Ukubaluleka koMsebenzi weMentor
Umeluleki ophumelelayo ngumuntu owenza umehluko emisebenzini yabantu abasebenza ngaye.
Abaningi ochwepheshe abaphumelele bakhomba umuntu ozinike isikhathi, amandla kanye nokwesekwa ekusizeni ukuba baqonde iphuzu elibalulekile empilweni yabo.
Ngami ngokwami, ngibhekisela ochwepheshe ababili abaphawulekayo abafaka isikhathi sokusebenza nami ukuze bangisize ngithuthukise njengomholi ezweni lezinkampani futhi njengomfundisi wokuphatha ezweni lezemfundo. Uma ngibheka phambili, ngibheka lezo zinsuku njengamahoksi emgwaqweni ohambweni lwami, lapho ukusekelwa kwalaba baqondisi kungivumela ukuthi ngiyeke phansi indlela entsha engangivaliwe.
Kungani Kufanele Usebenze NjengeMentor
Kulabo abazuzile kumeluleki owusizo empilweni yabo noma emisebenzini yabo, ngokuvamile kuvame ukushayela ngokuqinile ukukhokha lokhu phambili kwabanye ngokukhonza indima efanayo. Isenzo sokusiza othile ukuthuthukisa, ukukhula nokuhamba ngezithiyo zokuphila kanye nezempilo kuyinzuzo enkulu kakhulu. Labo abahlinzeka lokhu ukusekelwa njengomeluleki bahileleke esenzweni sokuzidela esingenabugovu, kungekho okulindele ukubuya noma umholo.
Ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi uzinikele ngokwakho ekusekeleni omunye umuntu, ukufunda ukukhonza njengomeluleki kuyinto yokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu kanye neyeprofensi enzima ukucabanga ngezenzo zakho kanye nokuziphatha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Omunye umeluleki ohlala isikhathi eside wathi, "Ngokuzama ukusiza abantu abancane nabangaphansi, ngadingeka ngizindle futhi ngifunde emaphutheni ami kanye nokungaphumeleli."
Yazi ukuthi kunezindlela ezihlukahlukene zokuqala njengeMentor
Amantombazane athatha izinhlobo eziningi namafomu ekuphileni kwethu. Kusukela othisha osiqhubezela kakhudlwana ukuphumelela endabeni kumqeqeshi osisiza ukuthi siqaphele ukuzinikezela nokusebenza kanzima okudingekayo ukuze kuphumelele, laba bantu babe ngabaqondisi empeleni, hhayi nje esihlokweni. Ungakwazi ukukhonza njengomeluleki kusuka kumaphuzu amaningi okuphila empilweni yakho nakwezethameli eziningi.
Yamukela Ukuthi Umsebenzi Wezingcweti Ushintshile
Indima yomgqugquzeli ikhokhiswa ngokusiza abantu bacabange ngezinqumo ezinkulu nezinkombandlela emisebenzini yabo. Umeluleki angase anikeze isiqondiso senkanyezi ekhulayo ekuthuthukiseni njengeqhinga kanye nokwandisa amakhono akhe obuholi. Umqeqeshi angabheka izinkinga ezithile zokuziphatha ukukusiza ukuqinisa noma ukuthuthukisa; umeluleki uyakusiza ngezikhombisi zekhampasi kwibalazwe lakho lomsebenzi.
Thatha i-Stock of Your Own Journey, Kufaka Neziphambeko Zakho Ngesikhathi
Isenzo sokuzindla kuzo zombili izimo nezenzo zokunganaki kusekela ukukhula nokuvuthwa kwakho futhi kulungele ukuba uhlanganyele nomuntu ozozenza amaphutha akhe kanye nokwenza ukunqoba kwabo.
Hlela Umbono Wakho Wokwenza Impumelelo Kubonakala NjengeMentor
I- scorecard yakho ayinandaba nokuthuthukiswa kwesikhashana esiseduze kwe-mentee yakho nakho konke okwenziwe ngethonya eliphansi ukuthi ukubandakanyeka kwakho nokuqondiswa kuyinikeza umuntu ngamunye.
Ezimweni eziningi, awusoze wazi umphumela wangempela wenkxaso yakho. Khumbula, ubuhlobo abukho ngawe.
Ubudlelwane obuningi Buqala Ngengozi noma "Ngokomzimba"
Ngithathe ama-mentees ngokubheka nokuxhumana nabantu ngabanye abangaphandle kolawulo lwami. Ngesinye isikhathi, nganikezela ukuncoma kancani kancani emva kombukiso futhi lokhu kwaholela ochungechungeni lwezingxoxo ezagcina ziba ubuhlobo obungakahleleki kodwa obuhlala njalo obuye bahamba ezinkampanini eziningi kanye nezinguquko zomkhakha thina bobabili.
Uma Ifakashi Yakho Noma Inhlangano Yakho Inesimiso Sokuqondisa Okuhlelekile, bhalisa!
Ezinye izinhlangano zinezinqubo ezivuthiwe kakhulu zabaqeqeshi abasha abashayeli futhi bazosebenza ukuze zivumelaniswe nezikhalazo ezithakazelisayo. Sebenzisa ngokunoma yikuphi nanoma iyiphi imithombo etholakalayo ukusekela lo mzamo.
Bheka Ngaphandle Kokuqina Kwakho
Cabanga ukubheka izinhlangano ezingaphandle, kufaka phakathi ukungenzi-inzuzo, izikhungo zenkolo, nezinye izinhlangano zentsha. Eziningi zazo, kufanele ulindele ngokucophelela ukuthi uhlole isheke sangemuva ngaphambi kokwamukelwa njengomeluleki.
Hlela okulindelekile okulungile
Qala ngokuchaza indima yakho nokuziphendulela kobudlelwane bese uxoxisana okufanayo kumuntu omncane. Qiniseka ukuthi lowo muntu uyaqonda umehluko phakathi kokuqeqesha nokuqeqesha.
Yenza Isikhathi Sokuzi Okwengeziwe
Buza imibuzo yakho mayelana nemvelaphi yakhe, imfundo kanye nethemba lesikhathi eside namaphupho. Yabelana kancane ngendaba yakho, noma kunjalo, ungabanjwa emlandweni omude mayelana nomsebenzi wakho. Lobudlelwane buphathelene nomsakazo, futhi ukugxila kwakho kufanele kube ukuzama ukuqonda izifiso. Ingxenye eyinhloko yendima yakho isiza umuntu ukuthi ahlele imephu kusuka esimweni samanje kuya esimweni esizayo esifisa noma esimweni esifisayo.
Gcina njalo, kodwa hhayi Ukuxhumana Okuvamile
Khumbula, awuseluleki wansuku zonke kuzo zonke izinsizwa ezincane noma inkinga yakho yokuhlangana kwe-mentee. Ukugxila kwakho kusithombe esikhulu futhi isikhathi eside. Uma ubuhlobo buqalile futhi ngemuva kwezinkulumo ezimbalwa zokuqala, ngitholile ukuthi oxhumana naye nyanga zonke unikeza ibhalansi yemvamisa kanye nemali enengqondo.
Phakathi nezingxoxo zakho, sebenzisa imibuzo ejwayelekile futhi evulekile ukuqondisa ingxoxo. Njengesibonelo, cabanga ngalokhu:
- "Unjani?"
- "Ufuna ukukhuluma ngani?"
- "Ufundeni kanzima kancani?"
- "Uzokwenza kanjani lokhu esikhathini esizayo?"
- "Yini oyenzile ngenyanga edlule ukuze ufunde noma ukhule?"
- "Ufuna ukufezekani esikhathini esizayo?"
Imibuzo evulekile ikhuthaza umama wakho ukuba acabange futhi achaze imibono ngezihloko ezibalulekile futhi bakunikeze umongo owengeziwe weminye imibuzo kanye nokusikisela.
Melana nesifiso sokunikeza imiyalo ecacile
Uma kunesidingo, sebenzisa umbuzo we-coaching olula emhlabeni: "Ucabanga ukuthi kufanele ukwenze ini?" Nselele inhlanhla yakho ukucabanga ngezinkinga bese uthuthukisa imibono yabo. Ezimweni eziningi, kufanele uvumele lowo muntu ukuba ahambe futhi asebenzise umqondo wakhe futhi acele ukuba babelane ngemiphumela nezifundo ezifundwa ngesikhathi esilandelayo.
Okubalulekile
Ukukhonza njengomeluleki kokubili kuvuza futhi kusekela ukuthuthukiswa kwakho njengomuntu kanye nochwepheshe. Qaphela ukuthi ungazitholi ngokweqile ngobuhlobo obuningi kakhulu: eyodwa noma emibili ingase ibe yikho konke ongayisingatha ngenkathi ugcina umsebenzi wakho siqu. Ukubekezela nokuhlakanipha yizimfanelo ezimbili zabaqeqeshi abakhulu. Khumbula lokhu njengoba uqala lo msebenzi obalulekile ekusekeleni abanye.
--Ibuyekezwa yi-Art Petty