Ukwenza Izinto Ezithemba Zizizwe Zithokozile
Ukukhetha amagama akho ngokuhlakanipha kuyisici esibalulekile sokwenza amathemba akho azizwe ekhululekile nawe.
Lokhu kusho ukugwema ukuthengisa noma imboni yezimpahla ngaphandle kokuthi ithemba lakho selusebenzise lelo gama noma libonise ukuthi likhetha izinga lobuchwepheshe kakhulu.
Uma usuphelile esimweni lapho kufanele usebenzise khona igama elibhekiswe embonini - isibonelo, i-prospect ikubuza umbuzo mayelana nokuthi umkhiqizo wenza kanjani umsebenzi othile - thatha isikhathi sokuchaza ukuthi yiliphi i-technical term elisho noma okungenani uyisebenzise ngendlela eyenza incazelo iveze.
Uma usebenzisa ibinzana lakho ithemba lakho aliqondi, uzowenza kube lula. Akekho othanda ukusho ukuthi "Lisho ukuthini lelo gama?" Kumuntu ocabanga ukuthi wenza ibhizinisi naye. Futhi uma ithemba lakho lingasho lutho, khona-ke ngeke bazizwe bengakhululekile futhi ngeke baqonde ukuthi uthini - iresiphi yenhlekelele.
Isimo esibucayi nakakhulu senzeke uma usebenzisa igama lobuchwepheshe ukuthi awunalo olwaziyo 100%.
Uma usebenzisa kabi igama lomboni futhi ithemba lakho liqaphela lelo qiniso, uzozwakala njenge-idiot. Ukuthembela kwethemba kuwe futhi izinga lakho lobuchwepheshe lizophuma ngaphandle kwefasitela. Lapho ungabaza, gxila emibhalweni encane yezobuchwepheshe ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi akuzwakala njengoprofethi.
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Uma uhlela isethulo sakho sokuthengisa esivamile, gcina ulimi ezingeni oqiniseke ukuthi kuzokwenza ukhululeke amathuba akho.
Uma kucaca ngesikhathi sesethulo sokuthi ithemba lakho liyikhono elingcono, ungakwazi njalo ukuphakamisa izinga lobuchwepheshe le-pitch yakho ... kodwa sebenzisa kuphela amagama owazi kahle.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma kungenzeka ukuthi lowo ozosebenzisa igama lobuchwepheshe noma ibinzana futhi awukwazi ukuthi lisho ukuthini, ungase uzizwe uhlazekile ngokuvuma ukungazi kwakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukukhuluma noma ukuthula ngeke kuxhomeke esimweni.
Uma unomuzwa wokuthi usuvele uthuthukile kahle, ujabule futhi ucele. Ungenza ukuthi ithemba lakho lizwe kangcono ngawe ngoba uzokujabulela ukuthola ithuba lokukufundisa okuthile (futhi ngaleyo ndlela uzizwe uhlakaniphile).
Uma unenkathi enzima ukudala uxhumano nethemba, ungase ube ngcono ekungasho lutho. Kodwa uma kunjalo, bhala igama noma ibinzana phansi bese uyibheka kamuva noma ubuze osebenza naye ukuthi kusho ukuthini. Khona-ke uzokwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho ugijimela khona ithemba lobuchwepheshe.
Gwema Amazwi Aphakamisa Imizwa Enganaki
Ngaphandle kwe-jargon, kunamagama ambalwa kungcono ukugwema kwisethulo sokuthengisa . Njengomthetho, hlala kude namazwi nemishwana engabangela imizwa emibi esibhekeni lakho.
Isibonelo, ukusebenzisa igama elithi "inkontileka" kungenza ukuthi ithemba lakho lizwe livinjelwe noma lidilize izithombe zokugxila enkampanini yakho, ngakho-ke ungaqeqesha ukuthi uthi "isivumelwano" esikhundleni salokho, esinomphakathi ohle kakhulu.
Yiqiniso, ngezinye izikhathi isimo sizodinga ukuthi uthi "inkontileka." Uma kunjalo, qhubeka ukhulume. Uzokwenza kube lula ukuthi ungajabuleli ulimi lwakho nxazonke ukugwema inkulumo engenakulimaza.