Ukuqashwa kwabasebenzi abazokwenza kahle inhlangano yakho kuyinselele
Uzofuna ukubuka izimpawu ezingekho emthethweni ezikutshela ngesimo sengqondo somuntu, umbono, izithakazelo, nokusondela. Bakhuluma kakhudlwana kunokukhulumisana ngamazwi ngesikhathi senqubo yokuxoxisana. Ukukhulumisana okungaxhunywanga kukusiza ukuthi uqinisekise ngokuqiniseka iziqiniseko zomuntu ngamunye ngokuphathelene nalokhu:
- amakhono adingekayo ukwenza umsebenzi,
- izici zokuziphatha ozibonayo njengokudingekile ukuze uphumelele emsebenzini, futhi
- isiko kanye nemvelo yenhlangano yakho.
Lezi yizibonelo zokukhulumisana okungahleliwe okudingayo ukuze unake futhi uzwe "Ungakholelwa lokho okubonayo; okokuqala okuvelayo.
Ukuqala kokuqala
Amaminithi ambalwa okuqala kunoma yikuphi ukubekwa kwengxoxo kubaluleke kakhulu kangangokuthi cishe akukho lutho olubalulekile. Ubheka umqashi futhi uqaphele yonke imilayezo engafani ukuxhumana naye. Ufake ukuveza okuvela ekuthunjweni komfundi, ukubambisana, ukugqoka kanye nezesekeli, ukusebenzisa isikhala, ukulalela, ukuxhumana kwamehlo , nesimo sobuso.
Futhi-ke, ulalela lokho akushoyo ekuphenduleni imibuzo yakho.
Ukuthutha nokusetshenziswa kwesikhala
Ingabe u-candidate wakho uhlezi kahle kodwa eqondile, kodwa hhayi ngokuqinile, esihlalweni sakhe? Ingabe uyahamba ngokuzethemba? Kungenzeka ukuthi uyaqiniseka futhi ukhululekile naye. Ukuthuma okuthungayo kukhuluma ngokukhulu ngomsebenzi ophansi futhi ukuzithoba.
I-posture eyenza umuntu ukuba athathe inani elifanele lesikhala ekamelweni likutshela ukuthi umfakisicelo uvikelekile emakhono akhe. Ukuhleleka kwesimo se-sloppy kunika umbono we-low energy nokunganaki. Lalela.
Ukuthinta ngesandla
Phawula ukuthi ngabe umklomelo wakho unobuningi obuqinile, obomile, obuqinile. Kanti futhi, umuntu othembekile, okhululekile usebenzisa ukuxhawula njengendlela yokuxhumana engaqondile. Ukubamba ngesandla kufanele kukuqinisekise ngesifiso somfundi sokuthi ukuxhumana nokuqala kokuqala kulungile. Ukubamba ngesandla kusikhombisa ukuzethemba okuphansi nokuzethemba okuphansi. Ukubamba ngesandla okunamandla kungakutshela ukuthi umuntu unonya kakhulu noma uzama ukukuhambisa.
Izembatho nezesekeli
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungayifaka kanjani indawo yakho yomsebenzi, umqeqeshi womsebenzi odingekayo kufanele agqoke isamba emhlanganweni wakhe wokuqala. Isembatho esikhethiwe sikutshela ukuthi ozobhapathizwa uzoxhumana kanjani futhi abonakale ngamakhasimende.
Izesekeli ezikhethiwe noma ubuchwepheshe be-telegraph - noma abenzi. Isikhwama, iphothifoliyo lesikhumba, ipeni elihle, isikhwama sesikhumba kanye nezicathulo ezikhanyayo kubonakala ngokuqinile, ubuchwepheshe. Bakutshela ozobhalwa ukuthi unakekele ngokwanele ukuze afune ukwenza umbono omuhle wokuqala.
Ama-Makeup, i-perfume, ne-jewelry, agqoke kahle, anganezela ekuboneni kwakho kobuchwepheshe babo.
Amanunci angcolile noma izicathulo ezihlanjululwe zikusho ukuthi umuntu akanandaba, futhi ugijimele, noma angazi ukuthi unabo abanye. Akukuhle.
Ngaphandle kwalokho, uma ozobhapathizwa ezama ukubonakala epholile futhi ochwepheshe kulolu daba - futhi engenzi - lokhu kungase kube kuhle njengoba kuthola. Nquma ukuthi yini esebenza enhlanganweni yakho, futhi ukhethe okukhethwa kukho . Izambatho zokukhethwa kanye nezesekeli ezikhethiweyo ziyihlobo lokukhulumisana okunamandla okungaqondile. Lalela uma uqasha. Ukulalela, ukuxhumana kwamehlo, ulimi lomzimba kanye nesimo sokubukeka kungukuxhumana okungaxhunywanga okungakutshela okuningi mayelana nabakhokhelwayo ocabanga ukuthi uyaqasha.
Ukulalela nokuxhumana Kwamehlo
Buka ukuziphatha okulalelayo nokusebenzisana kokhetho lwakho. Kufanele enze njengokungathi uzinikezele kancane kancane esihlalweni sakhe ukuvala ibanga phakathi kwakhe nomuntu obuza imibuzo.
Ufuna ukuqasha umuntu ozobhapathizwa ongakwazi ukubeka kahle iphothifoliyo yakhe etafuleni lakho ukuze uthathe amanothi, kodwa ungathathi isikhala sakho esiningi. Ufuna isisebenzi esingakwazi ukugcina ukuxhumana kwamehlo okunethezeka ngaphandle kokuqala noma ukuphoqelelwa ukuba uqaphele.
Uma lowo ozobhalwa naye echitha ingxoxo ngamehlo akhe ehamba egumbini lonke, engaqabukeli ukukubuka, lokhu kungabonisa ukungabi nokuzethemba - noma okubi - akakhathaleli. Esikhathini eside, ukuthintana kwamehlo okuphoqeleka kungabonisa umuntu ohlukumezayo ongakhathaleli ngenduduzo yakho. Futhi, uma engakhathaleli ngenduduzo yakho ngesikhathi sokuxoxisana, lokho kuziphatha ngeke kube ngcono uma umqasha.
Lalela futhi izimpendulo zophikisana nombuzo wakho. Uke wezwa umbuzo wakho? Ingabe uphendule ngokulandelanayo futhi wabelane ngezindaba, noma ungeke uphume ngesihloko? Omunye ukhuluma nawe ukuthi ulungele ukuxoxisana futhi unezindaba zokuphumelela ezabelwana ngazo. Izimpawu zokugcina zingakakulungeli, zikhululekile, noma azikhathaleli ngokwanele ukunaka.
Izinkulumo Esibuso Nelimi Lomzimba
"Okwenzayo kukhulume kakhulu kangangokuthi angikwazi ukuzwa ukuthi uthini," kusho uRalph Waldo Emerson kwelinye lamaphuzu angithandayo. Futhi, akukho okunye okufana nokuxhumana njengokubukeka kwesimo sobuso kanye nomzimba womzimba wabalingani bakho. Izincwadi zonke ziye zabhalwa ukuhumusha ubuso nesimo somzimba. Isihluthulelo sokulalela ukukhulumisana kwabo okungabonakali kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuso babo nomzimba wabo balinganisa kanjani amagama akhulunywe.
Izinkulumo zobuso ezihluleka ukufanisa amagama akhulunywe zingabonisa ukungahambi kahle noma ukuqamba amanga - azikho ukuziphatha okufiselekayo kumuntu ozobhapathizwa. Okhethiwe ongaqaphelani iso futhi ekhuluma nendawo ehlombe lakho akukhathazeki futhi ubonisa ukungabi nokuzethemba. Ufuna ukuqasha isisebenzi esibhekene nesimo saso sihambisana nokugcina amagama akhe.
Ulimi lomzimba lukhuluma kakhulu, futhi. Ingabe lowo ozobhapathizwa egxile esihlalweni sakhe nemilenze yakhe iwela emadolweni? Ukhululekile kakhulu ngokuhlelwa kwengxoxo. Ingabe uthathe idesksi lakho lonke ngezingalo zakhe nezesekeli? Unamandla kakhulu.
Uyancika emuva ngezandla zakhe ewela ngemuva kwekhanda lakhe? Lokhu kungukuziphatha okubudlova kokuxoxisana ngokweqile. Ungalindeli ukuziphatha okungacindezeli okuncane uma umqasha. Uma lowo ozobhalwa esitatimendeni futhi ebheka kude nawe noma ebonakala esaba, cishe akekho okhuluma iqiniso. Uma ebuka emehlweni akho njengoba ekhuluma indaba yakhe, kungenzeka ukuthi uyakha.
Uma ethinta ipeni lakhe njalo, ephikisana nezingubo zakhe ekugcineni kwawo wonke umusho, eshaya izinwele zakhe yonke imizuzu embalwa, uthumela zonke izinhlobo zemilayezo ngokukhathazeka kwakhe - ngesilungiselelo sokuxoxisana noma namakhono akhe namakhono ngokujwayelekile? Kunzima ukutshela. Lalela lokho abakushoyo.
Isiphetho
Ukuxoxisana nokuqasha abantu abazoba abasebenzi abasebenza kahle enhlanganweni yakho kuyinselele. Ukulalela ukuxhumana okungabonakali kwabakhansela bakho kungakutshela okuningi mayelana nabakhetho njengamazwi abo awakhulumile, izinkomba zabo, nolwazi lwabo. Izindaba zokuxhumana ezingenasibindi.