Njengengxenye yenqubo yokulayisenisa isikhundla somzali okhulayo, cishe kuzodingeka futhi unikeze izilinganiso zamanhlamvu - izincwadi ezivela kubantu abakwazi kahle abangafakazela ubuqotho bakho, ukuzinza ngokwezimali, nokuqina ukuze ube ngumzali okhulisayo.
Ubani Ongakucela I-Reference
Ubani okufanele ucele ukubhala incwadi yokubhekisela egameni lakho? Abantu abahle kakhulu ukubhala lezi zincwadi ngabantu abanomqondo omuhle emphakathini wakho futhi abazinikezele enhlalakahleni yezingane - abantu abanjengabafundisi, othisha noma abaqondisi besikole, odokotela, abaqeqeshi, abasebenzi bezenhlalakahle, noma abanye abanikezela ukunakekela izingane. Ngokuqinisekile bazobe bekukwazi iminyaka eminingana futhi bazokwazi ukuchaza ngokuzikhandla ukuthembeka kwakho, ukuziphatha nokuthanda izingane.
Uma ucela othile ukuba abhale inqolobane yokunakekela izingane, kuhle ukuhlala nabo futhi wenze uhlu lwezizathu zokuthi kungani uzoba umzali okhulisayo.
Lokhu kuzobanika ulwazi lokusebenza nabo njengoba babhala inkomba yakho yomlingiswa. Nonke kufanele nibheke le mibuzo elandelayo:
- Unayo uhlelo oluqinile lokusekela wendawo lomndeni nabangani?
- Yiliphi isipiliyoni osebenza nabantwana?
- Ingabe ikhaya lakho liphephile, lihlanzekile, futhi likhulu ngokwanele ukuze likwazi ukuhlala nengane encane?
- Uphendula kanjani ngokucindezeleka? Ulungele kanjani ukusekela ingane okungenzeka ibe nezinkinga zokuziphatha noma zengqondo?
- Ungabeka kanjani ukuthola izisebenzi zenhlalakahle ukuze uhlolwe njalo ngenyanga? Ukuze uhlangane nomndeni wakho womntanakho ngesikhathi sokuhlanganiswa?
- Ngabe amanye amalungu omndeni wakho angaphendula kanjani ukuba nomntwana okhulelwe ekhaya labo?
Nasi isibonelo sencwadi yereferensi ebhaliwe kumuntu ozobhapathizwa esikhundleni sokuba ngumzali.
Isampula se-Foster Parent Reference
Thomas Gray, Caseworker, Izinsizakalo Zezingane
UGeraldine Brown, Senior Caseworker, Izinsizakalo Zezingane
555 Main Street
I-suburbia, i-NY 12345
NgoJulayi 12, 20XX
Mnu. Grey noNksz Brown othandekayo,
Ngibhala ngokuqondene nesicelo sikaLinda Flynn sokuba ngumzali oqinisekisiwe wase-Eastern County. Ngiyamazi uLinda ngabanye nangomphakathi iminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye; yena ungumngane oseduze futhi naye uya esontweni lapho umyeni wami engumcwaningi. Ungumuntu onomusa, onomfudumalo, nalowo engimphathise izingane zami izikhathi eziningi.
ULinda uye waba ngumuntu osebenza kanzima, othembekile. Usanda kuqeda uhlelo olunzulu lokuthola i-RN degree, okwamanje ukugcina ubuhlobo bakhe obuseduze nokufeza imisebenzi yakhe njengomama ongashadile.
Phakathi neminyaka engazi ngayo uLinda, ubelokhu ehlangabezana nezinselele, kuhlanganise nokuhlukanisa kwakhe, futhi kamuva ukuthola indlela yakhe ngokwezimali nangokomzwelo. Uyenzile ngaphandle kokwehluleka, futhi ikhono lakhe lokugcina ikhaya nemvelo yakhe elikhulayo liqinisekiswe ukuphumelela kwengane esikoleni (ungumfundi ohlonishwa kahle osebenzayo kokubili ezemidlalo band).
Indlu kaLinda yindawo ehlanzekile, ejabulisayo, ephephile, ekhulisayo lapho izingane zizwa zikhululekile ngokushesha. Ugcina imidlalo efanelekayo namathoyizi atholakalayo kubo bonke abangane bakhe abasha.
Ngikholelwa ukuthi uLinda uzokwenza umzali omangalisayo okhulisayo. Uhlale eveza isithakazelo ekufundiseni impilo yakhe nezingane eziningi, futhi ukufudumala nokuzwelana kwakhe kuzomvumela ukuba akhulise noma yimuphi ingane ngesikhathi esiyinkimbinkimbi nesikhathi esiphezulu.
Ngokuzithoba,
Candace Fletcher
Imithombo Engaphezulu Yokubhekisela Kwabazali Abakhulu : Njengoba uqala inqubo yokufaka isicelo sokuba ngumzali okhulelwe, kufanele wazi ukuthi yini ehilelekile ngaphambili. Nansi ulwazi oluthe xaxa mayelana nokuhlola okuyisendlalelo , isici kanye nezinkomba zomuntu siqu , ukuqinisekiswa kokuqashwa , nokucela izinkomba
Amasampuli E-Reference Letter : Izinhlamvu zereferensi zesampula nezinhlamvu zokuncoma, amasampula encwadi ezibhekiselwe izinhlamvu, nezincwadi ezicela ukubhekisela.