Ungakwazi ukuphola kusuka ekuqedeni futhi uphumelele emsebenzini
Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthatha izinyathelo zakho ezilandelayo ngokusekelwe emcabangweni onengqondo, hhayi imizwelo. Ukuze uqale endleleni yokuvuselela umsebenzi, gwema ukwenza la ma-amaphutha angu-5 ngemuva kokuqedwa.
Ukuhlukumeza umqashi owakushiya
Usebenze kanzima enkampanini yakho endala, ngokuvamile uhlabela umndeni nesikhathi somuntu siqu.
Ukulahlwa kungase kubonakale sengathi ukuphika noma ukwenqaba yonke leyo mzamo oqotho.
Ungavumeli imizwa yakho ebuhlungu ikukhubekise ekukhulumeni kabi ngomqashi wakho. Khumbula ukuthi wonke umuntu okhulumayo naye ungathintana naye oxhumana naye. Awazi ukuthi yimaphi amathuba okuba umakhelwane wakho noma umhlobo wakho we- carpool angakuvulela -futhi ngeke uthole ukuthi ngabe bacabanga ukuthi ungumuntu ongenalutho noma isisebenzi esikhathazekile.
Zama ukuhlala uhlonipha lapho ebuzwa mayelana nokuqedwa kanye nomqashi wakho odlule, noma nje uhlale uthule. Khumbula ukuthi umama uthe uma ungenakusho into enhle ungasho lutho.
Ukufihla Ukulahlekelwa Emndenini
Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi wakho kungadabukisa. Kwabaningi bethu, ubunikazi bethu baboshelwe emsebenzini wethu. Singase singazi ukuthi siyazi ukuthi singobani ngaphandle kwesikhundla sethu.
Njengoba kunzima ukukhuluma ngokushiyeka, kufanele wenze kanjalo nomngane wakho womshado nomndeni osondelene naye. Ungazami ukufihla. Uzodinga uthando nokusekelwa kwabo ukukubuyisela ezinyaweni zakho.
Ungazizwa ugijimela ukuchazela lesi simo izingane zakho, noma kunjalo. Kulungile ukuthatha isikhathi sokuba imizwa ibe yincani eluhlaza. Ungase ufune ukuthola ukuhamba kwakho okulandelayo kuqala, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuyeka umsebenzi noma ukufuna isikhundla esisha. Lokho cishe umbuzo wokuqala izingane ezizozibuza.
Ukungena Ekucwaningweni KaJobe
Uma ukholelwa noma cha, abanye abantu bahamba ngqo kusuka esitatimendeni sokuqeda ikhompyutha yabo ukuze bathumele kabusha noma babuyekeze iphrofayela yabo ye-LinkedIn.
Esikhundleni sokuthi ufinyelele ekusetshenzisweni komsebenzi uphinde ucabangisise indlela yakho yokusebenza. Sebenzisa isikhathi esithile sokuthula ukuze ubhale konke okufezile futhi ugcizelele lokho okushiwo kakhulu kuwe. Yimiphi imisebenzi oyithokozile? Yimaphi amaphrojekthi aphefumulelwe futhi akhuthaza wena?
Ungathola ukuthi uzojabula ngokwengeziwe indima noma umsebenzi ohlukile. Ngokuqinisekile uzothola impumelelo yokukhonkolo ukuze ufake i-resume yakho kanye nezinhlamvu zokumboza.
Uma usucabangile ngokusebenzisa izinyathelo zakho nezinjongo ezilandelayo, uzobe uhlose kakhulu futhi usebenza kahle-ekuxhumaniseni kwakho.
Ukuhlala kwi-Negative
Njengoba nje ungafanisi umqashi wakho, ungakhulumi kabi ngawe! Ngaphandle kokucabanga, abesifazane abaningi abasebenzayo banciphise umnikelo wabo noma amathemba abo, ikakhulukazi ezingxoxweni zenhlalo.
Abantu obaziyo ngeke bajabule ukuzwa mayelana nokulahla, ngoba kubakhumbuza nabo, basengozini. Banike ithuba lokukusiza ngokukhuluma ngezinyathelo ezinhle zokuzikhandla ozifunayo.
Uma usemdlalweni webhola lebhola lomntwana futhi omunye umzali ebuza ukuthi wenzani, qiniseka ukuthi unomsebenzi wokuvuselela isimo mayelana nokuqedwa kwakho kanye nezinyathelo ezilandelayo ofuna ukuthatha. Ngokwesibonelo
- Ngenxa yokuhlanganiswa kwamuva nje, umqashi wami wasusa izikhundla eziningana, ezihlanganisa nemayini. Ngithathe ithuba lokuthutha umsebenzi kusuka ekukhangiseni ukuya ekuxhumaniseni amasu. Ngingumphathi wezokukhangisa kanye nokuxhumana oneminyaka engaphezulu kwengu-10 yokusebenza esebenza ezinkampanini ezizimele nezinhlangano ezingenzi inzuzo.
- Ukuhlelwa kabusha kwamuva kwenkampani ye-ABC kwaholela ekucutsheni kwamathuba angu-120, kuhlanganise nemayini. Ngingumphathi wezinsiza zomuntu oneminyaka eyi-15 yokuhlangenwe nakho esebenzisana eduze nobuholi bezinkampani nokusebenzisa izinhlelo ezintsha. Umgomo wami ukuthola indawo lapho ngingakwazi ukuqhubeka ngikhonza njengesisusa sabantu abasebenza ngokuhlelekile nabanenzuzo.
- Ngenxa yezomnotho ohlukumezayo, inkampani ye-XYZ ivumela abasebenzi abangu-12, kuhlanganise nami. Ngamanje ngihlola amathuba angasebenzisa ubuchwepheshe bami kanye nesizinda sami sokukhiqiza, futhi irekhodi lami eliphumelelayo lokukhulisa ukuthengisa.
Ukuba Isolated nobe Web-Bound
Uthole le sayithi. Uyazi ukuthi kukhona ulwazi oluningi olubanzi kwi-inthanethi. Ngokuqinisekile, ungasebenzisa amahora angu-24 ngosuku uthumele ukuqhubeka kwakho ku-intanethi.
Kodwa ukuhlala ngemuva kwekhompiyutha nokushayela kuzokuthatha nje manje.
Ukuze uthole umsebenzi omusha, kufanele uhlangane nabantu ngabanye bese uphuma ekhaya lakho. Iningi lezikhundla ezivulekile azikaze zithunyelwe esidlangalaleni.
Uma ukhuluma nabaphathi abangu-25, cishe uzothola ukunikezwa komsebenzi. Lezi zingxoxo akudingeki ukuba zibe izingxoxo zomsebenzi. Uma ubeka uphenyo lwama-inthanethi ngezinhlangano ozibongayo, ngesikhathi esizayo isikhundla sitholakalayo umphathi wokuqasha uzocabangela ngawe.
Udinga ukusekelwa kanye nempendulo emihle evela ekubeni nekhofi noma kwasemini nabalingani bokuqala abajwayele umsebenzi wakho omuhle kakhulu. Beka umgomo, njengokungathi ube nezincingo ezimbili zokuxhumana ngosuku kanye nemihlangano emibili noma emithathu ngaphakathi komuntu ngesonto. Uma ukhuluma nabantu osebenze nabo esikhathini esidlule, bazofunda ukuthi yini oyenzile maduzane nokuthi ufuna ukuya kuphi.
Manje hamba! Khetha ifoni noma uthumele i-imeyili. Finyelela kubantu abazokuholela ekusebenzeni kwakho okulandelayo, okungcono.
Ihlelwe ngu-Elizabeth McGrory