Thola Izithakazelo Zakho Zokungazi ukuthi Uzisebenzise Kakhulu, Abasebenzi Abafanelekile Kakhulu
Kodwa, njengoba uPressner ekhomba, wayenenzuzo engazi lutho. Uqaphele lokhu lapho eqaphela ukuthi wayezophatha isicelo somuntu wesilisa sokubheka isinxephezelo sakhe ngokuhlukile kunesicelo esifanayo nesicelo esifanayo nesilungu sabasebenzi besifazane .
Wayehlale ecabanga ukuthi uyingcweti yabesifazane ebukhosini kodwa waqaphela ngaleso sikhathi ukuthi wayeziphatha ngokuhlukile kunalokho ayecabanga ukuthi uzokwenza. Cishe, ufana nokungazi lutho.
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I-Unit Equing Challenge Unit ichaza ukungabi nalutho okulandelayo:
"Ukukhathazeka okungaqondile noma okungazi lutho kwenzeka yizinhliziyo zethu zokwenza izahlulelo ezisheshayo kanye nokuhlolwa kwabantu nezimo ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Ukukhathazeka kwethu kuthonywa imvelaphi yethu, imvelo yamasiko, kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Singase singazi ngisho nalezi mbono nemibono, noma siqaphele umthelela wabo kanye nemiphumela yabo. "
Wonke umuntu ufika etafuleni enokungazi lutho, futhi angathinta ngokuphawulekayo indlela oqashayo nokuqasha ngayo, ngaphandle kokuba wazi ukuthi lezi zizathu ezingenakuqonda ziyathinta izinqumo zakho.
Yeka ukuthi i-Bias engaziwa ithinta kanjani ukuhlolwa kokuqalisa
Abaningi abaqashile bachitha isikhathi esingaphansi kweminithi ngaphambi kokuthi bangabe baqala ukuqhubeka noma bathathe isinqumo sokuthi baqhubeke befunda.
Lokho kubuyekezwa okusheshayo kusho ukuthi ukungabi nandaba kwethu kudlala.
Ucwaningo oludumile lwango-2003 olubizwa ngokuthi "Ingabe u-Emily noGreg More Basebenzisa ukwedlula uLisha noJamal? Isivivinyo Sensimu Emkhakheni Wezabasebenzi Ukucwaswa "kutholakale ukuthi abantu abanamagama ajwayelekile okuthiwa" abamnyama "babengenakuthola kakhulu ukuthola impendulo ekubuyiseleni kunomuntu onegama" elimhlophe "elivamile.
Nokho, esikhathini eside esidlule, futhi mhlawumbe izinto zishintshile. Baye, kodwa hhayi ngokuqinisekile. Ucwaningo lwango-2016 luthole ukuthi lo mthelela uphelile, kodwa kukhona i-caveat eqinile: bashintshe amagama okuqala esifundweni. Basebenzisa iWashington neJefferson njengamagama okugcina abakhethiweyo abamnyama, u-Anderson no-Thompson abakhethiweyo abaMhlophe, noGarcia noHernandez kubalingani baseSpanishi.
Kodwa, amagama okuqala abakhethiweyo abaMhlophe nabaNtshonalanga kwakungamagama athandwayo emphakathini omhlophe (uMegan noBrian for the White candidates kanye noCloe kanye noRyan ngenxa yabakhethi abamnyama).
Ngakho-ke, ingabe i-bias yaphela ngempela , noma ingabe abantu bengazi ukuthi amaphesenti angama-90 okuthi "i-Washingtons" namaphesenti angama-75 "aseJeffersons" amnyama? Nokho, abalingiswa baseSpanishi babenamazwi okuqala aseSpanishi: U-Isabella noCarlos. Ucwaningo alutholanga lutho lokubandlulula ngokubandlululwa kwabaseSpanishi, uma kuqhathaniswa nabaqashi abamhlophe.
Kodwa, uhlanga akuyona kuphela into ebonakalayo ongayifaka ngayo isikrini . Ubudala nobulili nakho kuncike ekunciphiseni kwethu okungazi lutho .
Umuntu obhekene nolwazi oluyiminyaka engama-30 olubalwe ekubuyiseni kwakhe cishe usekhulile kunomuntu obhekene nesipiliyoni seminyaka emihlanu. Umuntu onesiqu sekolishi kusukela ngo-1982 cishe usemdala kunomunye ngezinga elivela ngo-2013.
U-Jennifer usuke eqinisekisiwe ukuba ngowesifazane ngenkathi uSteven eqinisekisiwe ukuba yindoda. Ngisho ngaphandle kwezinsuku, ungakwazi ukuqagela ukuthi uJennifer usemdala kuno-Emma, ngokususelwa ekuthandeni kwegama ngezikhathi ezahlukene.
Izisulu ezingenakuqaphela ekuxoxweni
"Mfana, ulaka kakhulu, akunjalo?"
"Uyaqiniseka ngamakhono akhe! Ngangithanda ukuthi wasikhathaza kanjani! "
Ungenza lezi zitatimende ezimbili mayelana nabakhethiweyo ababili abaziphatha ngokufanayo, kodwa ungalindela izinto ezahlukene ezivela emadodeni nakwabesifazane.
Uma umuntu ozayo efika futhi ngokusobala kakhulu ngokweqile, ingabe uyazibuza ukuthi uyazivilapha yini?
Uma oshaywayo engena ngesitulo sabakhubazekile, uyazibuza ukuthi uzoqhubeka kanjani nokuhamba komsebenzi wakho okusheshayo?
Ukungazi lutho kwakho kuthinta indlela obona ngayo futhi uhumushe konke okushiwo oshaywayo noma owenzayo.
Udinga ukucabangela ozobhalwa ohlala phambi kwakho futhi ungavumeli umlando wakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kuthinte isahlulelo sakho.
Indlela Yokulungisa Izithiyo Zakho Ezingazi
Akunakwenzeka ukuzisusa emlandweni wakho nakumasiko wakho , kodwa, kodwa ukuqaphela ukukhathazeka kwakho yisinyathelo sokuqala. U-presser weza nesisombululo esisebenza kahle. Uyibiza ngokuthi "Flip it ukuze uyivivinye."
Uma ufonela owesifazane oshayisayo oshayisanayo ngokubambisana ngokuzikhandla ngomholo, flip ukuze uhlole uma uzobe unikezela leyo ncazelo kumuntu onzima-wokuxoxisana. Uma ucabanga, "umfana oweqile kakhulu kumele abe ovilaphayo," flip it ukuyihlola. Uma ungacabangi ngokuzenzakalela ukuthi umuntu onobuciko ubuvila, khona-ke yizinkathazo zakho ezihambayo.
Uma uthi, " Kudingeka siqashe abesifazane abaningi " flip lokho futhi bathi "sidinga ukuqasha amadoda amaningi." Uma lelo gama lokugcina lizwakala ubulili, uyazi ukuthi isitatimende sokuqala sithandana naye.
Lokhu kuvivinywa akukhawulelwanga ekuziphatheni kobuhlanga nobulili. "Lo mbuzo kumele abe ngcono kunomunye ngoba waya eHarvard kanti omunye waya e-Ohio State." Flip lokho bese ucabanga ngakho.
Yebo, uyazi ukuthi lowo ozoya eHarvard wayeneziqu ezincane zemfundo kodwa awukwazi ukuthi ummeleli wase-Ohio State uneziqu ezifanayo zemfundo futhi wenza ukhetho oluhlukile. Awunawo nomqondo wokuthi ngabe iziqu zemfundo, amadigri, noma ukukhethwa kwesikhungo kwenza noma ubani ozobhapathizwa kahle emsebenzini oqasheyo ukugcwalisa.
Uma uvumela ukungazi lutho kwakho kuthonye izinqumo zakho zokwenza izinqumo, uzolahlekelwa ngabalingani abaningi abakhulu futhi usebenzise ingozi yokuqasha isisebenzi esibheka wonke amabhokisi akho okuzikhethela okulungile kodwa awukwazi ukwenza lo msebenzi.