Imincane, izenzakalo zansuku zonke nazo zibangela ukucindezeleka. Lokhu ukucindezeleka akuyona into ebonakalayo kithi, kodwa umthelela ohlala njalo futhi ohlangene wezincindezi ezincane uhlanganisa nomthelela omkhulu.
Ukuze uphendule lezi zinkinga zansuku zonke, umzimba wakho ukhulisa ngokuzenzekelayo ukucindezeleka kwegazi, ukushaya kwenhliziyo, ukuphefumula, ukuguqula umzimba, nokugeleza kwegazi kuya emisipha yakho. Le mpendulo yokucindezeleka ihloselwe ukusiza umzimba wakho usebenze ngokushesha nangempumelelo kunoma yikuphi isimo esiphakeme kakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, uma uhlala usabela ezimweni ezincane noma ezinkulu, ngaphandle kokwenza izinguquko ezingokwenyama, ezingqondweni, nangokomzwelo ukuvimbela umphumela wazo, ungathola ukucindezeleka okungalimaza impilo yakho nenhlalakahle. Kubalulekile ukuthi uqonde kokubili izenzakalo zakho ezibangelwa ukucindezeleka kwangaphandle nangaphakathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubona kanjani lezo zenzakalo.
Ukucindezeleka kungabuye kube kuhle. Udinga inani elithile lokucindezeleka ukwenza okusemandleni akho emsebenzini. Isihluthulelo sokuphathwa kokucindezeleka ukucacisa inani elifanele lokucindezeleka elizokunika amandla, ukufisa, nokuzikhandla ngokwezinga elingalungile elingalimaza impilo yakho nenhlalakahle.
Ukucindezeleka Okubalulekile Kubangelwa Izinkinga, Izici, Nezici
Ngenkathi umuntu ngamunye ehlukile futhi enemicimbi ehlukene nezindaba ezibangela ukucindezeleka, kunezinkinga ezithile ezithinta abantu emhlabeni jikelele. Lezi yizicindezelo ofuna ukuziqonda futhi uthathe izinyathelo zokuvimbela.
- Ukuzizwa ungalawuli,
- Ukuzizwa kungenalutho,
- Ukuzibophezela ngokuqeda noma ukuhluleka ukugcina izibopho,
- Izibopho ezingaphezu kwesikhathi,
- Shintsha, ikakhulukazi izinguquko ongazange uziqalise noma ukuzifaka,
- Ukungaqiniseki, futhi
- Ukulindela okuphezulu kokuzimela.
Yini Eyathinta Ukubhekana Nokubhekana Nezakhono Zokucindezeleka?
Ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka nokungaqiniseki, ungalindela izinkinga ezithile, izinkinga namathuba okubikezela. Ngokwesibonelo, nganoma yisiphi ishintsho, amalungu enhlangano anakho:
- Izindlela ezahlukene zokuphathelene nokushintsha. Abanye abantu banzima ukwamukela nokulungisa ukushintsha nokungaqiniseki; abanye bayothokoza izinguquko futhi babheke njengamathuba amakhulu. Abanye abantu baqala ushintsho; abanye bakhetha isimo se-quo.
- Amanani ahlukene okuhlangenwe nakho nokusebenza ekulawuleni ukucindezeleka nokuphathwa kokushintsha . (Okubuhlungu kumuntu oyedwa kungase kumjabulise omunye noma ngomusa nje kumcasule umuntu wesithathu.) Ngokwamaqiniso, abantu baba ngcono ekulawuleni ukucindezeleka futhi bashintshe ngolwazi.
- Abanye abantu kudingeka "bakhulume." Abanye bahlupheka ngokuthula. Abanye bathola ukukhululeka ekukhoneni. Abanye bakhulume futhi bakhulume futhi bakhulume, kodwa basekela ngempela ushintsho. Abanye bathola izindlela zokwehliswa izinguquko futhi banciphisa imizamo yokuqhubeka phambili.
- Amazinga ahlukene okucindezeleka kanye noshintsho olwenzeka kwezinye izindawo zokuphila kwabo.
- Phakathi noshintsho, abantu bazobhekana nemali ehlukahlukene yemithonya ekushintsheni kwamanje nezimo zokukhiqiza ukucindezeleka. I-intando iphinde ibe nemali ehlukene kanye nezinhlobo zokusekela ezivela kumlingani wakhe, ezinye eziphawulekayo, abangane, umphathi kanye nabasebenza nabo.
Zonke lezi zinkinga nezinye izinto zithinta ikhono lakho lokuphatha ukucindezeleka endaweni nokushintsha, ukuqhubeka ukusebenza ngokukhiqiza. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu ababhekene nokucindezeleka okujulile noshintsho bangase bangakwazi ukwenza ngokufana nalokho abanakho esikhathini esidlule.
Ukucindezeleka kungabangela izinkinga zomzimba, ngokomzwelo, nokuziphatha ezingathinta impilo yakho, amandla, inhlalakahle, ukuqapha kwengqondo, nobuhlobo bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshe. Kungabangela nokuzivikela, ukungabi nentshisekelo, ukukhathazeka ukugxila, izingozi, ukunciphisa ukukhiqizwa, nokuphikisana kwabantu.
Ukucindezeleka okukhulu kungabangela izinkinga ezincane ezifana nokulahlekelwa ukulala, ukucasula, ukuqubuzana, noma ukuphathwa ikhanda, futhi kungasiza ekwenzeni izifo ezisongela ukuphila ezinjengezinga eliphezulu legazi kanye nesifo senhliziyo.
Ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka noma izimo, abantu bavame ukuzibeka icala ngokuba buthakathaka noma ngenxa yokuntuleka kwabo "ukubhekana nayo." Ngokuvamile abaphathi ezinhlanganweni abaqondi ukuqhutshwa okuvamile kokushintsha noma ukukhiqiza ukucindezeleka futhi balindele ukuthi abasebenzi babuyele ekukhiqizeni okuphelele ngemva komcimbi ocindezelayo. Akukwenzeki.
Imiphumela Yokucindezeleka Kusukela Ekushintsheni
Abantu banamathiselwe okujulile emaqenjini abo omsebenzi, izakhiwo zenhlangano, izibopho zomuntu siqu, nezindlela zokufeza umsebenzi. Uma noma yikuphi kwalokhu kuphazamiseka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikukhetha komuntu siqu noma ngokusebenzisa inqubo yenhlangano lapho bangase bazizwe beyisuswe khona futhi bengabandakanyeki, isikhathi sokuguquka senziwa.
Phakathi nalolu shintsho, abantu bangalindela ukuzwa isikhathi sokuyeka izindlela zakudala njengoba beqala ukuthuthela phambili futhi bahlanganise entsha.
Uma ucabanga ukucindezeleka emsebenzini, ukuqonda lezi zingxenye mayelana nokucindezeleka, izimo ezenza ukucindezeleka, kanye nezimpendulo zabasebenzi ekucindezelekeni zingakusiza ukusiza kokubili wena nabasebenzi bakho ngokuphumelelayo ukuphatha ukucindezeleka nokushintsha.
Nazi imicabango eyengeziwe mayelana nokuthi yini echaphazela ikhono lakho lokubhekana nokucindezeleka emsebenzini. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokucindezeleka.
Zonke lezi zinkinga nezinye izinto zithinta ikhono lakho lokuphatha ukucindezeleka endaweni nokushintsha, ukuqhubeka ukusebenza ngokukhiqiza. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi abantu ababhekene nokucindezeleka okujulile noshintsho bangase bangakwazi ukwenza ngokufana nalokho abanakho esikhathini esidlule.
Ukucindezeleka kungabangela izinkinga zomzimba, ngokomzwelo, nokuziphatha ezingathinta impilo yakho, amandla, inhlalakahle, ukuqapha kwengqondo, nobuhlobo bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshe.
Kungabangela nokuzivikela, ukungabi nentshisekelo, ukukhathazeka ukugxila, izingozi, ukunciphisa ukukhiqizwa, nokuphikisana kwabantu.
Ukucindezeleka okukhulu kungabangela izinkinga ezincane ezifana nokulala-ukulahleka, ukucasula, ukuqubuzana, noma ukukhanda ikhanda, futhi kungasiza ekwenzeni izifo ezisongela ukuphila ezifana nokucindezeleka kwegazi kanye nesifo senhliziyo.
Ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka noma izimo, abantu bavame ukuzibeka icala ngokuba buthakathaka noma ngenxa yokuntuleka kwabo "ukubhekana nayo." Ngokuvamile abaphathi ezinhlanganweni abaqondi ukuqhutshwa okuvamile kokushintsha noma ukukhiqiza ukucindezeleka futhi balindele ukuthi abasebenzi babuyele ekukhiqizeni okuphelele ngemva komcimbi ocindezelayo. Akukwenzeki.
Imiphumela Yokucindezeleka Kusukela Ekushintsheni
Abantu banamathiselwe okujulile emaqenjini abo omsebenzi, izakhiwo zenhlangano, izibopho zomuntu siqu, nezindlela zokufeza umsebenzi. Uma noma yikuphi kwalokhu kuphazamiseka, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikukhetha komuntu siqu noma ngokusebenzisa inqubo yenhlangano lapho bangase bazizwe beyisuswe khona futhi bengabandakanyeki, isikhathi sokuguquka senziwa.
Phakathi nalolu shintsho, abantu bangalindela ukuzwa isikhathi sokuyeka izindlela zakudala njengoba beqala ukuthuthela phambili futhi bahlanganise entsha.
Uma ucabanga ukucindezeleka emsebenzini, ukuqonda lezi zingxenye mayelana nokucindezeleka, izimo ezenza ukucindezeleka, kanye nezimpendulo zabasebenzi ekucindezelekeni, zingakusiza ukusiza kokubili wena nabasebenzi bakho ngokuphumelelayo ukuphatha ukucindezeleka nokushintsha.