Ukukwabelana okuningi noma okuncane kakhulu ulwazi akuyona umqondo omuhle. Umbukeli akafuni ukwazi konke ngawe, kodwa ukudalula okuncane kakhulu kungenza umangaze ukuthi kungani ungavulwa kakhulu. Funda ukuze uthole iseluleko sendlela ongayiphendula ngayo lo mbuzo - futhi, mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi yini ongayisho empilweni yakho.
Indlela Yokuphendula "Ngitshele Ngakho" Umbuzo Wokuxoxa
Yize kungase kube nzima ukuhlanganyela uhlu lweziqu zakho eziphoqelela kakhulu emsebenzini owenziwayo, indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza cishe iyokusiza ukuba uhlakulele ubuhlobo bakho nomuntu obuza imibuzo.
Enye indlela yokwenza impendulo yakho ukukwabelana ngezinye izithakazelo zakho ezingabonakali ngokuqondile emsebenzini wakho. Izibonelo zingase zifake ukuzilibazisa okufisa ukuthanda ukuzenza njenge-quilting, i-astronomy, i-chess, ukucula kwe-choral, igalofu, ukushushuluza, i-tennis, noma i-antiquing.
Izintshisekelo ezinjengezinkathi ezide zokugijima noma i-yoga ezisiza ukumela ohlangothini lwakho olunempilo, olunamandla olufanele ukubaluleka.
Ukuphishekela njengokuthanda ukufunda noma ukuxazulula amaphuzu e-crossword noma abaculi bezobuchopho kuzosiza ekuboniseni ukugxila kwengqondo yakho. Izintshisekelo ezifana negalofu, i-tennis, kanye nokudla okunomdlavuza kungase kube nenani elithile uma ungabajabulisa amakhasimende emsebenzini wakho omusha.
Umsebenzi wokuzithandela uzobonisa ubukhulu bokuziphatha kwakho nokuzinikela enhlalakahle yomphakathi wakho.
Izindima zokusebenzisana njengezivolontiya ze-PTA, umqondisi wezokuvakasha we-museum, i-fundraiser, noma usihlalo weqembu lomphakathi kuzosiza ukukhombisa induduzo yakho nabanye abathintekayo.
Khumbula, njengokuthi " ngitshele okuthile okungekho ekubuyiseleni kwakho ," omunye wemigomo yalo mbuzo ukukukwazi kancane kancane emisebenzini yakho kanye nangomsebenzi nomsebenzi.
Enye inothi yokuqapha, noma kunjalo-kuyilapho kufanele uthathe lo mbuzo njengethuba lokwakha ubuhlobo nombuzo wakho futhi ubonise ukuthi uhlelekile kahle, qaphela ukuthi ungabi nesifiso esikhulu ngokuzilibazisa ukuthi liphakamisa ifulege elibomvu okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe kunomsebenzi wakho. Akekho umqashi ofuna ukuthatha ithuba lokuqasha umuntu ozolahlekelwa umsebenzi omningi noma acele isikhathi esikhulu sokuphumula ukuze aqhubekele ukuzilibazisa okuthandayo.
Ukuguqulwa kuya kobuchwepheshe kusuka ku-Personal
Emva kokuxoxa ngezici ezimbalwa ezithakazelisayo zomlando wakho, ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngamakhono amakhono asemqoka angakusiza ukuba ungeze inani uma uqashwe umsebenzi wakho wokuqondisa.
Cabanga ukusebenzisa imishwana efana nokuthi "Ngaphandle kwalokho okuthandayo nokufisa, impilo yami yobuchwepheshe yingxenye enkulu yokuthi ngingubani, ngakho-ke ngingathanda ukukhuluma kancane ngamanye amandla engiwaletha kulo msebenzi."
Yabelana ngobuchwepheshe bakho
Yilungele ukwabelana ngamakhono amathathu, amakhono, kanye / noma izindawo zobuchwepheshe ezingakusiza ukuba uphumelele emsebenzini oxoxa ngawo. Ekugcineni, uzofuna ukukhuluma ngamandla amaningana ngaphambi kokuba ingxoxo iphelile.
Yenza uhlu lwamandla akho ngaphambi kokuba ungene ku-interview, ngakho-ke wazi ukuthi uzokwabelana ngani. Bheka incazelo yomsebenzi futhi uyifane namakhono akho . Bese uqinisekisa ukuthi ukhuluma ngamakhono ambalwa aphezulu okukwenza ube ngumuntu ozofanelekela umsebenzi.
Kodwa-ke, qaphela ukuthi ungamcindezeli oxoxisana naye ngolwazi oluthe xaxa. Ngemva kokukhuluma ngamandla amathathu noma amane, ungase ukhulume ukuthi unezinye izimpahla ongathanda ukuxoxa ngazo njengoba kuxoxwa.
Okokuqala, kufanele ukhulume kuphela ngefa bese ukhuluma ngokufushane nje ukuthi ubuye wathinta kanjani.
Isibonelo, ungase uthi uthande ukunikeza izethulo futhi lokhu kukusize ukuba udale eziningi zokuhola ekuthengiseni ukudla kwalabo abathengi.
Kamuva kuxoxwa, uzofuna ukucacisa ngokucacile futhi ucacise ngokuxoxa ngezimo, ukungenelela, noma imiphumela egeleza ngamandla akho.
Gwema Ezombusazwe Nokuphikisana
Ngokuvamile, uzobe usula izihloko eziphikisanayo nezombusazwe noma inkolo. Kubalulekile ukugwema noma yikuphi ukubhekisela kwezihloko ezingabangela ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuziphatha kwakho, umlingiswa, umkhiqizo, noma ukuziphatha komsebenzi. Awudingi ukwabelana ngolwazi lomuntu siqu mayelana nomndeni wakho.
Asikho isidingo sokuxoxisana nabantu abashadile, abalingani, izingane, noma olunye ulwazi oluyimfihlo. Nazi ezinye zezinto ongazothi uthathe ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa komsebenzi