Abaholi abakhulu bayacacisa ngokuziphatha kwabo futhi basebenzise izindinganiso zabo ziqondisa ukuziphatha kwabo nezinqumo zabo. Ngetayitela elicacile nelingaguquguquki, noma izimiso eziqondisayo, abaholi babonisa ngokuqhubekayo ekuziphatheni kwabo kanti abanye bayaqonda ukuthi bavelaphi nokuthi kungani.
Enselele Inkokheli: Indlela yokwenza izinto ezingavamile zenzeke ezinhlanganweni, uJames Kouzes noBarry Posner bathi: "Ukuze ube umholi othembekile, kufanele uqale ukuqonda izinkolelo ezijulile ... ezikushayela. Kumele ukhulume ngokuqondile ngezinkolelo zakho ngezindlela ezimelela ngokukhethekile ukuthi ungubani. "
Ucwaningo lwombhali lwabonisa ukuthi abaholi abanokwethenjelwa kakhulu bacacile ngamanani abo, baxoxisana nabanye ngamanani, futhi bahola ngendlela ehambisana nalezi zimiso.
Kunezinyathelo ezimbili zokucaciswa kwamagugu:
- Ukucaca kumanani akho abaluleke kakhulu
- Ukukhulumisana namanani akho kwabanye.
Emkhakheni Wezobuholi, abalobi banikeza imizimba eminingi umholi angayenza ukuze asize ngesinyathelo # 1.
Abafundi bafundiswa ukuba babhalele inkokhelo, bahlule izifundo ezivela kubaholi abazibhekayo, bese ubhala u-credo credo.
Emsebenzini wethu wokuqeqesha , siphinde sisebenzise ukuvivinya umzimba "ukulinganisa" ukucacisa izindinganiso (ngenxa yomsebenzi wami uMary Hershey kulolu hlelo).
Inhloso ukucacisa amanani akho aphezulu angu-7 ngokuhleleka kwe-# # okubaluleke kakhulu.
Izikhombisi-ndlela:
- Qala ngokunqamula izinto ezingabalulekile kuwe.
- Bese uphinde ulandele uhlu, ujikeleze izinto eziningi ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
- Okusele ohlwini kuzoba yizinto ezibalulekile kodwa ezingabalulekile kakhulu .
- Buyekeza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu . Cabanga ukuthi kunenani elilahlekile elibaluleke kakhulu kuwe futhi alibalwanga; engeza. Khona-ke kusuka kuleli qembu, khetha 7 okubaluleke kakhulu .
- Bese uhlele i-oda lezi zimpawu ezingu-7 ezibaluleke kakhulu. Inombolo eyodwa yiNani Elibaluleke Kakhulu .
1. | Ukufeza | 13. | Ukuncintisana | 25. | Ukulingana |
2. | Ukuthuthuka | 14. | Ukubambisana | 26. | Ukuhlonipha |
3. | Ukuzijabulisa | 15. | 27. | Injabulo | |
4. | Ubuciko | 16. | Izwe | 28. | Ubuchwepheshe |
5. | Ukuzimela | 17. | Ukudala | 29. | Ukulunga |
6. | Ukubonga | 18. | Ilukuluku | 30. | Udumo |
7. | Ubuhle | 19. | 31. | Umndeni | |
8. | Inselelo | 20. | Intando yeningi | 32. | Ukuzuza kwezezimali |
9. | Shintsha | 21. | Ukuhlukahluka | 33. | Inkululeko |
10. | Ukuxhumana | 22. | Umthwalo wemvelo | 34. | Ubungane |
11. | Umphakathi | 23. | Ukuphumelela | 35. | |
12. | Ukuncintisana | 24. | Ukusebenza kahle | 36. | Ezempilo |
37. | Ukusiza abanye | 55. | Mastery | 73. | Umsebenzi / Ukuziphendulela |
38. | Ukusiza iNhlangano | 56. | Umsebenzi onenjongo | 74. | Ukuphepha |
39. | Ukuthembeka | 57. | Umthamo | 75. | Ukuziqaphela |
40. | Ihlazo | 58. | Imvelo | 76. | Ukuzihlonipha |
41. | Ukuzimela | 59. | Ukuvuleka | 77. | Ukuziqhenya |
42. | Ukuthonya | 60. | I-oda | 78. | Serenity |
43. | 61. | Ukuveza Kwakho | 79. | Ukufinyeleleka | |
44. | Ukuvumelana | 62. | Ukujabulisa | 80. | Ingokomoya |
45. | Ubuqotho | 63. | Amandla | 81. | Ukuzinza |
46. | Intellectualism | 64. | Ukuhlonipha | 82. | Isimo |
47. | Ukubandakanya | 65 | Ubumfihlo | 83. | Isakhiwo |
48. | Ulwazi | 66 | Ukukhiqiza | 84. | |
49. | 67 | Ikhwalithi | 85. | Iqiniso | |
50. | Ukufunda | 68 | Ukuqashelwa | 86. | Izinhlobonhlobo |
51. | Ukuzilibazisa | 69 | Ubudlelwane | 87. | Umcebo |
52. | Indawo | 70 | Inkolo | 88. | Ukuhlakanipha |
53. | Uthando | 71 | Idumela | 89. | Ukulinganisa Umsebenzi / Ukuphila |
54. | Ubuqotho | 72 | Hlonipha |
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Uma unezindinganiso zakho eziphezulu ezingu-7, cabanga ngokuphendula imibuzo elandelayo ukucacisa ukuthi amanani akho amele kahle kangakanani ebuholini bakho:
- Ingabe abasebenzi bakho bayazi izindinganiso zakho eziphezulu? Uma kungenjalo, wabelane ngakho bese ubamema ukuba babelane ngokwabo.
- Ingabe lezi zimiso ziboniswa ekuziphatheni kwakho kwansuku zonke? Ingabe uqinisile kumagugu akho, noma ubuhle?