Isimo # 1: Ingxoxo Yobubi
Lesi yisimo esisodwa lapho iseluleko sikaBarney Stinson sizwakala khona-kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi "uhambisane" nesicelo somthetho. Noma kunjalo, lokho akusho ukuthi awukwazi ukubonisa kancane ubuntu bakho. Ngaphambi kokuxoxisana kwakho, yenza ucwaningo oluthile emkhatsini wenkampani bese uhlanganisa izingubo zakho ngokufanele. Isibonelo, uma umbala owuthandayo uhlaza, futhi ukugqoka okuthile okuluhlaza kwenza uzizwe uqiniseka ngokweqile, wenze ucingo oluhle lokuthi ungaba kanjani. Lokhu kungathatha uhlobo lwesitatimende sesitatimende, ihembe eligqoke ngaphansi kwejaji lakho le-suit, noma i-tie yakho-noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi kufanelekile. Ufuna ukuba ngumuntu ongcono kakhulu enkulumweni yomsebenzi, futhi uma umbala wokumama ojabulisayo ukwenza lokhu, kufanele uthole indlela yokuwufinyelela. Isihluthulelo sokubheka uphethiwe futhi ochwepheshe emsebenzini wakho wokuxoxwa komsebenzi? Qinisekisa ukuthi i-suit yakho ifanele kahle. I-suit efanelwe iyisihluthulelo sokubheka lokho kubheka, yilokho okufunayo ukukwenza.
Isimo # 2: Umcimbi Wezokuxhumana
Umcimbi wokuxhumanisa udinga ukujabulisa kancane ngoba ngokuvamile ukudla noma iziphuzo ezihilelekile kulezi zenzakalo. Kodwa-ke, usafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uziveza ekukhanyeni okuhle kakhulu. Madoda, yilapho ungagqoka khona amahembe amakhulu nezibopho zakho ngezingubo zakho zokugqoka-ungahambi kuze kube yilapho ukholelwa noma yini ehambayo, kodwa kungase kube usizo ukuphuma esixukwini kancane.
Abesifazane, nansi lapho uthola khona ukukhombisa umuzwa wakho wesitayela. Uma uzizwa uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe emikhankeni yamapensela, gqoka eyodwa. Uma uthanda izithende eziphakeme, dwala izintandokazi zakho (uma nje ungahamba futhi ume ngokukhululekile kuzo). Unayo isitatimende somswakama esimnandi ongangeza enye i-pop endaweni ehlanganisiwe? Gqoka lokho. Uyabona ukuthi lokhu kuhamba kuphi. Njengomsebenzi wokuxoxwa komsebenzi, ufuna ukukhombisa indlela engcono kakhulu yakho, futhi ku-izenzakalo ezifana nokuxhumanisa imicimbi lapho ungayilalisa khona ubuntu bakho.
Isimo # 3: Usuku Lokuqala Lomsebenzi Omusha
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi wakho omusha, qiniseka ukuthi ubuza othile ukuthi ikhodi yokugqoka iyini. Uma unenhlanhla, bazokunika ikhophi yekhodi yokugqoka ebhaliwe noma ikuqondise lapho uzokwazi ukukuthola khona. Noma yini oyenzayo, qiniseka ukuthi ulandela ikhodi yokugqoka ngosuku lwakho lokuqala lomsebenzi. Ngaphakathi kwengubo yokugqoka, gqoka okuthile okuletha isikhala esijabulisayo phakathi kwama-C amabili ahambisana nezambatho ezibuchwepheshe -kuthuthukiswa nokuzethemba. Ungase ugqoke ngendlela efanayo nendlela owagqoke ngayo interview yakho. Njengoba uzobe usuku lwakho lokuqala, cishe uzohlangana nabantu abaningi, futhi kungenzeka uhambahamba ngaphezu kokujwayelekile kwinkqubo. Cabanga ukuthi uma ukhetha izicathulo zakho.
Ungase futhi ungazi ukuthi izinga lokushisa ehhovisi lizoba yini-amanye amahhovisi agcinwa emazingeni okushisa afudumele noma apholile kunabanye. Ngosuku lwakho lokuqala, kuhle ukugqoka ezingxenyeni-mhlawumbe ingubo noma i-blouse ngaphansi kwe-blazer noma i-sweater. Ngale ndlela, uma kupholile, unokuthile okukugcina ufudumele ngenkathi usuhlezi edeskini lakho elisha, futhi uma lifudumele, ungalithatha bese ulifaka ngemuva kwesihlalo sakho (ngosuku lwakho lokuqala, wenze qinisekisa ukuthi ihembe lakho linemikhono).
Noma yisiphi isenzakalo osigqoka sona, gcina lokhu engqondweni-kuyamukeleka ngokuphelele ukuthola ezinye zobuntu bakho ekukhethweni kwakho kwezingubo zokugqoka. Uma nje uhlala wonke amakhodi okugqoka futhi ugcine ingqondo yakho isimo engqondweni, ukhululekile ukuba uqobo lwakho. Ubuntu bakho bezobuchwepheshe, okungukuthi.
Isitayela esijabulisayo!