Okudingeka Ukwazi Ngaphambi Kokuthatha Isinyathelo Esilandelayo
Kungani Ubudala 30 Isikhathi Esihle Sokushintsha Kwemisebenzi?
Lapho uneminyaka engama-30, cishe uzosebenza okungenani iminyaka engaphezulu kwengu-35 uma wena, njengabantu abaningi, uthatha umhlalaphansi ku-65. Kuyinto evame kakhulu ukuqhubeka isebenza isikhathi eside ngenxa yezidingo zezezimali. Ngenxa yaleso sizathu kunengqondo ukuthola umsebenzi owuthandayo ngempela, kodwa kungaba ngcono uma ukhetha umhlalaphansi kamuva ngoba usebenza ngokujabulisayo.
Ukwenza ushintsho lomsebenzi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, ngokuqinisekile kungathinta impilo yakho, ubuhlobo, ngisho nempilo. Ngethemba ukuthi, umthelela, uma usuqedile ukucindezeleka kokuguquka, kuzoba nomphumela omuhle, njengoba usuka emsebenzini ongayithandi, ngokuqondene nomsebenzi othola ukwanelisayo.
Ukushintsha imisebenzi kunzima ngokwengeziwe, kodwa akunakwenzeka, njengoba sikhula. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi imithwalo yethu yemfanelo ivame ukukhuphuka ngobudala. Nokho, abantu abaningi abanemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi abaneminyaka engama-30 njengoba bazobe benakho uma beba ngu-40 noma 50.
Izigidi zeminyaka zilahla izenzakalo eziningi ezishintshayo ekuphileni ezidinga ukuzinza okuningi emsebenzini. Isibonelo, iminyaka yobudala bomshado e-United States manje i-29.9 yamadoda nabangu-27.9 yabesifazane ("Age Age at First Marriage." I-American Fact Finder. Ngokusho kwe-Pew Research Centre, phakathi kwabantu abasha abaneminyaka engu-25 kuya ku-34 ubudala, amaphesenti angu-58 ayengashadile ngo-2012, iningi labo (amaphesenti angu-85) engakaze ashade ("I-Rekhodi Yabelana Namazwe aseMelika Angakaze Ashade Naye ." I- Pew Research Centre .
September 24, 2014). Nakuba isilinganiso sobudala sokuba nomntwana wokuqala singama-26.2 nje kuphela ("Ukuzalwa kanye Nokwethenjelwa." Amasevisi Okulawula Nokuvimbela Izifo, Isikhungo Sikazwelonke Sezibalo Zempilo. 2015), abantu abaningi bephuza ukuba nengane kuze kube ngaphezu kuka-30.
Izindleko nazo zinciphisa izingane ezineminyaka engu-25 kuya kwezingu-34 kunabakudala. Basebenzisa amaRandi angu-6 200 ngonyaka kanye nokudla okungamaRandi angu-17,200 emakhaya, ngokusho kwe-US Bureau of Labor Statistics ("Izizathu Ezi-3 Uzochitha Ngaphezu Kwangama-40 Kunama-30." Imali ye-CNN, ngo-Agasti 3, 2016). Uma ufuna isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokwenza ushintsho, lokhu kungaba njalo. Ngempela, ungakwenza kamuva-abantu abaningi-kodwa ukwenza manje kuyoba lula kunokushintsha kwezempilo emaphakathi .
Indlela Yokuqalisa Ukuguquka Kwemisebenzi ngo-30
Uma usuqume ukwenza ushintsho, i-oda lakho elilandelayo lebhizinisi lizoba ukunquma ukuthi yikuphi umsebenzi ozowuphishekela . Ungadangali uma ungazi ukuthi yini ofuna ukuyenza ngokulandelayo. Kunezinyathelo zokuthatha lokho ezingakusiza ukuthi uziqaphele konke.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyenze ukufunda ngawe. Le ngxenye yenqubo yokuhlela umsebenzi ibizwa ngokuthi yi- self-assessment , futhi ngesikhathi sayo, kufanele ubuke uhlobo lwakho lomuntu, izintshisekelo, izici, nezindinganiso ezihlobene nomsebenzi. Kungenzeka ukuthi wenze lokhu ngaphambili, kodwa kufanele uyenze futhi manje.
Usuvuthiwe kangcono kunama-30 wakho osekupheleni kweminyaka engu-20, futhi izimpendulo zakho kumathuluzi wokuhlola cishe zizohluka manje. Njengomphumela wokuqeda lesi sinyathelo, uzothola uhlu lwemisebenzi elungile ngokusekelwe ezintweni zakho.
Isinyathelo sakho esilandelayo ukuhlola imisebenzi ohlwini lwakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uyaziphi umsebenzi ofuna ukuwuphishekela-ngisho noma kuyinto owake waphupha-noma ingabe ungakaze ucabange ngaphambili, funda konke ongakwenza ngakho. Thola amaqiniso ngemisebenzi yomsebenzi, ukubuka umsebenzi , ukuhola, nokufunwa kwezemfundo nokuqeqesha . Hlola ngayinye yezinketho zakho ukuze unqume ukuthi yiziphi imisebenzi ezifanele wena nokuthi aziphi.
Cabangela zonke izinto. Funda ngemisebenzi yomsebenzi evamile ngoba uma ungathandi ngempela imisebenzi ozoyiqeda nsuku zonke, cishe ngeke ujabulele umsebenzi wakho.
Ngenkathi imali engeyona eyinhloko ebaluleke kakhulu ekuneliseni umsebenzi, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi imali yakho yokuthola imali izobheka izindleko zakho futhi ikuvumele ukuthi uphile ngendlela oyifunayo. Futhi, bheka umbono wokusebenza ukuze ukwazi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthola umsebenzi uma usulungile.
Kubalulekile ukubeka imfundo nokuqeqesha ekulinganeni lapho ukhetha umsebenzi. Njengoba, uma uneminyaka engama-30 ubudala, uneminyaka eminingi yokusebenza ngaphambili, akudingekile ukuba ukhethe okukhethwa kukho ohlwini lwakho ngoba nje kuzothatha iminyaka embalwa noma ngaphezulu ukuhlangabezana neziqu. Isinqumo sakho sizokwehlela isikhathi esiningi nokuzikhandla ozimisele ukuzenza, futhi-ke, imali.
Amakhono akho adluliswayo enye into okufanele uyicabangele. Eminyakeni eminingana yokusebenza, cishe uye wathola amakhono namakhono ongawasebenzisa eminye imisebenzi eminingi. Abanye abaqashi bangakuvumela ukuthi uwafake esikhundleni sokuqeqeshwa okusemthethweni. Uma benza, kuzokwenza ukuthi ushintsho lwakho lube lula kakhulu futhi ngokushesha. Uma kufanele ukhethe phakathi komsebenzi ongasebenzisa amakhono awunawo manje futhi owodwa odinga isikole esengeziwe, ungase uthathe isinqumo sokukhetha okwangaphambili. Ngokuqinisekile kuzokuvumela ukuthi ungene emsebenzini wakho omusha masinyane. Njengoba isikhathi sisehlangothini lwakho, noma kunjalo, ungakwazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthatha umzila omude.
Ezinye zezinhlelo zokusebenza zokushintsha eminyakeni engu-30
Ukwenza ushintsho kuvame ukuza ngezindleko, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka yakho. Uma unaso iso emsebenzini odinga ukufundela noma ukuqeqesha okwengeziwe, kungase kudingeke ukuthi ushiye umsebenzi wakho ukukhulula isimiso sakho. Lokho kusho ukuthi ungasebenzi kuze kube yilapho usukulungele ukufaka umsebenzi wakho omusha.
Kumele futhi ukwazi ukukhokhela imfundo yakho. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ushintsho lomsebenzi, qiniseka ukuthi unayo imali noma ezinye izindlela zokusekela ngezezimali. Kungase kudingeke ukuba usebenzise isikhathi esengeziwe emsebenzini wakho wamanje ukuze ulondoloze imali ukuze ukwazi ukukhokhela ukuguqulwa kwakho.