Okudingeka Ukwazi Ngaphambi Kokuthatha Isinyathelo Esilandelayo
Yini ongayenza? Ungase ukhathazeke ukuthi sekuphuzile kakhulu ukwenza ushintsho lomsebenzi . Nakuba kungase kuzwakala umsindo, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ushintsho lwakho luzoba lula noma ukuthi ungakwenza ngaphandle kokwenza umzamo omkhulu. Ukushintsha kunzima, noma ngabe uyilungiselela kahle. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi ukuthi uzosebenza nsuku zonke, ukwenza okuthile ongakujabuleli, noma lokho akujabulisi, kunzima kakhulu.
Yini Engcono Ngokwenza Umsebenzi Wenguquko ku-40?
Abantu abaningi babika ukwanda kokuzethemba uma bephendukela eminyakeni engama-40. Kungaba yini isikhathi esingcono sokwenza ushintsho lomsebenzi kunokuba uma unomuzwa wokuthi ungathatha noma yini ezayo?
Uma uhlela ukuthatha umhlalaphansi, njengabantu abaningi, eminyakeni engu-65, useneminyaka engu-25 yomsebenzi esikhathini esizayo. Ngisho noma kuthatha iminyaka embalwa ukulungiselela umsebenzi ohlukile, uzoba neminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili eshiye ukuchitha emsebenzini owanelisayo, uma konke kuhamba njengoba kuhlelwe.
Futhi uma ngenxa yezidingo zezezimali, kufanele usebenze uze ungaphezu kuka-65, uzobonga ngokuthi wenza into oyithandayo.
Ukuguqulwa komsebenzi kuyothinta impilo yakho, impilo, kanye nobuhlobo, mhlawumbe kube ngcono. Akukhona kuphela ukucindezela umsebenzi okungahambi kahle, ukukhetha ukuthi ushintsho lungase lube lukhulu kangakanani.
Uma usuqonda ukuthi uzokwenzenjani, cishe uzofika njengenkululeko enkulu.
Yini Eyenza Imisebenzi Yashintshayo Ngama-40 Alukhuni?
Abaneminyaka engamashumi amane banemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi engenza lokhu kube nzima kunokuba bashintshe imisebenzi engama-30 bekuyoba. Lapho uneminyaka engama-40, kungenzeka ukuthi ube nezingane oziphethe ngokwezimali. Ungathenga indlu phakathi neminyaka embalwa edlule futhi unomholo wokukhokha. I-National Association of Realtors ibika ukuthi iminyaka yobudala besikhathi sokuqala ekhaya beyi-32 ngo-2016 ("Abathengi Bokuqala, Abesifazane Abangenayo Ukushayela Ku-NAR sika-2016 Umthengi kanye noMshuwalense Wabadayisi." I-National Association of Realtors 2016).
Izindleko zonyaka ziphakeme kunezingane ezineminyaka engama-35 kuya kwengu-44 kunama-25 kuya ku-34 ubudala. Cishe u-$ 7,900 uhambela ekudleni, u-$ 20,600 uqondise izindlu, futhi u-$ 3,200 ngokubhekela ezempilo ("Izizathu Ezi 3 Uzothatha Ngokuningi Ku-40 Kunama-30." Imali ye-CNN, ngo-Agasti 3, 2016). Ngokungafani nomntwana oneminyaka engu-30 ongase asebenzise amaRandi angu-6 200 ekudleni, imali engu-R17,900 emakhaya, kanye namaRandi angu-2 200 ngokunakekelwa kwezempilo ngonyaka, oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala kufanele adibanise ekulondolozeni uma ehlose ukuthatha isikhathi emsebenzini ukuze uthole umsebenzi omusha. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kungase kudingeke ukuthi omunye aqhubeke nokusebenza emsebenzini wakhe wamanje ngenkathi ekulungele ukuthola entsha.
Indlela Yokwenza Umsebenzi Ushintshe ngo-40
Zama ukungadangali ubunzima obuhilelekile ekwenzeni ushintsho lomsebenzi we-midlife. Uma unquma ukuthi ufuna ukwenza lolu shintsho, zama ukuthola indlela yokwenza. Kungathatha isikhathi eside kunokuba ngabe ngabe uneminyaka engu-10 encane, kodwa uma wenza kahle, cishe kuyoba usizo. Njengoba lokhu kuzoba umzamo wokuzikhandla, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqiniseka ukuthi unikeza umcabango omkhulu ekukhetheni umsebenzi omusha .
Ukuzihlola , isinyathelo sakho sokuqala ohlelweni lokuhlelwa kwemisebenzi , kuzokuvumela ukuba ufunde mayelana nezithakazelo zakho, uhlobo lomuntu, izilinganiso, kanye namanani ahlobene nomsebenzi. Lokho okuthola kuneminyaka engu-40 kungase kuhluke kakhulu kunalokho ongakuthola uma usuwenzile lohlolo uma usencane. Ngakho-ke, uma ukhumbule ukuthatha " ukuhlolwa komsebenzi " lapho usesikoleni esiphakeme noma ekolishi, ungakhathazeki ukufuna imiphumela yakho.
Yenza futhi. Uma usuqedile lesi sinyathelo, uzophela ngolunye lwezinketho ezifanele.
Thatha isikhathi sokuhlola imisebenzi ohlwini lwakho. Ukuzihlola kwakho kungase kukhombise ukuthi umsebenzi wezemidlalo ungumdlalo omuhle kuwe ngokusekelwe ezimeni zakho, kodwa uma uneminyaka engama-40, unezinye izinto okufanele uzicabangele. Isibonelo, izibophezelo zakho zezezimali zingakuvumeli ukuba wenze imali eningi ekuqeqesheni nasekufundiseni . Ngomndeni ongayinakekela, ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ukutadisha kungabi yinto ofuna ukuyenza manje. Ekhuluma ngokulungiselela, ngenkathi useneminyaka engaba ngu-25 esele emsebenzini wakho, ungase ungafuni ukulinda iminyaka eminingana ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ukusebenza emsebenzini wakho omusha. Uma ufuna ukuguqula umsebenzi omusha ngokushesha, kufanele ukhethe okungafuni ukulungiselela okuningi.
Enye yezinto ezinhle kakhulu ngomsebenzi wakho oqoqiwe wukuthi unolwazi oluningi. Ungase ucabange, "Ngizokwenza kanjani okuhle kimi uma ngishintsha emsebenzini omusha?" Amagama amabili: amakhono adluliselwayo . Lezi ngamakhono namakhono owatholile ngokwenza uhlobo olulodwa lomsebenzi ongayisebenzisa kwenye. Kweminye imisebenzi, ungase ukwazi ngisho nokufaka amakhono akho adluliselweyo ukuqeqeshwa okusemthethweni. Uma unquma phakathi kwekhari elidinga isikole esengeziwe futhi ongasebenzisa amakhono akho adluliselweyo, ungase unqume ukukhetha okulandelayo. Kuzokuvumela ukuba ushintshe ngokushesha futhi unemizamo encane, ngesikhathi ongase ufune ukunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwakho kwesikhathi, amandla, noma imali. Lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele ukhethe umsebenzi okumele ulungiselele ngokusemthethweni, kodwa kuhle ukuba nezinketho.
Ngaphezu kokuthola amaqiniso mayelana nezidingo zemfundo, futhi ufunde ngemisebenzi, umbono , kanye nemali engenayo ephakathi . Uma usuqoqe yonke idatha yakho, uyihlole ukuze unqume ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi efaneleke kakhulu. Qhathanisa imisebenzi yomsebenzi ukuze unqume ukuthi yikuphi okuthandayo nokuthi ungenzani. Uma kukhona imisebenzi ongayikuzibona uyenzayo-khumbula ukuthi akudingeki uthande wonke wabo, kodwa kufanele uzimisele ukukwenza-susa umsebenzi ohlwini lwakho. Qinisekisa ukuthi amaholo azofaka izindleko zakho, ake uhlanganyele ekusindisweni, futhi ikuvumele ukwenza izinto ozijabulelayo, isibonelo, ukuhamba. Kumele futhi ucabange ngomqondo womsebenzi ngoba uma ikhono lakho lokuthola umsebenzi lizonqunyelwa, omunye umsebenzi uzoba yisinqumo esingcono.