanjani izingane zabo zithulile futhi zijabulile usuku? Mhlawumbe abanye abasebenzi banezithoyizi eziye zahlaselwa ngezikhathi ezikhethekile ezinjengalezi.
Buza abanye abazali abasebenza uma bengathanda ukujoyina wena nomntanakho wesimini. Lena yindlela enhle yokuhlola nabanye abazali ukubona ukuthi usuku lwabo olukhethekile luhamba kanjani. Ngabe kukhona odinga usizo ngale ntambama? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi zonke izingane zisebenze iphrojekthi ngale ntambama? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuletha zonke izingane ndawonye kuzokusiza ukuba bathole ama-wiggles. Wonke umuntu udinga isikhashana sokuphumula, kwesokudla?
Okubaluleke kakhulu, qiniseka ukuthi ubeka imithetho ethile ngaphambi kokunyathela ehhovisi. Batshele ukuthi ulindele ukuthi baziphathe kanjani. Zilungiselele ngokwabelana ngecebo lakho ngosuku nokuthi bazoba nokuhamba okuhambayo ehhovisi. Futhi, ngeke kube buhlungu ukunikeza umvuzo wokuziphatha okuhle!
Ihlelwe ngu-Elizabeth McGrory.