Funda ukuthi Ungayithola kanjani Inkhulumiswano Yakho Yobudlelwane Ehlobo
Ukwenza Ingxoxo Ehlanganisiwe Yohlobo Oluhlobo
Njengoba sixoxile ekuqaleni, ukugcina zonke izinkampani nezindawo eziqondile kungenye yezingxenye ezinzima kunazo zonke ze-OCI kubafundi ezikoleni ezihloniphekile. (Ukuphila okulukhuni, kwesokudla?) Ngaphandle kwezingqalasizinda, yiziphi izinkampani ezifuna ukuxoxa phakathi kwamahlobo ehlobo?
Funda ukuze uthole.
- Ingabe ungumuntu? Cabanga ngomcwaningi omthetho we-OCI ompofu osemthethweni, okufanele axoxe nabafundi bomthetho abangahleliwe usuku lonke . Abafundi bomthetho bahle kakhulu ezintweni eziningi, kodwa, ngeshwa, ukuxhumana komphakathi akukona phezulu kulolu hlu. Ukumangalisa oxoxisana naye, akudingeki ube nguConan O'Brien. Udinga nje ukumboza izinto eziyisisekelo: izingubo ezinhle, izinwele ezifanelekile kanye ne-makeup (uma kudingekile), ukuxhaphaza ngokuqinile, ukuphefumula okunamandla, nesimo esivamile esimnandi. Yenza ubuso, uxhumane, uphendule imibuzo ngokuqondile, njalonjalo. Hamba lezi zincane, futhi uzoba inkanyezi! Futhi uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi yini ongayigqoka (noma ukuthi uzoletha nani) ekuxoxweni kwakho, nanka amanye amathiphu .
- Ingabe unamandla ngokuyisisekelo? Abameli bayakhokhwa ukuze babe namandla futhi bazi izinto. Esimweni se-OCI, lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga ukwazi ukuthi kungani unesithakazelo ekusebenzeni kulokhu okuqinile, uhlobo luni lomsebenzi ocabanga ukuthi uzogcina ekugcineni, futhi ube nokuqonda okungokoqobo kokuphila kwe-BigLaw. (Ukutshela lowo obuza imibuzo ukuthi ujabule kangakanani ukushiya ihhovisi ngo-5: 00 ukuqeqesha i-triathlon yakho ezayo ngokuvamile ayiluleki.) Uma kubonakala kumuntu obuza imibuzo ukuthi awubheke i-website yabo ngemininingwane ethile, ukhona ungatholi ukubuyela emuva. Ngokufanayo, uma ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngokuvumelana nayo yonke into ephaketheni lakho lesicelo (kufaka phakathi isampula yakho yokubhala, uma uhambisa eyodwa), awutholi ukubuyela emuva. Akudingeki ukuba uphuthuke lapha, kodwa kuyobe kukuthi ucabange ngemibandela ozobuzwa bese ulungisa izimpendulo ezithile. Futhi-ke, ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi unemibuzo emihle kubo ngoba lokho kuyingxenye yokuba ngumbuzo osebenza kahle.
- Ingabe ulungile? Kwezinga elithile, akuningi ongakwenza mayelana "nokufanele" kwakho namafemu athile. Amanye amafemu ayengama-preppy, amanye angama-fratty, amanye angama-cerebral noma ama-entrepreneurial, njalonjalo. Uma i-firm ifuna nje ukuqasha umuntu obukeka njengabalingani abakhona, kahle, usuke unenhlanhla uma ungewona umdala omhlophe. Lokhu kuthiwa, ngethemba ukuthi uxoxisana namafemu okungaba yinto enhle yamasiko kuwe. Uma ucabanga ukuthi yilokho okwenzayo, bheka izindawo ezivamile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi u-interviewer waya esikoleni esisodwa somthetho okhona (ukubuza ukuthi izinto zishintshile kanjani endaweni yakhona kuyindlela enkulu yokuphenya nabalingani abadala) noma iqiniso lokuthi unesithakazelo endaweni yabo yokusebenza. Futhi, ngaphandle kokuhamba ngokweqile, zama ukwehlisa lezi zingxube zokuxhumanisa engxoxweni - ukuze ube "oyedwa weqembu lezigelekeqe." Uma ungazizwa ukhululekile ukusebenza lezi zindwangu engxoxweni, qiniseka ukuthi uzenzele ingxoxo yakho ngaphambi kwesikhathi .
- Ingabe uzoba namahloni? Kulungile, ngakho-ke usuqedile ukugcinwa kokugcinwa kokugcina - yini engase ikugcine ekuphenduleni? Noma yikuphi ukusikisela okungenzeka ukuthi awuphephile ukuhamba neklayenti! Amafemu omthetho ashintshiwe ngabahlobo abanele behlobo ukuthi ngeke bavame ukuthatha ithuba kumuntu othumela "Ungakwazi ukungithembela" vibe. Ngakho, ngokuyinhloko, luma ulimi lwakho. Awekho amazwana ombala ongacacile kunoma yiluphi uhlobo (ubulili, ubuhlanga, ubudala, uthathe ukhetho lwakho) kufanelekile, noma nini. Futhi yibani kakhulu, qaphelani kakhulu ngamahlaya! Kukhona ithuba elihle ukuthi awunjengobuhle njengoba ucabanga, futhi awufuni ukukhunjulwa njengendoda eyatshela ihlaya eliyiziphukuphuku kangangokuthi akekho owayengacabangi. Abantu bazokhumbula, hhayi ngendlela enhle.
- Ingabe amamaki akho aphakeme ngokwanele? Ah, yebo, walondoloze okungcono kakhulu kokugcina! Ekugcineni, akunandaba ukuthi uhle kangakanani ekuxoxweni ... uma amamaki akho engekho okwanele, cishe awutholi ukubuyela emuva. Amafemu amaningi alondoloza amamatiri angaphakathi angamabanga "amukelekile" ezikoleni ezahlukene. Nakuba ukungaziphambuki kungavunyelwa, lezi zivame ukuqina kahle. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokukhetha amafemu ofuna ukuxoxa nawo, udinga umqondo omuhle wokuthi ubani ofuna ukuqasha. (Ngokuvamile lesi sikole sizokhipha lolu lwazi ngoba kuyisikhathi sonke isikhathi sokuba nabafundi baxoxisane namafemu angasoze abaqasha.) Kuhle ukuba namafemu ambalwa "afinyelela" ohlwini lwakho kodwa uqinisekise ukuthi usemukelekile ibanga labaningi babo noma udlala ngomlilo.
Ngalesi simo engqondweni, zama nje ukuphumuza, wazi ukuthi ulungele kahle, futhi ungene lapho futhi u-ace ukuthi uxoxe nomhlobo wehlobo!
Okulandelayo, kwenzekani ekubuyiseleni emuva , futhi ungakwandisa kanjani amathuba okunikezwa?
Kubuyekezwe ngu-Alison Monahan