Ingxenye Yesibili Kusukela Ezingqungqutheleni Zezinsizakalo Zezinhlelo
Njengomzali omusha, ungase ukhathazeke ngokuthi ukusebenzisa ukunakekelwa kwengane okungewona omama kuzolimaza ukuthuthukiswa kwengane yakho. Ungase ufune umzali oyedwa ukuba ahlale ekhaya, kodwa noma angeke akwazi ukukukhokhela noma akhathazeke ngokuthi ukuthatha isikhathi kuzosithinta umsebenzi wakho. Noma ungase ungafuni ukuthatha ikhefu kusuka emsebenzini wakho.
Asikho isinqumo esifanele noma esingalungile, kodwa kufanele wazi ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ukuhlala ekhaya noma umzali osebenzayo, ingane yakho izoba kahle.
Ngo-1991 I-National Institute for Health Child and Human Development (NICHD) yaqala isifundo esasibizwa ngokuthi yi-Study of Early Child Care (SECC). Isihloko sashintshwa ku-Study of Early Child Care and Development Youth (SECCYD). Abacwaningi babheka ubuhlobo obuphakathi kokuhlangenwe nakho kwezingane, izici zokunakekelwa kwengane kanye nemiphumela yokuthuthukiswa kwezingane futhi bathola ukuthi izingane ezazinakekelwa ngabomama kuphela azizange zihluke ngokuhlukile kunezo ezazigcinwe ngabanye "(Eunice Kennedy Shriver National Institute of I-Health Health kanye nentuthuko yabantu, i-NIH, i-DHHS (2006). I-NICHD Study of Early Child Care and Development Youth (SECCYD): Ukuthola Izingane kuze Kufike Eminyakeni engu-4 1/2 Iminyaka (05-4318). Ihhovisi Lokushicilela Kahulumeni).
Lokhu kufanele kube nokukhathazeka kwakho ukuphumula.
Uthola kanjani ukunakekelwa kwekhwalithi yengane?
Unquma kanjani ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lokunakekelwa kwengane okufanele ulusebenzise? Abanye abomama nabazali abasebenza bezwa ukuthi izingane zabo zizozuza ngokuxhumana nezinye izingane ngakho-ke khetha isikhungo sokunakekela izingane noma esinye isilungiselelo seqembu. Abanye bakhetha ukunakekelwa ngabantwana ngabanye abantwana abamukelayo kusukela kumntanami wangasese noma umntanami obuka izingane zabo zomndeni kuphela.
Ukukhetha phakathi kwezinhlobo zokunakekelwa kwengane kuyisinqumo sokuqala ozodingeka ukwenze. Okulandelayo, kuzodingeka uhlolisise umhlinzeki othile, kungaba umuntu noma isikhungo sokunakekela izingane.
Ukulinganisela umndeni nomsebenzi
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usezingeni elingakanani emsebenzini wakho, njengomama osebenzayo noma ubaba, ungase ukhandle ukuthola ukulinganisela phakathi komsebenzi wakho nomndeni wakho. Ngokuvamile, omama, kodwa hhayi njalo, banenkinga enkulu kunabobaba ngoba benza inqwaba yemithwalo yemindeni. Lesi simo singabangela ukukhungatheka nokukhathala.
Ukusebenza usuku lonke bese ufika ekhaya ingane encane kungaba nzima. Ubeke amandla akho wonke ukwenza umsebenzi wakho kahle-uphendule kubasebenzi bakho, abasebenzisana nabo, amaklayenti, kanye nezidingo zabasebenzi. Into yokugcina ongase uzwe sengathi uyenzayo isabela kumntanakho. Nokho, le micabango yenza nje uzizwe unecala. Uxazulula kanjani lokhu? Enye indlela ukusika amahora akho bese usebenza isikhathi esithile uma ungakwazi ukuwukhokhela. Ungase ubuke nomsebenzi wesikhashana ongakuvumela ukuthi ukhethe uma ufuna ukusebenza. Khumbula ukuthi lezi zinketho zingaba nomthelela omubi ekwenzeni kwakho ukuqhubekela phambili emisebenzini yakho , noma kungenakwenzeka imali emndenini wakho.
Ungabuza umqashi wakho uma ungasebenzisa isimiso somsebenzi esivumelana nezimo esingase sibe nezinsuku ezine zamahora angu-10 esikhundleni sezinsuku eziyisihlanu zamahora noma isikhathi sokuqala nesokugcina esikuvumela ukuba ugweme ukuhamba kwesikhathi sehora. Ungase uthole nokuthi ungasebenza yini ekhaya njengethungatha ngezinsuku ezimbalwa ngesonto.