I-Career Crossroads
Lesi sihloko sizokunikeza ulwazi oluzokusiza wenze ushintsho ekubeni ngumzali ohlala ekhaya ukuba abe oqashiwe. Ngeke ihlanganise izindaba eziwusizo ezifana nokunakekelwa kwezingane nokuqhathanisa umsebenzi nomndeni kusukela ezinye izingxenye zalolu chungechunge zibhekene nazo.
Emva kweminyaka yokuba ngumama ohlala ekhaya (noma ubaba ) unqume ukubuyela emsebenzini. Ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene, kungenzeka ukuthi ufike esiphethweni sokuthi lokhu kuyinto efanele ukuyenza. Cishe, izingane ozikhethele ukuhlala ekhaya manje seziyisikole esigcwele, noma zikhulile futhi azidingeki umzali ngesikhathi esigcwele sasekhaya. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani unqume ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqalisa umsebenzi wakho, kunezinkinga eziningana okuzobhekana nazo. Into yokuqala nokubaluleke kakhulu okumele ukwenze ukukhetha ukuthi uzoqhubeka yini emsebenzini wakho wangaphambilini. Uma ukhetha leyo nketho, kuzodingeka uhlole indlela ongayenza ngayo isikhathi owachitha kude nensimu yakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unquma ukubuyela emsebenzini wakho omdala noma uqale yonke entsha, kuzodingeka uthole indlela yokuchaza igebe emlandweni wakho wokuqashwa.
Ingabe Kufanele Ushintshe Umsebenzi Wakho?
Ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi esithile kude nomsebenzi wakho, kungenzeka ukuthi unqume ukuthi ushintsho luhlelekile. Mhlawumbe awuzwa umsebenzi owawusebenza ngaphambili ngaphambi kokuhambisana nokuphila kwakho okusha njengomzali.
Kungaba nzima kakhulu, okudinga ukuba usebenze amahora amade noma uthathe uhambo oluvame ukuhamba.
Ungase ufune ushintsho lomsebenzi ngoba uthola izithakazelo ezintsha ongathanda ukuzenza zibe ngumsebenzi. Noma mhlawumbe awuzange uthande ngempela lokho okwakwenza ngaphambili, futhi manje ufuna ukuthola into efaneleka kakhulu. Insimu yakho yomsebenzi noma imboni kungenzeka ukuthi ishintshile ngesikhathi sokungabikho, futhi kungenzeka kube nemisebenzi eminingi emisebenzi. Uma ungasazi ukuthi yikuphi umsebenzi ozowuphishekela, futhi unayo indlela yokuthatha isikhathi esengeziwe, sisebenzise ukuze uthole ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza ngokulandelayo. Bese uthole ukuqeqeshwa okudingekayo.
Uma imali kuyinkinga yokucindezela, cabanga ngomsebenzi osesikhashana uze uphishekele umsebenzi omusha. Kuzokunika ithuba lokuqala ukuthola imali ngenkathi wenza izinqumo futhi uqeqeshe. Kungabuye kukubuyisele emuva endleleni yakho yokuphila entsha njengomzali osebenzayo.
Uzilungiselela Kanjani Isikhathi Esivela Ensimini Yakho?
Uma uhlela ukubuyela emkhakheni owawusekho iminyaka eminingana, cishe uzothola ukuthi izinguquko zenzeke ngesikhathi ungekho. Okuningi kungenzeka ngisho nesikhathi esifushane. Uma nje usebenzisa isikhathi sakho emsebenzini ngokuhlakanipha, ngeke ukwazi ukumangala ngalokhu. Ngithemba, uqhubeke nensimu yakho phakathi ne-hiatus yakho.
Uma ungakwenzi, manje kuzoba yisikhathi esihle sokwenza ezinye izinto. Hlela izinsuku zezinsuku zasemini nabantu enethiwekhi yakho ukuze ukhethe ubuchopho babo. Funda phezulu embonini yezindaba .
Ukuchaza i-Gap emlandweni wakho wokuqashwa
Uma uhlala phansi ukubhala ukuqhubeka kwakho, uzobhekana nenkinga. Ngeke ube nento ongayifaka ngemuva komsebenzi wakho wokugcina. Kwadlule isikhathi esingakanani? Eminyakeni emibili edlule? Ezinhlanu? Eyishumi nesishiyagalombili? Kungenzeka ukuthi ungaphandle kwabasebenzi isikhathi esithile. Uzozibuza ukuthi ungachaza kanjani leli gaba lomsebenzi.
Okokuqala, njengoba ungeke ukwazi ukufihla, kufanele ube ngumnikazi wayo. Ungalokothi ucele uxolo ngesikhathi osichitha emsebenzini. Esikhundleni salokho, gcizelela amakhono akho, kufaka phakathi noma yikuphi okutholile ngesikhathi sakho kude nomsebenzi okhokhelwayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi wazivolontiya esikoleni somntanakho noma waba nendima ebambe iqhaza kumhlangano wabazali nabafundisi.
Nakuba abaqashi abaningi bengaboni amakhono atholakala emsebenzini wokuzithandela njengoba enza kanjalo nalabo abavela emsebenzini, kuyindlela yokubonisa ukuthi usebenzise kahle i-hiatus yakho.
Ochwepheshe abaningi bezokuthuthukiswa komsebenzi basikisela ukuthi basebenzise ukusebenza, kunokuba kube nokulandelana kwesikhathi. Ibeka ukugcizelela kwamakhono kunomlando wokuqashwa. Encwadini yakho yokumboza, chaza ukuthi ubuyela emsebenzini futhi ugcizelela amakhono akho wamanje. Yenza okufanayo ekuxoxweni komsebenzi.
Okuningi
Ukuthatha isikhathi sokukhuphula umndeni wakho
Ukusebenza Lapho Ukhulisa Umndeni Wakho