Indlela Yokufeza Amaphupho Wakho Okuphila
- Udinga ukufisa ngokujulile umgomo noma isinqumo. Napoleon Hill, encwadini yakhe ephawulekayo, Cabanga futhi Ukhule Rich , wayenze kahle. "Isiqalo sayo yonke impumelelo isifiso. Gcina lokhu njalo engqondweni. Izifiso ezinamandla ziletha imiphumela ebuthakathaka, njengoba nje inani elincane lomlilo lenza ukushisa okuncane." Ngakho-ke, isinyathelo sakho sokuqala esimisweni somgomo nokufeza amaphupho akho ukuthi kufanele ngempela, ufuna ngempela ukufeza umgomo.
- Zibone ngeso lengqondo ufeze umgomo. U-Lee Iacocca uthe, "Ukutholakala okukhulu kwesizukulwane sami ukuthi abantu bangashintsha ukuphila kwabo ngokushintsha isimo sengqondo sabo sengqondo." Yini okuzokwenza ukuthi uzizwe uthanda? Ukuphila kwakho kuyovezwa kanjani ngokuhlukile ngenxa yalokho? Uma umgomo uyinto ethile, isilungiselelo esithile semigomo yokuphakamisa sincoma ukuthi ugcine isithombe sento lapho ubona khona futhi ukhunjuzwa nsuku zonke. Uma ungeke uzifanele ufinyelele umgomo, kungenzeka ukuthi-ngeke.
- Yenza uhlelo lendlela ofuna ukuyilandela ukuze ufeze umgomo. Yakha izinyathelo zesenzo ozolandela. Thola indlela ebucayi. Indlela ebucayi ichaza ukufeza okuyinhloko endleleni, izinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu okumelwe zenzeke ukuze umgomo ube ngokoqobo.
UStephen Covey wathi, "Zonke izinto zidalwa kabili. Kukhona indalo yengqondo noma yokuqala nokudala kwenyama noma kwesibili kwezinto zonke. Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi uhlelo, okokudala, yilokho okufunayo, ukuthi wacabanga ngakho konke, bese uyifaka ezitini nasezinhlakeni. Ngosuku nosuku uya ekwakheni ukwakhiwa futhi usuphele uhlelo lokuthola imiyalo yosuku. Uqala ngokuphela kwengqondo. " Uqinisile.
- Zibophezele ekufezeni umgomo ngokubhala phansi umgomo. U-Lee Iacocca uthe, "Isiyalo sokubhala okuthile phansi yisinyathelo sokuqala sokwenza kwenzeke." Ngiyavuma ngokuphelele. Bhala phansi uhlelo, izinyathelo zokuthatha izinyathelo, kanye nendlela ebucayi. Ngandlela-thile, ukubhala phansi umgomo, uhlelo, kanye nomugqa wesikhathi ubeka izenzakalo ezihamba phambili okungenzeka ukuthi zenzeke ngenye indlela.
Ekuphileni kwami, kunjengokungathi ngenza ukuzibophezela okujulile ekufezeni umgomo. Angikwazi ukuzikhohlisa kamuva. Umgomo obhaliwe ngempela wawuwumgomo.
- Hlela izikhathi zokuhlola inqubekelaphambili yakho ohlelweni lwakho lwekhalenda , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi: ukuhlela usuku, i-PDA, ifoni ye-PDA noma uhlu olubhalwe ngesandla. Uma ungathuthuki noma uzizwe uhlezi, ungavumeli ithemba lakho likugcine ekufezeni imigomo yakho.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucabanga kahle kangakanani, kudingeka uhlole ukungabi khona kwakho kwenqubekela phambili. Yamukela umbono wezinkinga; kukhona okuzokwenza futhi mhlawumbe, kuyohamba kabi. Hlola zonke izici ezikugcina ekufezeni umgomo wakho futhi uthuthukise uhlelo lokuzinqoba. Engeza lezi zinyathelo zokuhlela ohlelweni lwakho lwekhalenda njengengxenye yecebo lakho lokufeza imigomo. - Buyekeza inqubekelaphambili yakho yonke njalo . Qinisekisa ukuthi uyaqhubeka. Uma ungathuthuki, qasha umqeqeshi, thepha ekusekelweni kwabathandekayo, hlaziya ukuthi kungani umgomo ungafiki. Ungavumeli umgomo uvele uphele. Bonisa ukuthi yini okudingeka uyenze ukuze uyifeze. Hlola izinyathelo eziyisihlanu zangaphambi kokuhlola ukuthi ufuna ngempela ukufeza umgomo kangakanani.
Lokhu kulungiselelwa kwezinyathelo eziyisithupha nokufinyelela kwesistimu kubonakala kulula, kodwa kuyisistimu enamandla kunazo zonke oyoke uyenze yokufeza imigomo yakho nokuphila izinqumo zakho. Udinga nje ukukwenza.
Izifiso ezinhle nenhlanhla.