Ukubusa kwesithupha kunoma yikuphi ukudayiswa yilokho okwenza ngcono ngesikhathi sokuthengisa , kulula ukuvala ikhasimende. Uma usufinyelele ekugcineni kwesethulo sakho futhi ungaqiniseki ukuthi ufuna ukuthenga, uzobe usuvala isikhathi esinzima. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma wenze umsebenzi omuhle wokwakha ubuhlobo futhi uchaza izinzuzo, isondlo sakho singase sibe lula njengokuthi "Bhalisa lapha."
Abanye abathengi banempumelelo enkulu ngamasu wokuvala. Baqala ukuvala kahle ekuqaleni kokuqokwa, besebenzisa isitatimende esifana nesithi "Uma ngikukhombisa ukuthi lo mkhiqizo uzokulondoloza kanjani u-75% ngaphezu komkhiqizo wakho wamanje, uyothenga namhlanje?" Bese uqhubeka usuka lapho. Laba abathengisi baphumelela ngoba basebenzisa ama-tech psychology tricks ukuze baphathe amathuba okuthenga.
Abanye abathengi banqabe amasu okuvala, bathi bonke abathengisi abavakashelayo ukuvala "amasu" okujwayelekile abenzi umsebenzi omuhle wokuthengisa. Ngokudabukisayo, akuvamile ukuthi inqubo yokuthengisa ihambe kahle kangangokuba ngeke ube nesidingo sokuvala nhlobo. Uma wakha ukuthembela okukhulu ngethemba futhi uthole umkhiqizo ongeyena umdlalo omuhle kakhulu, uzoba lula ukuvala, kepha amathemba amaningi angeke athengwe ngaphandle uma ubapha i-nudge efana nalokhu okushiwo ngenhla " Bhalisa lapha "ukuphawula.
Kungani Kufanele ufake Izindlela Zokuvala
Amasu okuvala awusizo kakhulu ekuthengiseni ngoba isitha esikhulu kunoma yimuphi umthengisi inertia.
Ukushintsha kuyinto ebesabekayo, futhi uma kunikezwa amathuba okukhetha kuzohlala isimo sabo samanje kunokuthatha ingozi ngokuthenga umkhiqizo omusha. Ngakho-ke ngisho noma usuwenze kahle umsebenzi wakho futhi ithemba likholelwa ukuthi umkhiqizo wakho uyindlela engcono kakhulu, uma ungenzi uhlobo oluthile lokuvota cishe uzoyeka ukuthenga kuze kube yilapho ecabanga ngakho ngokuqhubekayo.
Ukushintsha okukhulu (nokubizayo), kungenzeka ukuthi lawo mathuba azohudula izinyawo.
Ukusetshenziswa kahle kwamasu okuvala, ke, ukunikeza ukuqhuma okuncane okugcina okuhamba phambili. Yonke ingxenye yenqubo yokuthengisa kuze kube sekupheleni kumele ifake umqondo wokuthi ukuthenga umkhiqizo wakho kungcono kakhulu kunokuhlala ne-status quo. Abathengisi bezinkanyezi ngokuvamile bathembele kumasu okuvala elula kakhulu, njengokungavimba okukhulu, ngoba baqaphele ukubeka umsebenzi osebenzayo ngesikhathi sesethulo.
Izindlela zokuvala eziyinkimbinkimbi ngokuvamile "zikhuni" zivale zombili izinzwa zegama. Ziyinkimbinkimbi ngoba zilukhuni kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa ngendlela efanele, kodwa nazo zibuye zithengise izindlela - zisebenza ngokucindezela ithemba lokuba yisinqumo angayithandi yedwa. Abathengisi abaningi bangcono kakhulu ukunamathela ngokulula kunokuba bathembele kuma-trickier.
Yiqiniso, amanye amathemba athengisa kakhulu kunabanye. Lokhu kungenzeka ngenxa yephutha ngakwesokunene sakho, noma kungenzeka ngenxa yezinto ezingaphezu kokulawula kwakho. Uma ngabe ithemba lakho lusuku olubi kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, ngeke azimisele ukukulalela kungakhathaliseki ukuthi isethulo sakho sihamba kahle kangakanani.
Kulezi zimo, ukusondelana okunzima kungasindisa ukudayiswa okungeke kwenzeke kube yinto elahlekile. Ukuvalwa okuqinile kungase kube nomthelela omkhulu uma kungenjalo kwenziwe ngaphandle kokusebenza kahle njengoba behamba ngokucophelela kunokuqeda ukuvala. Kodwa uma ngokucacile le mbono ingakalungiseleli ukuthenga kuwe, inqubo yokuvala ephakeme ingaba ingozi.