Akunandaba ukuthi uke wathengisa iminyaka engama-20 noma imizuzu engu-20, ukwesaba kuyingxenye cishe cishe yonke imisebenzi yomsebenzi wokuthengisa. Nakuba ukwesaba ukudayiswa kungase kubonakale njengendlela eqinisekisiwe yokuhluleka ekuthengiseni, abaningi abaphumelele kakhulu ekuthengiseni babenokwesaba okufanayo ukuthi i-rookie yokuthengisa kabusha kanye nabachwepheshe abahlukumezayo. Umehluko kuphela ukuthi ochwepheshe bezokuthengisa abaphezulu baye bahlakulela amasu okudlulela ukwesaba kwabo.
Iqiniso liwukuthi uma uzama ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakho, awukho wedwa. Ukwazi lokhu yedwa ngokuvamile kunganika amandla.
01 Qaphela ukuthi awunjalo
02 Hlonipha Ngokumesaba Kwakho
Izazi zengqondo zizokutshela ukuthi isinyathelo sokuqala sokunqoba inselelo ukwamukela ukuthi inselelo ikhona. Ukwenqaba ukuthi ukwesaba ngenye ingxenye yomsebenzi wakho wokuthengisa kuyindlela enhle yokuqinisekisa ukuthi awunqobe ukwesaba noma ukudala isikhathi eside ekusebenziseni ukwesaba kwakho.
Ukuthembeka kumakhasimende akho kuyinto ebalulekile yokuphumelela kwesikhathi eside ekuthengiseni futhi ukwethembeka kuwe kuyisici esibalulekile sokuzigcwalisa isikhathi eside.
Ukuvuma ukuthi ukwesaba kudinga ukubeka i-ego yakho kumshini wokushisa emuva. Kodwa ukwethembeka mayelana nokuthi ukwesaba kungase kubonise ukuthi ungakunqoba kanjani ukwesaba kwakho.
03 Khetha ukwesaba kwakho ngaphandle
Kukhona into ehle kakhulu mayelana nokwesaba: ngokuvamile babonakala bekhudlwana kunabo. Abaningi bethu bathambekele ekudluleleni ngokweqile ukwesaba kwethu kuze kube yilapho sinomuzwa wokuthi asikwazi ukunqoba.
Kodwa uma uthatha isikhathi sokukhetha ukwesaba kwakho, cishe uzoqala ukubona ukuthi ukwesaba kwakho okwakubonakala kunzima kakhulu ukunqoba, kuncane kunalokho okucabangayo.
Ngokuphindaphindiwe, "ukwesaba" kwakho "kunesibindi" esivela engqondweni yakho kuphela ngoba "ukwesaba okuyisisekelo." Lokhu kwesaba okuhambisanayo kudalwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi kuvame ukusiza ukuzethemba ukwesaba kwakho. Uma uqala ukubheka ngobuqotho lezi zimo ezihambisanayo, cishe uzoqala ukuzizwa ukuthi lezi akuzona izindawo zokumesaba.
Gwema ngokwanele lezi zimo ezihambisanayo, futhi ukwesaba okuyisisekelo ngeke kubonakale kusabisa.
04 Yenza Lokho Owesabayo
Le nkinga isekelwe eqinisweni eliyisisekelo: uma wenza okuthile okwesaba ukukwenza, uzibonakalisa ukuthi ungakwazi ukunqoba okuthile nokuthi ukwesaba kwakho kungenzeka, into engqondweni yakho.
Ukwesaba okunempilo kwezinto ezithile kungcono, kunempilo. Kodwa zimbalwa kakhulu (uma zikhona) izinto ezisemsebenzini wokuthengisa ofanelwe ukwesaba ngempela.
Izinkolelo ezimbili ezivame ukubhekana nazo ekuthengiseni ukuthi ukwesaba ukulahlwa nokwesaba ukukhuluma ngomphakathi. Ekuthengiseni, ukulahlwa kuvamile kakhulu. Ungabaza lesi sitatimende ucabangela ukuthi imijikelezo eminingi yokuthengisa iphelela ekudayiseni okulahlekile. Kwabaningi, ukuvala ukudayiswa kusho ukulahlwa. Iqiniso liwukuthi ukulahlekelwa ukuthengiswa kusho ukuthi ikhasimende lakhetha ikhambi elihlukile kodwa ukulahlekelwa ukudayiswa akusho ukuthi abakunikhethi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukungatholi ukuqashwa, ukudayiswa, ukudluliselwa noma ukukhushulwa , akusho ukuthi unqatshiwe: kusho ukuthi awukhethiwanga. Umehluko lukhulu kakhulu.
Ngokuqondene nokukhuluma komphakathi, kunamakhulu ezinsizakalo ukukusiza ukunqoba ukwesaba kwakho. Indlela engcono kakhulu ethatha isinyathelo "sezingane". Kusho ukuzibeka ngamabomu esimweni lapho wazi ukuthi kuzodingeka ukhulume phambi kwabanye. Noma kunjalo, faka izethulo zakho ngezethameli ezikhula kancane. Qala ngo-2 noma ku-3 futhi, uma uzizwa ukhululekile, wandise izethameli zakho zibe ngu-5 noma 6. Kungakabiphi, uzobe ukhululekile ukuletha phambi kwehholo eligcwele lamakhasimende angeke akwenqabe!