UJoe Girard, umthengisi omkhulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni ngokusho kweGuinness Book of World Records, ubonisa ukuthi uphumelele umkhuba wakhe wokuthumela amakhadi ngesandla ngesandla ngasinye kumakhasimende akhe.
U-Girard wathumela amakhadi angaphezu kuka-16 000 ngenyanga, futhi ngenxa yalokho, waba ngumthengisi wezimoto ophezulu emhlabeni iminyaka engu-12 ulandelana. Kodwa akudingeki ukuthi uthumele izinkulungwane zamakhadi njalo ngenyanga ukuze uzuze umphumela omuhle.
Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuthumela i-imeyili noma incwadi yefomu kuzofeza into efanayo. Iqiniso lokuthi bambalwa abantu abakhathazeka ukuthumela izincwadi kanye namakhadi ngesandla abhalwe ngesandla kuzokwenza kube ngokwakho kakhulu kunamandla. Abantu babheka izincwadi ezibhalwe ngesandla kodwa bavame ukuphonsa izinhlamvu zefomu ngqo eqenjini lokubuyisela kabusha. Izincwadi ezinjalo akudingeki ukuba zide, noma kunjalo. Amakhadi aqoshiwe abhalwe ngesandla kaGirard athi nje, "Ngiyakuthanda." Kwakuyiqiniso ukuthi wayekhathazeka ukuthumela lawo makhadi njalo ngenyanga ayehlaba umxhwele amakhasimende akhe, hhayi umlayezo onobuhle noma obunzima .
Inothi lokubonga yindlela enamandla kakhulu yokufinyelela kumuntu. Awubonisi nje ukwazisa kwakho ngalokho abakwenzile, kodwa futhi ubonisa ukuthi uzimisele ukuthatha isikhathi sokubhala umyalezo ngokwakho futhi uyithumele.
Ukuze uthole izinzuzo ezinkulu ngempela, ezifana nesingeniso esiholele ngokuqondile ekudayiseni okukhulu, kufaka phakathi isipho esincane kungase kube kufanele - kodwa akuyona imfuneko.
Yini Okumele Yifake Ekubongeni Kwakho Qaphela?
Amanothi akho kufanele afake ukukhulunywa ngalokho umuntu okwenzele khona futhi kufanele agcizelele imiphumela emihle yezenzo zakhe.
Uma uhlangana nomuntu kumcimbi noma i-aphoyintimenti, zizwe ukhululekile ukukhuluma ukuthi kwakumnandi ukuhlangana naye. Ungaphinda ukhombise ukuthi uyayithanda kangakanani imizamo lo muntu eya kuyo ekusizeni. Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungaqala kanjani, zama ukuvula inothi lakho ngento ethi, "Kwadingeka ngithathe isikhashana ngikubonge ngokumangalisa [ukudluliselwa, isingeniso, njll]."
Kungumqondo omuhle ukuvala ngokukhuluma ngokuthi ubheke phambili kanjani emihlanganweni yesikhathi esizayo noma izingxoxo nomzuzi wakho. Inothi noma incwadi enhle kakhulu ingavalwa "Izifiso ezinhle," "Ngiyabonga kakhulu," noma "Izigungu," kuye ngokuthi uzi kahle kanjani umuntu obhalayo. Uma uveza inothi elilula noma ugcwalisa ekhadini, akudingeki usebenzise indlela enjalo ehlelekile.
Uma Umuntu Ethi Ukuthumela Isipho
Uma omunye ekuthumelela isipho - isibonelo, phakathi namaholide - kufanele uphendule ngokubhala inothi lokubonga. Kungumqondo omuhle wokugcina uhlu lwabantu abanikeze ngakho ukuze ukwazi ukuphindaphinda ngonyaka ozayo. Lezi zinothi zokubonga kufanele zikhulume ngesipho esithile ositholile, ujabule ukuthi unayo, futhi ukuthi uhlela kanjani ukuyisebenzisa. Isibonelo, uma iklayenti ikuthumelele ikhadi lesipho lesitolo sokudlela, ungase ubhekisele ukuthi uthanda kangakanani ukudla kuleso simo nokuthi uhlose ukuthatha kanjani umyeni wakho khona ebusuku ubusuku nabantwana.
Esinye isikhathi esihle sokubonga amanothi ngumkhosi wamakhasimende. Uma unomthengi oye wathenga kusuka kuwe unyaka ogcwele (noma iminyaka eminingi), qiniseka ukuthi uthumele inothi ukubonga ngokuthi ungumthengi onjalo othembekile . Amakhasimende anjalo kufanele akhuthazwe ukuba ahlale ethembekile, futhi ngokuqinisekile bayakwazisa iqiniso lokuthi uqaphele ukuthi bekude kangakanani nawe.