Thatha Isikhathi Njengomama Wasekhaya
Uma uqala ukuba nengane, uzama ngokuzenzakalelayo ukuba naye 24/7. Ngemva kwesikhashana, izindonga zivale, futhi ungase uqale ukuvuza umoya ongenazinyane.
Siyanqikaza ukuyivuma kunoma ubani, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi sidinga ukuhamba okuncane okuvela ezinganeni zethu.
Thatha ukuhamba. Funda incwadi. Hamba ngokushayela.
Khumbula imisebenzi yokuphumula owawujabulela ngaphambi kokuba nezingane? Buyekeza futhi. Ngeke ube nesikhathi sokubopha i-sweater ngesikhathi sokuhlala okulodwa kodwa ukufaneleka kokuthula komzuzu ngamunye kuzokuvuselela.
Zibophezele ukuthatha amakhefu avamile kude nezingane zakho. Kulula ukuhlukumeza ukubaluleka kwe "mina isikhathi," kodwa kuyadingeka ukuba uhlale ungabhekene nokushisa komama.
Yenza Isikhathi Somngane Wakho
Ingxenye yokucabanga kwengqondo enempilo njengomama-ekhaya ifika ngesikhathi sokubelana ngekhwalithi nomlingani wakho . Kubaluleke kakhulu isikhathi sakho ndawonye ukuba ube ngaphezu kokungena ekamelweni elilodwa omunye wakho ebuka ikhompyutheni kanti enye ehamba ngeziteshi ze-TV.
Ubusuku obusuku obugcwele buhle, kodwa akusiyo njalo ukusebenza. Zama ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye ekhaya nsuku zonke ukuxhumana okuhlangana ubuso nobuso.
Hlela imisebenzi nomyeni wakho okuwukuphela kwakho. Dlala amakhadi. Khuluma ngosuku lwakho. Beka iphazili ndawonye. Akudingeki ukuba ususwe esiqhingini esingasondelene ukuze uzuze isikhathi esisodwa nomlingani wakho.
Ngisho noma izingane zizungezile, ziba izikhathi ndawonye ndawonye phambi kwazo.
A kiss. I-hug. Izingane zakho zingase zenze sengathi zishaywa indiva, kodwa ukhuthaza imibono yazo yalokho okwenza umshado omuhle ngesikhathi esifanayo uqinisa ubuhlobo bakho nomngane wakho womshado.
Khuluma ku-Grown-Ups
Ingxoxo yakho nabanye abantu abadala inqunywa kakhulu uma uhlala ekhaya nezingane zonke usuku. Ngisho noma uphuma endaweni yokudlala, izihloko ezingxoxisana nomngane wakho omama ziqala kusukela ekunceliseni ukunyakaza.
Hlangana nabanye abantu abadala ebusuku. Yiba nesibindi sokuphumula ngeviki ngezintombi zakho noma uphonsa ubusuku bamantombazane ebandleni.
Bona ukuthi ungashiya izingxoxo mayelana nezingane zakho ekhaya. Lokhu kuyinselele enkulu uma uphumile nabangani abangabazali. Beka imithetho embalwa kusengaphambili, ngakho awuchitheli isikhathi sakho sonke somdala ukuxoxa ngamakhadi wombiko futhi uzama ukukhulumisana ngezindaba ezimbi kakhulu.
Cabanga ngezingxoxo zakho nabantu abadala njengengxenye yakho yokudlala yengqondo yakho. Kunzima ukugcina amakhono akho omphakathi ebukhali uma ukhuluma nezingane zakho usuku lonke. Njengoba sithanda izingane zethu, kusabalulekile ukukhuluma nabantu abadala.
Ziqhayise Ngomsebenzi Wakho Njengomama Wasekhaya
Kufanele ube novilapha kakhulu ukusebenza. Ugqoka ama-pajamas akho usuku lonke ngenkathi ubheka ama-soap opas.
Cishe awuqedi ngisho nezinwele zakho.
Ema-moms ekhaya ngokuqinisekile bayazi ukuthi lokhu akukona iqiniso. Ngeshwa, kusekhona inhlamba ethile ehlanganiswe nesihloko somsebenzi wokuhlala ekhaya.
Uzogijima kubantu abenza ngokungafani nakakhulu ngokuzimisela kwakho ukuhlala ekhaya nokukhulisa izingane zakho. Uzosabela kanjani uma ubuzwa, "Wenzani ukuze uphile?"
Ungathatha leso sikhathi eside, esingenakwenzeka ngaphambi kokuthi uphendule. Ungavumeli ukubukwa komunye umuntu okuthintekile kuthinte ukuzethemba kwakho. Ziqhenye ngomsebenzi wakho womama wokuhlala ekhaya.
Uma ukhathazekile uma othile ebuza ukuthi wenzani, vula lezo zakhono zomphakathi oye wazenza ngaphandle kwezingane ezungezile. Tshela abantu ukuthi unguMphathi Omkhulu we-SAHM, Inc. noma uMphathi wezokuSebenza weSmith Smith. Impendulo yakho izophula i-ice, futhi uzoba yi-SAHM enomuntu wonke okhumbulayo.
Dala uhlelo lokuphatha isikhathi
Sihleka usulu ukuthi ubuchopho bukaMama busikhubezile. Eqinisweni, ikhanda lethu libhukuda lisuka esimweni esinezinkambiso zebhola, ama-naps, kanye nama-break-ups.
Akumangalisi ukuthi asikwazi ukukhumbula noma yini. Simatasa kakhulu sizama ukukhumbula konke.
Dala uhlelo lokuphatha isikhathi esilungile ukuze uhleleke kangcono futhi wenze lula usuku lwakho. Lokhu kuzokwenza futhi ukukhulule ekucindezelekeni okuqhubekayo kokucabanga ukuthi ukhohlwa into ekhalendeni yakho yengqondo. Lena indlela esheshayo yokukhipha ubuchopho.
Izidumi azikhathazi ukuzama ukukhumbula yonke indawo okumele zibe yedwa, futhi ukhululekile kakhulu kunabo. Uhlelo lokuphatha isikhathi lufana nomsizi wakho womuntu siqu, futhi wena uyinkanyezi yedwala enomncintiswano omncane, ngezinye izikhathi, ukuklabalaza.