I-Orders Stifle Ukucabangela Okubalulekile Nokunciphisa Ukudala
Uma unikeza imiyalo, utshela othile ukuthi enze okuthile.
" Beka lelo fayela edeskini yami, " ngumyalelo. Ngakho-ke, " Beka uRoger ekushintsheni kwesikhathi. " Uma unikeza umyalelo, awuvumeli omunye umuntu ukuba abe nenkululeko yokucabanga ngalokho okufanele akwenze noma ukuthi angayenza kanjani. Konke abangakwenza ukuhambisana ne-oda lakho. Ngokwenza lokhu, ucindezela ukucabanga nokucabangela okucabangayo nokuxazulula izinkinga nokuvimbela ukufunda.
Esikhundleni sokunikeza imiyalo nokutshela umuntu ukuthi benzeni, abaphathi abahle banikeza isiqondiso futhi banikeze imiyalelo ephezulu. Esikhundleni sokutshela abantu ukuthi benze kanjani okuthile, ubatshele ukuthi ufuna ukuthini futhi ushiye konke okusemandleni abo.
Amandla Wokucela Ingeniso esikhundleni sokukhipha i-oda
Indlela ephumelela kakhulu kunokukhipha ama-oda ukuchaza umsebenzi ozogcwaliswa bese ucela imibono nokufaka. Iningi labantu likhetha ukuba nelinye izinga lokulawula ukuthi liqedela kanjani umsebenzi wabo. Indima yakho njengomphathi ukuchaza umgomo wokuphela noma okuhlosiwe.
Wena ungumnikazi we "Yini" noma kunjalo, uma kunokwenzeka, unikeza "I-How" ukukhuthaza ukuthenga futhi kushukumise ukucabanga okudala.
Uma utshela isisebenzi ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani, esikhundleni sokunikeza umyalelo, ubapha inkululeko yokuza nendlela yabo engcono kakhulu yokuqedela lo msebenzi. Baphikisana nokuzicabangela bona baze bacabange ngobuciko.
Nakuba imibono yabo ingase ingavumelani ngaso sonke isikhathi umbono wakho ngendlela engcono kakhulu yokuqedela isabelo, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi kungase kube nezindlela eziningi eziphumelelayo zokuthola umsebenzi. Mhlawumbe isisebenzi sizofika ngendlela engcono.
Funda ukwethula izabelo ezintsha njengenselele. Chaza ukuthi inkinga ebalulekile kufanele ixazululwe noma ithuba lokufezeka. Uma kunokwenzeka, chaza imigomo yesabelo. Futhi-ke, sondela eminye yemibuzo ephumelela kakhulu yomphathi: " Ufuna ukuhamba kanjani ngokubhekana nalesi sabelo? "
Sebenzisa imibuzo elandelwayo , kufaka phakathi:
- Yini oyibona ukuthi iyindlela ehlukile yokuqeda lesi sabelo?
- Yiziphi zezindlela ongase uzibone ukuthi uzothatha?
- Yiziphi izinzuzo ezithinta indlela yakho?
- Yiziphi ezinye zezingozi ezingase zibe khona?
- Ngisiphi usizo ozodinga kimi noma kwabanye?
Imibuzo yakho evulekile ivulela abasebenzi bakho amandla. Esikhundleni sokuzifuna ukuba zivumelane nombono wazo wendlela yakho, ubakhuthaza ukuba bacabange kabanzi ngomsebenzi kanye nemiphumela yezindlela ezahlukene. Ukuzimisela kwakho ukuwavumela ukuthi bakhethe indlela kubonisa ukuthi uyabethemba ukuthi benze izinqumo ezinhle. Inselele yakho yokucabanga ngezingozi ezingase zibe khona yandisa amathuba okugwema noma ukunciphisa lezo zingozi.
Yenza Okucacile Ngomphumela Ohlosiwe
Imiyalo ngokuvamile icacile ngenkathi ichaza umsebenzi kanye nemiphumela oyifunayo ishiya indawo yokuhumusha. Ngakho uma unikeza imiyalo esikhundleni se-oda, udinga ukuchaza ngokucacile imiphumela ehlosiwe.
Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Ngingathanda ukuthi ubuyekeze idatha yenyanga edlule bese ubuyela kimi kuyo," yiba necacile. Isibonelo, ungathi, " Ngicela ubuyekeze idatha yenyanga eyedlule." Ngingathanda ukuzwa ukuhlaziywa kwakho kwedatha nezincomo ngendlela okufanele siqhubeke ngayo. Ithimba labaphathi lifuna imibono yethu emayelana nokutshalwa kwephrojekthi entsha Imizamo lapha ibaluleke kakhulu kulolu hlelo. Umhlangano ungowesine, ngakho-ke uma uqedela lokhu ngoLwesibili, kusinika isikhathi sokukhuluma ngeziphumo zakho kanye nezincomo phakathi nomhlangano wethu wamasonto onke ngoLwesithathu ekuseni.
Uma ubeka isiqondiso, qokomisa njalo:
- Yini oyicelayo.
- Ukusetshenziswa noma umongo wesabelo.
- Imiphumela ehlosiwe.
- Isikhathi sesikhathi noma njengoba sidingeka, usuku oluthile olufanele.
- Ukwazisa kwakho imizamo yomuntu.
Uma ama-oda ayamukeleka
Okungekho emthethweni othi "Unganiki umyalo" kufaka phakathi izimo ezihilela ukuphuthumayo noma impilo noma ukuphepha kwabantu ngabanye. Imiyalo efanele ngesikhathi esifanele ingasindisa izimpilo, ivimbele ukulimala, futhi igweme izinhlekelele ezingase zibe khona. Ukusuka emasosheni kuya emthethweni ukuqhuma umlilo noma igumbi lesimo esiphuthumayo esibhedlela noma ukuqhutshwa kokuhlinzwa, kukhona izimo lapho kudingeka khona imiyalo eqondile. Kodwa-ke, uma imvelo yakho ingenangqondo kakhulu kunezimo, sebenzisa ama-oda kancane.
Okubalulekile:
Umsebenzi wakho njengomphathi ukwenza izinto zenziwe. Noma kunjalo, kusho futhi ukwenza izinto zenziwe ngabanye. Uma unikeza imiyalo, ukhawulela iqembu kwizinga lakho lobuchwepheshe. Uma unikeza imiyalo, uvumela abasebenzi ukuba banikele noma yini abangayenza. Ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho uqala ukunikeza i-oda, nikeza iziqondiso esikhundleni salokho. Tshela lo msebenzi ngokucacile lokho ofuna ukukwenza. Bavumele bahlole ukuthi bangayenza kanjani. Kuyisisombululo esingcono kunazo zonke zombili.